“Ngisho noma ukukhulelwa kwami kuhambe kahle ngokwezempilo, enganeni kanye nakimi futhi (ngaphandle kwezifo zakudala: isicanucanu, iqolo, ukukhathala…), ngangingakuthandi ukukhulelwa. Kuphakama imibuzo eminingi kakhulu kulokhu kukhulelwa kokuqala, indima yami entsha njengomama: ngizobuyela emsebenzini ngemva kwalokho? Ingabe ukuncelisa kuzolunga? Ngabe ngizotholakala ngokwanele ubusuku nemini ukuze ngimncelise? Ngizobhekana kanjani nokukhathala? Imibuzo eminingi ngobaba futhi. Ngezwa ukudabuka kanye nomuzwa wokungaqondwa ngethimba lami. Ikona sengathi ngilahlekile…”
UMorgan
“Yini engihluphayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?” Ukuntula inkululeko (yokunyakaza namaphrojekthi), futhi ikakhulukazi isikhundla esibuthakathaka lokho okucabangayo futhi okungenakwenzeka ukukufihla! ”
Emilia
“Ukukhulelwa kuyinto usizi lwangempela. Sengathi kwase kuphele izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye singasekho! Ngangingeyena mina, akukho okujabulisayo engangingakwenza. Kufana nokuquleka, asikho nhlobo esiyindilinga njengebhola. Abukho iphathi, abukho utshwala, ngangikhathele ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngingenazo izingubo ezinhle zowesifazane okhulelwe futhi ... Ngaba nokucindezeleka okwathatha izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye. Nokho, Ngiyayithanda indodana yami ngokuhlanya futhi ngingumama kakhulu. Umngane wami ufuna ingane yesibili, ngamtshela kahle, inqobo nje uma kunguye oyithwele! ”
Marion
" Anginayo wayengakuthandi neze ukukhulelwa, naphezu kokukhulelwa abaningi ababezongihawukela. Ngaba nesicanucanu esivamile kanye nokukhathala kwekota yokuqala, kodwa angizange ngikuthole kubi kangako, kuyingxenye yomdlalo. Nokho, ezinyangeni ezilandelayo, indaba ehlukile. Okokuqala, ukunyakaza kwengane, ekuqaleni ngakuthola kungajabulisi, kwathi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, Ngakuthola kubuhlungu (Ngahlinzwa isibindi, isibazi sami singama-20 cm futhi, ngokungenakugwenywa, umntwana wayekhula ngaphansi kwaso). Ngenyanga edlule, ngavuka ebusuku ngikhala ngezinhlungu ... Ngemva kwalokho, asisakwazi ukunyakaza ngendlela evamile, ukugqoka amabhuzu ami kwakuthatha isikhathi eside, kwadingeka ngizibhuquze nhlangothi zonke ukuze ekugcineni ngibone ukuthi inkonyane lalivuvukele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, asisakwazi ukuthwala noma yini esindayo, lapho sikhulisa izilwane, kufanele sicele usizo lwe-haystack eneshwa, umuntu uba ngoncike, akujabulisi neze!
Angizange ngilokothe ngisho ukuthi ngokokuziphatha kwakungalungile, ngokwesaba ukushaqisa abantu. Wonke umuntu ucabanga ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuyinjabulo ephelele, singakuchaza kanjani ukuthi sikuthola kunengeka? Futhi okunye, icala lokwenza umntanami azizwe kanjalo, engangivele ngiyithanda ngaphezu kwanoma yini. Nganginovalo olukhulu lokuthi intombazanyana yami izozizwa ingathandwa. Kuthe kusenjalo, ngachitha isikhathi sami ngikhuluma nesisu sami, ngimtshela ukuthi akuyena owangiphatha kabi, kodwa ngangingasakwazi ukulinda ukumbona mathupha kunokuba ngimbone esiswini. Ngethula isigqoko sami kumyeni wami, oye wangisekela futhi wangiduduza phakathi nalesi sikhathi, kanye nomama nomngane wami omkhulu. Ngaphandle kwabo, Ngicabanga ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwami ngabe sekuphenduke ukucindezeleka. Ngeluleka bonke omama bakusasa abazithola bekulesi simo ukuthi bakhulume ngaso. Lapho ekugcineni ngikwazi ukutshela abantu indlela engangizizwa ngayo, Ngigcine ngizwe abantu besifazane abaningi bethi “uyazi nami angikuthandanga lokho”… Akumele ukukholelwe lokho, ngoba awukuthandi ukukhulelwa, ngeke wazi ukuthi uyithanda kanjani ingane yakho… ”
Zulfaa