Iningi lezinqumo zethu, imizwa kanye nokuziphatha kulawulwa yizinqubo zokuquleka. Sondeza oqulekile.

Ukuqaphela kanye nokungazi lutho kukhomba imikhakha yomsebenzi womqondo, noma i-psyche, ecwaningwa nge-psychoanalysis.

Ukuqaphela yisimo somuntu ozaziyo ukuthi ungubani, ukuphi, ukuthi yini angayenza noma angakwazi ukuyenza esimweni azithola ekuso. Ngokuvamile, ikhono “lokuzibona” nokuziqaphela emicabangweni nasezenzweni zakho. Ukuquleka yilokho okubalekela ukwazi.

Ukuquleka kuchaza lokho okuhlobene nezinqubo zangempela esingenawo umuzwa, esingazi ukuthi zenzeka kithi, ngaleso sikhathi lapho zenzeka. 

Ukuzalwa kwe-psychoanalysis no-Sigmund Freud ehlotshaniswa ne-hypothesis yokungazi lutho: ingxenye yempilo yethu yengqondo (okungukuthi ngomsebenzi wengqondo yethu) esingaphendula ezindleleni zokungazi lutho thina, izihloko eziqaphelayo, esingazenza. abanalo ulwazi olucacile nolusheshayo. 

USigmund Freud wabhala ngo-1915 kwethi Metapsychology: “[Umbono onganakile] uyadingeka, ngoba imininingwane yolwazi ayiphelele kakhulu; Endodeni enempilo kanye nasesigulini, izenzo zemilingo zivame ukwenzeka, okuthi, uma zichazwe, zicabange ezinye izenzo, zona, ezingazuzi ebufakazini bukanembeza. […] Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kwansuku zonke kusibeka ebukhoneni bemibono esiza kithi ngaphandle kokwazi umsuka wayo kanye nemiphumela yemicabango ukukhula kwayo okuhlale kufihliwe kithi. “

KuFreud, ukuquleka yizinkumbulo ezicindezelwe ezicutshungulwa, zona ngokwazo ziqulekile, futhi ezifuna ngazo zonke izindleko ukuze zizibonakalise ekwazini ngokudlula ukubonga ngenxa yezinqubo zokucasha ezenza zingabonakali (izenzo ezihlulekile, ukushelela, amaphupho, izimpawu isifo). 

Ukuhlola okuningi kokusebenza kwengqondo kubonisa ukuthi ukuquleka kunamandla kakhulu nokuthi izindlela zokuquleka ziyasebenza ekuziphatheni kwethu okuningi, ukukhetha kwethu, izinqumo. Asikwazi ukulawula lokhu kuquleka. I-psychoanalysis kuphela esivumela ukuthi siqonde izingxabano zethu zangaphakathi. I-Psychoanalysis iqhubeka ngokudalula umthombo wokungqubuzana kokungazi "okucindezelwe" okubangela ukuphazamiseka okukhona. 

Ukuzama ukuhlaziya amaphupho ethu, ukushelela, izenzo ezihlulekile… kubalulekile ngoba kusivumela ukuthi sizwe izifiso zethu ezicindezelwe, ngaphandle kokuthi sizanelise! Ngempela, uma bengezwakali, bangaphenduka uphawu olungokomzimba.