Okuqukethwe
Ukubuya komculi kwenzeke ngokuzumayo. Ngobusuku bangoFebhuwari 26, uZemfira wethule i-albhamu entsha yesikhombisa ebizwa ngokuthi Borderline. Ochwepheshe be-PSYCHOLOGIES balalele i-albhamu futhi babelana ngemibono yabo yokuqala.
I-albhamu ihlanganisa amathrekhi angu-12, kuhlanganise ne-"Austin" ekhululwe ngaphambilini ne-"Crimea", kanye ne-"Abyuz", eyayitholakala kuphela ekurekhodweni bukhoma.
Igama elithi Borderline esihlokweni serekhodi aligcini nje ngokuthi "umngcele", kodwa futhi liyingxenye yegama elithi borderline personality disorder, okungukuthi, "i-borderline personality disorder". Ingabe kumane nje kwaqondana? Noma uhlobo lwesixwayiso kubalaleli? Kubonakala sengathi ithrekhi ngayinye ye-albhamu entsha ingaba kokubili inhlamvu yezinhlungu osekuyisikhathi eside zakhohlwa kanye nendlela eya ekukhanyeni nasenkululekweni.
Sicele ochwepheshe bePsychologies ukuthi babelane ngemibono yabo ngomsebenzi omusha ka-Zemfira. Futhi wonke umuntu wezwa irekhodi lakhe elisha ngendlela yakhe.
"U-Yanka Diaghileva ucule ngalokhu emuva ngasekupheleni kwawo-80s"
Andrey Yudin - gestalt Therapist, umqeqeshi, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo
Ekhasini lakhe le-Facebook (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia), u-Andrei wabelane ngemicabango yakhe ngemuva kokulalela i-albhamu:
1. Ngemva kokufunda i-somatic psychotherapy, akusakwazi ukulalela umculo onjalo. I-Empathic resonance nomzimba womdlali (nayo yonke into eqoqwe kuwo) iphazamisa ngokuphelele noma yikuphi okuvelayo okuvela kumculo nezinhlamvu.
2. U-Yanka Diaghileva wacula ngakho konke lokhu emuva ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yama-80s, okwathi ngaphambi nje kokufa kwakhe, wachaza kahle lolu hlobo lokusungula engomeni ethi "Kuthengisiwe":
Uphumelele kwezohwebo ufa esidlangalaleni
Ematsheni ukuphula ubuso be-photogenic
Buza okomuntu, ubheke emehlweni
Bahambi abahle...
Ukufa kwami kuyathengiswa.
Kuthengisiwe.
3. I-borderline personality disorder, eng. I-borderline personality disorder, okuye kwaqanjwa ngayo i-albhamu, isifo sobuntu esilula ukwelapheka nge-prognosis engcono kakhulu (kodwa kuphela uma siqhathaniswa nezinye iziyaluyalu zobuntu ezimbili ezinkulu, i-narcissistic ne-schizoid).
"Uzwela kakhulu ekuhlanganeni, isikhathi"
UVladimir Dashevsky - i-psychotherapist, ikhandidethi yesayensi yezengqondo, umnikeli ojwayelekile wePsychology
U-Zemfira ubelokhu engumdlali womculo we-pop osezingeni eliphezulu kimina. Uzwela kakhulu ekuhlanganeni, isikhathi. Kusukela kungoma yokuqala eyaduma - "Futhi une-AIDS, okusho ukuthi sizofa ...", - empeleni, uyaqhubeka nokucula ingoma efanayo. Futhi i-Zemfira ayigcini nje ngokubumba i-ajenda, kodwa iyayibonisa.
Kukhona okukodwa okungeziwe okuvela eqinisweni lokuthi i-albhamu yakhe entsha ivele kanje: ukuphazamiseka kobuntu bomngcele "kuzongena kubantu", mhlawumbe abantu bazoba nesithakazelo kakhulu kulokho okwenzekayo engqondweni yabo. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngomqondo othile, lokhu kuxilongwa kuzoba "imfashini", njengoba kwake kwenzeka nge-bipolar disorder. Noma mhlawumbe isivele ikhona.
Irina Gross - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emtholampilo
I-Zemfira lapho iphinda isho ukuthi siphila. Siyafa, kodwa sizalwa ngokuphindaphindiwe, isikhathi ngasinye endaweni entsha.
Izwi elifanayo, imithandazo efanayo yentsha, kancane onqenqemeni, kodwa kakade nohlobo oluthile lokumemeza kwabantu abadala.
U-Zemfira wakhula futhi waqaphela ukuthi wayehlukile? Ingabe siyakhula? Kuyoke kudingeke yini ukuthi sivalelise kubazali bethu, kumama wethu? Ingabe akekho ngempela ongabhekana nezimangalo zabo kuye? Futhi manje, ngokuphambene nalokho, zonke izimangalo zizolethwa kithi ngokwethu?
