Vala ibhange lakho! Indlela yokuqeda izinkinga zokukhuluma

Bangane, ngifuna ukwabelana ngolwazi lwami ngezihloko ezithi «Izinkinga» kanye nethi «Imisebenzi». Kutholwe kanye nabafundi baseNyuvesi, abahlanganyela kude.

Yini ebhekwa njengenkinga enkulumweni nendlela yokuvala inkinga?

Into yokuqala esavumelana ngayo kwaba:

Inkinga yindaba emayelana nokuthile okungekuhle - mayelana namaqiniso, mayelana nokuqagela, mayelana nokungabaza, ngesimo sezindaba kuphrojekthi ethile..

Baze baqhamuka nesithombe: uma sikhuluma ngenkinga - okungukuthi, ngento engalungile - cabanga ukuthi uvula imbiza ngento ebolile, amakhowe noma enye into. Kuphuma amakha amangalisayo kule mbiza, bese uwuphakamisela kwabaxoxa nawe: “Bangane, futhi nginayo lapha, yihogeleni,” bese niyihogela wena bese uqhubeka: “Hhawu, yebo, yiyona le! Lokhu ngokwakho!"

Ukhululekile kakhulu manje shayela inkinga imbiza evulekile. Uyazi, abanye abantu bayakwazi ukuvula ishumi nambili lala mathini emizuzwini emihlanu yengxoxo.

Izibonelo?

“Ngawenza lo msebenzi, kodwa kukhona okungangilungelanga, kusukela ngosuku lokuqala kwaba nohlobo oluthile lokumelana, futhi angikwazanga … lapha …”

"Kukhona okungahambi kahle ngephrojekthi yethu, ozakwethu, ngokusobala asisebenzi kahle"

“Cabanga nje, intengo kaphethiloli iphinde yenyuka, yingoba…”

Hooray, amabhange amathathu avuliwe! Uyazizwa? 🙂

Manje:

Amabhange-izinkinga kufanele ivalwe

Kanjani kahle ukuvala amabhange anjalo? Kulula ukuthi badle izinhlobo ezimbili zamakhava.

Okokuqala: ukusho lokho wena ngokwakho ohlela ukukwenza mayelana nalokhu.

“Ngawenza lo msebenzi, kodwa kukhona okungangilungelanga, kusukela ngosuku lokuqala kwaba nokuphikiswa, futhi angikwazanga … lapha … ukuphawula kwabanye abafundi, ukuthi bakwenze kanjani futhi bakhethe okulungele wena."

Ibhange elilodwa livaliwe.

Okwesibili ukunikeza imiyalelo, eqondile noma engaqondile (isibonelo, ngendlela yombuzo).

“Kukhona okungahambi kahle ngohlelo lwethu bozakwethu kubukeka singasebenzi kahle. Ngiphakamisa namuhla kusihlwa ukuthi sihlangane futhi sinqume ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo zethu ezilandelayo."

Ibhange lesibili livaliwe.

Njalo vala izinkinga ngesimemezelo sezinhloso zakho noma imiyalelo, ngaphandle kwalokho zizo, uxolo, zinuke. Ubani oyidingayo? Kunjalo, akekho.

Okufanele ukwenze ekuzilolongeni:

• Landelela enkulumweni yakho, ngokushesha nje lapho ubona inkinga yembiza evulekile - ivale ngokushesha.
• Buka izinkinga zasebhange enkulumweni yabanye abantu futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ubona evulekile, buza noma umbuzo othi "Yini ohlela ukuyenza?" noma umbuzo othi "Yini okudingeka siyenze manje?" (Yebo, amagama emibuzo ayahluka kuye ngobudlelwano nomuntu kanye nesilinganiso sezimo zakho).

Hhayi-ke, uma "imbiza" yakho igcwalisa umkhathi ngephunga elimnandi lesithelo esisha noma i-vanilla, noma iphunga elimnandi lekhofi elisanda kufakwa, ungangabazi ukunikeza leli holide kwabanye! Nakuba, lokhu kumayelana nomunye umsebenzi.