Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi izingane zamukela kakhudlwana emisha ehlukahlukene kunabantu abadala, futhi zibamba isikhala se-inthanethi ngokushesha okukhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali baqonde ukuthi ukwenqabela izingane zabo ukusebenzisa i-inthanethi nezinkundla zokuxhumana akusizi, lokhu kuzodala ulaka nokungaqondi emndenini. Kuyadingeka ukuchazela ingane ukuthi yini eyingozi ngempela kunethiwekhi.
Yiziphi izingozi ezinganeni?
Izingosi zokuxhumana zinethonya elikhulu ekuthuthukisweni kobuntu bengane. Futhi lokhu kuthinta izindawo eziningi. Indlela yezingane yobungane nobudlelwano bomuntu siqu ingaba inkimbinkimbi ekuphileni kwangempela kunobungani bazo be-inthanethi. Ngokuthintana okuqondile, izingane zivame ukungakwazi amakhono azo okuxhumana nabantu. Izingane eziyimilutha yenkundla yezokuxhumana zingase zibe nezinkinga zokufunda, ukubhala, ukugxilisa ingqondo nenkumbulo, zibe namakhono ampofu emisipha, futhi zinciphise ubuhlakani obuvela ngokwemvelo ekudlaleni kwendabuko kanye nolwazi lwangempela lomhlaba. Ingane ewumlutha we-inthanethi ichitha isikhathi esincane ikhuluma nomndeni, ngakho abazali bangase bangaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani kubo ngokomzwelo futhi bangase bangaboni izimpawu zokucindezeleka noma zokukhathazeka. Ingozi enkulu ku-inthanethi ngabantu abafuna ukusizakala ngezingane ngokocansi noma ukweba imininingwane yabo, kanye nobuxhwanguxhwangu be-inthanethi.
Abazali kufanele futhi bacabangele ukuthi indlela yokuphila yengane enomlutha we-inthanethi iba yinto engenzi lutho, ingozi yokuthola izifo zesistimu yenhliziyo, ukuzuza isisindo kanye nokungalali kahle kuyanda. Kuphinde kwandise ingozi yezingozi, ngoba, ukugqolozela ocingweni, ingane ayinaki lokho okumzungezile.
Ukuxhumana nengane
Kunconywa ukunikeza ingane ukufinyelela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana lapho isivele ikwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuyingozi nokuwusizo. Lokhu kuqonda kwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka eyi-14-15. Kodwa-ke, izingane ezikule minyaka zisaqhubeka nokubunjwa, ngakho ukugadwa kwabantu abadala kuyadingeka. Ukuze ingane ingangeni ogibeni lwe-World Wide Web, ukuxhumana nabantu abangaziwa, kuyadingeka ukuqhuba inkhulumomphendvulwano naye. Kubalulekile ukumchazela ukuthi kunezingosi ezisabalalisa izithombe ezingcolile, ubufebe, ukudlwengula, ukubiza ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, utshwala, ukusebenzisa ubudlova, ubudlova, ukuzonda noma ubani, unya ezilwaneni, futhi eziholela ekuzibulaleni.
Uma unikezwe izici zeminyaka yobudala, tshela izingane ngesibopho sobugebengu kwezinye zalezi zenzo. Kungcono uma usebenzisa isibonelo sakho ukuchaza ingane yakho ukuthi kungani, isibonelo, ungazisebenzisi izidakamizwa, njengabantu abaningi abavamile nabanempilo enhle. Khuluma nengane yakho kaningi mayelana nendlela impilo enhle ngayo ekubonakalisweni kwayo okunempilo kanye nokukhulumisana okulungile. Chaza ukuthi izinkundla zokuxhumana zizama ukuthola imininingwane eyimfihlo ngomgunyathi, futhi lokhu kusongela abazali ngokulahlekelwa yimali. Lahla inganekwane engaba khona mayelana nokungaziwa ku-inthanethi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sitshele ngezingozi zokushintsha ukuxhumana bukhoma nontanga nge-electronics, ikakhulukazi ukuxhumana nabantu abangaziwa. Chazela ingane yakho ukuthi ngenxa yokuba umlutha we-inthanethi, ubuchopho nemisipha yomzimba kuba kubi kakhulu. Kunezimo lapho izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 ubudala ezithanda amagajethi isikhathi esiningi sokuphila kwazo, ngokuphawulekayo zisalela emuva kontanga, zibonisa inkumbulo empofu, ukunganaki, ukukhathala, ziba buthaka ngokomzimba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubuka izigcawu zobudlova esikrinini kubangela unya ekuziphatheni kwezingane zabo bonke ubudala. Ngakho-ke, zama ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wemvelo wokuzigcina enganeni ukuze ingazulazuli ngokungenangqondo ku-inthanethi ifuna noma yikuphi ukuzijabulisa. Ngesibonelo sakho siqu, bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungasichitha kanjani isikhathi sakho samahhala ngendlela ethakazelisayo newusizo, ngaphandle kwe-inthanethi: vakashela imnyuziyamu noma yaseshashalazini ayithandayo, thenga ndawonye incwadi noma umdlalo awuthandayo, nichithe ukuzijabulisa. ngempelasonto kanye nomndeni wonke edolobheni noma ngaphandle kwedolobha ngokunokwenzeka phesheya. Guqula zonke izimpelasonto zibe umcimbi wangempela. Kungaba izingoma ezinegitala zomndeni wonke, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili nokushushuluza, ukudansa, i-karaoke, imidlalo ehlekisayo, ezicula egcekeni lakho noma lokho okubizwa ngokuthi “i-hangout” yomndeni wasekhaya. Dala uhlelo lwamagugu omndeni wengane yakho, okuzoba nzima ukuthi ahlukane nayo, futhi uthando lwakho oluqotho nokunakekelwa kuzomnikeza ukuqonda ukuthi kunezilingo eziningi ezingabazisayo kunethiwekhi.