I-Zemfira ibonakala inemibuzo eminingi ka-Austin kunokuhlukumeza njengento nje. Ucula ngokuhlukumeza ngomoya ophansi nangesisa, kuyilapho u-Austin ecasula kakhulu, eduze kwakhe kuba nokushuba okukhulu. Phela uqondile, ukhafula imizwa, uyacasuka futhi unobuso. Futhi ukuthi ukuhlukumeza kubukeka kanjani ngokujwayelekile, asazi. Sahlangabezana nokuqina kuka-Austin futhi sacabanga ukuthi sinebhadi nje.
Khona-ke, lapho silinyazwa futhi silimele, babengalazi leli gama, kodwa, kunjalo, sonke siyamkhumbula u-Austin. Futhi manje sesivele siqinisekile ukuthi, lapho siphinde sahlangana naye, ngeke sibe isisulu sakhe, ngeke sihlale emgqeni wakhe. Manje sizowathola kithi amandla okuthi silwe sibaleke, ngoba asisabuthandi ubuhlungu, asisaziqhenya ngabo.
Yebo, akukhona lokhu ebesikulindele. Kanye noZemfira, sasifuna ukubuyela ebuntwaneni, ebusheni, esikhathini esidlule, ukuze siphinde sihlele "impi naleli zwe", ukukhulula iketanga ekuhlubukeni kwentsha. Kodwa cha, siqhubekela phambili, embuthanweni, kule mijikelezo ephindaphindayo, evamile yesigqi - ebonakala ijwayelekile, kodwa isehlukile. Asisebasha, sesivele sabona futhi sasinda ezintweni eziningi "kuleli hlobo".
Futhi akulona iqiniso ukuthi “akukho okuzokwenzeka kithi.” Kuzokwenzeka nakanjani. Sifuna okuningi okwengeziwe. Sizophinde sibe nejazi elihle, nezinkondlo ezisethangeni, noma zizimbi. Sesifunde kakade ukuthethelela amavesi «okubi» kithi nakwabanye. Sisazo "buya-hamba-buya" futhi silinde.
Phela kwakungesona isiphetho lesi, kodwa kwakungomunye umngcele, umugqa esasiwela ndawonye.
I-Zemfira, njenganoma yimuphi omunye umbhali omkhulu, ibonisa iqiniso - kalula, ngobuqotho, njengoba kunjalo. Izwi lakhe liyizwi lokwazi okuhlangene. Uyazizwa ukuthi kusixhuma kanjani sonke emngceleni osesivele siwuphile? Yebo, kwakungelula: izandla zami zaziqhaqhazela, futhi kwakubonakala sengathi ngangingasenawo amandla okulwa. Kodwa sisindile futhi sakhula.
Izingoma zakhe zisisiza ukuba sigaye futhi siqonde ukuzizwisa, ngobuhlakani bakhe buvusa ukubonakaliswa okukhulu. Kuvela ukuthi singenza konke - ngisho nezifunda zomngcele we-psyche. Kodwa ukuhlukana kwenzeka esikhathini esedlule, ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukweqa leli gama.
U-Zemfira ukhule nathi, weqa umugqa "phakathi nomgwaqo", kodwa usathinta ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, kusazoba khona: ulwandle, nezinkanyezi, nomngane ovela eningizimu.
"Liyini iqiniso - anjalo amazwi"
Marina Travkova - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo
Kimina kubonakala sengathi ngokuthula kweminyaka eyisishiyagalombili, u-Zemfira ubeke amathemba aphezulu emphakathini. I-albhamu ibhekwa "ngaphansi kwe-microscope": izincazelo ezintsha zitholakala kuyo, igxekwa, iyanconywa. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, uma sicabanga ukuthi wayezophuma ngemva konyaka, kwakuyoba Zemfira efanayo.
Yeka ukuthi kuhluke kangakanani ngokombono womculo, ake abagxeki bomculo bahlulele. Njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ngaphawula ushintsho olulodwa kuphela: ulimi. Ulimi lwe-pop psychology, kanye ne-"wiring" yalo embhalweni: ukumangalelwa komama, ukungaqondakali.
Nokho, angiqiniseki ukuthi kukhona incazelo yesibili neyesithathu. Kimina kubonakala sengathi amagama asebenzisa amagama aseyinsakavukela umchilo wesidwaba, nsuku zonke - futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo "asaqhuma" ngokwanele ukuba afundwe njengesici sezikhathi. Phela, abantu manje bavame ukushintshana ngolwazi emhlanganweni onobungane mayelana nokuthi kuyini ukuxilonga kwabo, yiziphi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo abanazo, futhi baxoxe ngama-antidepressants.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso lethu. Yeka iqiniso - amazwi anjalo. Phela uwoyela uyaphamba ngempela.