Nakuba izinga lokuzala labesifazane baseFrance lingelinye eliphezulu kakhulu eYurophu, imindeni emikhulu isabhekwa njengencane kakhulu. Ngemodeli yomndeni "ejwayelekile" eyakhiwe umbhangqwana kanye nengane eyodwa kuya kwababili, imindeni emikhulu iyindaba yemibono eminingi eyiphutha kanye nokuphawula. Izinzuzo noma ububi bokuba abaningi, wonke umuntu angaba nombono wakhe womndeni ophelele.

Imindeni emikhulu inezinzuzo eziningi zezingane kanye nokukhula kwazo. Ngempela, isimo sezelamani ezinjalo siyavumelana nemidlalo nokwabelana ngobuhlobo obuqinile nobuhlala njalo. Wonke umuntu ufunda ukuphila nabanye futhi uba nomuzwa onamandla wobumbano nabafowabo nodadewabo. Izingane ziyaqonda ukuthi kubalulekile ukwabelana futhi ungadeleli omunye.

Ngamanye amazwi, ngokuvamile kubanika umuzwa wokuzibophezela kanye nomuzwa wokwabelana.

Enye inzuzo ukuthi ukuba khona kwezingane eziningi kuzinikeza ithuba lokudlala zodwa futhi zithole izindlela eziqhubekayo zokuzijabulisa. Akuvamile ukuzwa izingane zakini ezinjalo zithi “ngidiniwe”.

Izingane ezizalelwa emindenini emikhulu nazo zingase zifunde ukuzimela futhi zikwazi ukuzimela (ukugqoka yedwa, ukusiza ukubeka itafula nokulungisa igumbi, njll) ngokushesha kunabanye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, asebekhulile bavame ukuhlanganisa iqiniso lokuthi kufanele banakekele abancane futhi bathathe indima yabo "yabadala" ngokungathi sína. Okokugcina, izingane zale mindeni emikhulu ngezinye izikhathi zibhekana nobunzima bokuthola izinto kalula ngenxa yokuthi abazali abakwazi njalo ukunyusa izindleko. Lokhu “kuswela” kungaba yinzuzo ngokubenza baqaphele amaqiniso okuphila.

Kusobala ukuthi emkhayeni omkhulu, bobabili abazali banesikhathi esincane sokusinikeza ingane ngayinye (ngabanye). Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuqaphela noma yikuphi ukudumazeka nokukhungatheka amalungu ezelamani angase abe nakho nsuku zonke. Uma abazali bekwazi, kuyazuzisa futhi ukuhlela ukuvakasha okumbalwa (ngisho noma kuyivelakancane) umuntu ngamunye ngamunye ukuze abelane naye izikhathi eyedwa futhi abonise enganeni ukuthi unendlela ecacile neyingqayizivele. indawo emndenini.

Ngokuphathelene nasebekhulile, kubalulekile nokubashiyela isikhathi semisebenzi yabo futhi singazami ukubenza babe nomthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu ngokunakekela izingane. Ingane ngayinye kufanele ikwazi ukuphila iminyaka yayo yokuqala yokuphila ngokuthula kwengqondo futhi yenze imidlalo nemisebenzi ehlobene neminyaka yayo.

Okokugcina, kungase kube nzima futhi kubazali ukuvumelanisa impilo yomndeni nempilo yobungcweti. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungazihlela kanjani ukuze uqhubeke ujabulela izikhathi ezimnandi nomndeni wakho ngaphandle kokuxinwa ukukhathala nokukhathazeka kwansuku zonke.

Leli elinye iphuzu elikhanga imindeni eminingi ebizwa ngokuthi "yakudala" (lapho izingane zakini zilinganiselwe izingane ezimbili noma ezintathu). Le mindeni emikhulu iziphatha kanjani izindleko zansuku zonke? Nakuba eminye imininingwane idinga ukulungiswa (njengobukhulu bemoto ngokwesibonelo), ukuphila kwansuku zonke komkhaya omkhulu akuhlukile kakhulu kweminye imindeni.

Impela imijaho ihlaba umxhwele, izingubo zidluliselwa enganeni ziye enganeni njengakunoma yimuphi omunye umndeni kanye nokusizana okuvame ukuba khona. Yebo, izindleko ziyanda lapho kufika ingane eyengeziwe, kodwa ngokuhleleka nangokucophelela ukuphatha izindleko zomkhaya, akukho lutho olungcolisa ukusebenza kahle kwendlu.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amaholide kanye nokulinganisa indawo yokuhlala kungamela izindleko ezinkulu. Ngempela, ngezinye izikhathi kuyadingeka ukutshala imali esiqandisini sesibili, ukuthutha ukuze ube namakamelo okulala amaningana nezindlu zokugeza, njll. Amaholide kufanele ahlelwe kahle kusengaphambili.

Ukuvumela lemikhaya emikhulu ukuba yamukele ngokuzolile izingane futhi izisize ngangokunokwenzeka nsuku zonke, usizo lunikezwa umbuso. Ezinganeni ezintathu, imali eyisisekelo ikhokhwa ngaphandle kokuhlolwa kwendlela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inani layo liyahlukahluka kuye ngeholo lomndeni. Kukhona nezibonelelo ezivumela abazali ukuthi bacabange ukuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini wabo wobuchwepheshe ukuze banakekele izingane ezincane, bahlole neCAF ukuze bathole ukuthi baklonyeliswa kanjani.

Ukuphila komndeni kuyehluka endlini eyodwa kuya kwenye: umndeni oxubile, umzali oyedwa, onengane okuwukuphela kwayo, noma ngokuphambene nalokho ingane yakini ehlinzekwe kahle ... Ngakho-ke ngayinye inezici zayo futhi esimweni somndeni omkhulu, iwukuba inhlangano ethatha indawo yokuqala.