Izinkundla zokuxhumana kanye ne-inthanethi zibathinta kanjani izingane, futhi lokhu kuholela emiphi imiphumela?
Ukusetshenziswa kabi kwenkundla yezokuxhumana kanye ne-inthanethi kungaholela ezinganeni ezingavuthiwe, ezithatha ngamawala, ezinganaki, nezingenaluzwela. Lokhu kungase kube nemiphumela ezingeni lokuthuthukiswa kwesimiso sezinzwa esiphakathi. Eminyakeni yokuqala yemfundo, izingane zisebenzisa amakhono ahlukahlukene ekuhloleni umhlaba: ukuthinta, ukuzwa, ukuhlukanisa iphunga. Ukuhlola imizwa kubasiza ukuthi balungise ulwazi nolwazi enkumbulweni, okuyinto izikrini eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ezingabavumeli ukuba bakwenze lapho bexhumana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kukhona nokuwohloka kokulala, njengoba ukukhanya kwesikrini kunciphisa ukukhululwa kwe-melatonin, i-hormone yemvelo eyenza ubuthongo busebenze.
Izindlela zokulawula
Ukuze ulawule umsebenzi wengane kunethiwekhi, faka uhlelo oluthile, vimba ama-URL angadingekile. Uzokwazi kahle ukuthi yimaphi amasayithi onikeze imvume yokufinyelela. Beka ukuvinjelwa kokufaka ulwazi oluyimfihlo. Ungabi budedengu ekukhetheni umhlinzeki, kodwa thola ukuthi uyakwazi yini ukuvikela amakhasimende akhe kubaduni. Naka kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho ixhumana nobani futhi ihlangana nobani. Hlonipha izinto azithandayo, makameme abangani bakhe ekhaya. Ngakho uzobona ukuthi ubani ngempela futhi uxhumana kanjani, yiziphi izithakazelo anazo eqenjini. Ubuhlobo bokwethembana nezingane zakho ngeke bukunike ithuba lokuthola nje kuphela ukuthi baxhumana nobani, kodwa futhi nokuzwakalisa izixwayiso ngabangane abangabafuni esikhathini esizayo. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi izingane nentsha ivame ukuphikisana nabazali bazo ngamaphutha, kodwa ezindabeni ezibalulekile nezinomthwalo wemfanelo umbono wabo uvumelana nowabazali bazo.
Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bahlale beqapha amawebhusayithi izingane zabo ezifinyelela kuwo, balondoloze ukuxhumana njalo futhi bagweme izingozi ezingaba khona ekusebenziseni i-inthanethi phakathi nesikhathi esithile. Ukusetshenziswa kwezinto zikagesi kungakhiywa ngokhiye ukuze kuvinjwe izingane ekuxhumaneni nabantu ezingabazi noma ukwabelana ngolwazi lomuntu siqu.
Yenza isivumelwano
Ngemva kwengxoxo eyimfihlo nengane yakho mayelana nezingozi “nezihibe” zenethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke, mcele ukuba enze isivumelwano esibhaliwe semithetho nezikhathi zokusebenzisa i-Internet, kuhlanganise nezinkundla zokuxhumana. Cabangela ukwenqaba okushesha kwengane ngokwezigaba njengokuthanda nokukhohlisa kwabazali. Bese uzama ukuchaza futhi ukuthi lokhu kungenxa yokuphepha kwakhe kanye nokuthula kwengqondo yabazali bakhe, ukuthi ukugcwaliseka kwezigaba zenkontileka kuzofakazela ukucabangela kwakhe nokuba umuntu omdala. Mema ingane ukuba yenze inkontileka ngokwayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali, abazokwenza okufanayo. Ngemva kwalokho nizohlangana nixoxe ngamaphuzu afanayo nahlukene. Yilesi senzo esizosiza abazali baqonde ukuthi ingane yabo yazi kangakanani ukuthi i-Intanethi ayikona nje ukuzijabulisa. Vumelanani ngokuma kwezigaba futhi nenze isivumelwano esisodwa sokusebenzisa i-inthanethi ngamakhophi amabili: elengane, elesibili ngelabazali, futhi nisayine izinhlangothi zombili. Yiqiniso, lapho usayina inkontileka, ukuba khona kwawo wonke amalungu omndeni kuyimpoqo. Izinto ezilandelayo kufanele zifakwe kulesi sivumelwano: ukusetshenziswa kwe-inthanethi ngokuhambisana nezikhathi ezithile zosuku ngalunye; ukuvinjelwa kokusetshenziswa kwezindawo zegama elithile, isihloko; Izinhlawulo zokwephulwa kwamaphuzu okuvunyelwene ngawo: isibonelo, ukukhawulela ukusetshenziswa kwezinkundla zokuxhumana ngosuku olulandelayo noma isonto lonke; · ukuvinjelwa kokuthumela imininingwane yomuntu siqu: izinombolo zomakhalekhukhwini nezasekhaya, ikheli lasekhaya, indawo yesikole, ikheli lasemsebenzini, izinombolo zocingo zabazali; ukuvinjelwa kokuveza imfihlo yephasiwedi yakho; · ukuvinjelwa kokufinyelela kumafilimu, amawebhusayithi nezithombe zocansi.