I-Psychology

Iningi labantu lisebenza ngokungaziwa: umshayeli akazithuli ekuqaleni kohambo, i-confectioner ayisayini ikhekhe, igama lomklami wesakhiwo aliboniswa kuwebhusayithi. Uma umphumela umubi, ngumphathi kuphela owaziyo ngakho. Kungani kuyingozi futhi kungani kudingekile ukugxeka okwakhayo kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi?

Lapho kungekho muntu ongahlola umsebenzi wethu, kuphephile kithi. Kodwa ngeke sikwazi ukukhula njengochwepheshe. Enkampanini yethu, cishe singochwepheshe abahamba phambili, kodwa ngaphandle kwayo, kuvela ukuthi abantu bayazi futhi bangenza okwengeziwe. Ukuphumela ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokunethezeka kuyethusa. Futhi hhayi ukuphuma - ukuhlala "phakathi" kuze kube phakade.

Kungani ukwabelana

Ukuze udale okuthile okuzuzisayo, umsebenzi kufanele uboniswe. Uma sidala sodwa, silahlekelwa indlela. Sibambeka enqubeni futhi asiwuboni umphumela ngaphandle.

U-Honore de Balzac uchaze indaba encwadini ethi The Unknown Masterpiece. Umdwebi uFrenhofer wachitha iminyaka eyishumi esebenza emdwebeni, ngokohlelo lwakhe, kwakuwukushintsha ubuciko kuze kube phakade. Ngalesi sikhathi, uFrenhofer akazange abonise ubuciko kunoma ubani. Lapho eqeda umsebenzi, wamema ozakwabo eshabhu. Kodwa ephendula, wezwa ukugxekwa okuphoxekile kuphela, wabe esebuka isithombe ngeso lezethameli futhi wabona ukuthi umsebenzi wawuyize.

Ukugxekwa kochwepheshe kuyindlela yokuzungeza ukwesaba

Lokhu kuyenzeka nasempilweni. Unombono wokuthi ungaheha kanjani amakhasimende amasha enkampanini. Uqoqa ulwazi bese udweba uhlelo oluningiliziwe lokusebenzisa. Hamba kuziphathimandla ngokulangazela. Cabanga ukuthi umphathi uzokhipha ibhonasi noma anikeze isikhundla esisha. Ubonisa umbono kumphathi futhi uzwe: “Sesivele sikuzamile lokhu eminyakeni emibili edlule, kodwa sasebenzisa imali ize.

Ukuze uvimbele lokhu ukuthi kungenzeki, u-Austin Kleon, umklami nombhali wencwadi ethi Steal Like an Artist, weluleka njalo ukukhombisa umsebenzi wakho: kusukela kokusalungiswa kokuqala kuya kumphumela wokugcina. Kwenze esidlangalaleni nansuku zonke. Uma uthola impendulo nokugxekwa okwengeziwe, kuzoba lula ukuhlala usendleleni.

Bambalwa abantu abafuna ukuzwa ukugxekwa okunzima, ngakho bacasha endaweni yokusebenzela bese belinda isikhathi esifanele. Kodwa lo mzuzu awufiki, ngoba umsebenzi ngeke uphelele, ikakhulukazi ngaphandle kokuphawula.

Ukuvolontiya ukukhombisa umsebenzi ukuphela kwendlela yokukhula ngokomsebenzi. Kodwa udinga ukwenza lokhu ngokucophelela ukuze ungazisoli kamuva futhi ungayeki ukudala nhlobo.

Sesabani

Kulungile ukwesaba ukugxekwa. Ukwesaba kuyindlela yokuzivikela esivikela engozini, njengegobolondo le-armadillo.

Ngisebenzele umagazini ongenzi nzuzo. Ababhali abazange bakhokhelwe, kodwa basathumela izihloko. Bathande inqubomgomo yokuhlela - ngaphandle kokucwaninga nemikhawulo. Ukuze bathole inkululeko enjalo, basebenza mahhala. Kodwa izihloko eziningi azizange zishicilelwe. Hhayi ngoba bebabi, kunalokho.

Ababhali basebenzise ifolda okwabelwana ngayo ethi “For Lynch”: bafaka izindatshana eziqediwe kuyo ukuze bonke abanye baphawule. I-athikili engcono kakhulu, ukugxekwa okwengeziwe - wonke umuntu wazama ukusiza. Umbhali ulungise amazwana ambalwa okuqala, kodwa ngemva kweshumi nambili wanquma ukuthi lesi sihloko sasingesihle, futhi wasilahla. Ifolda ye-Lynch isiphenduke ingcwaba lezindatshana ezinhle kakhulu. Kubi ukuthi ababhali abawuqedanga umsebenzi, kodwa nabo abakwazanga ukukuziba ukuphawula.

Inkinga ngalolu hlelo ukuthi ababhali bakhombise wonke umuntu umsebenzi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Okusho ukuthi, baqhubekele phambili, esikhundleni sokuthi baqale babhalisele ukwesekwa.

Thola ukugxeka okuphrofeshinali kuqala. Lena indlela yokuzungeza ukwesaba: awesabi ukukhombisa umsebenzi wakho kumhleli futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungazinciphisi ukugxeka. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uyakhula ngokomsebenzi.

Iqembu Lokusekela

Ukuqoqa iqembu lokusekela kuyindlela ethuthuke kakhulu. Umehluko wukuthi umbhali awubonisi umsebenzi kumuntu oyedwa, kodwa kwabaningana. Kodwa uzikhetha ngokwakhe, futhi hhayi phakathi kochwepheshe. Le nqubo yasungulwa ngumsakazi waseMelika uRoy Peter Clark. Waqoqela eduze kwakhe ithimba labangane, ozakwabo, ochwepheshe nabeluleki. Waqale wabakhombisa umsebenzi wabe esewukhombisa umhlaba wonke.

Abasizi bakaClark bamnene kodwa baqinile ekugxekeni kwabo. Ulungisa amaphutha futhi ashicilele umsebenzi ngaphandle kokwesaba.

Ungawuvikeli umsebenzi wakho — buza imibuzo

Iqembu lokusekela lihlukile. Mhlawumbe udinga umeluleki omubi. Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, umlandeli owazisa yonke imisebenzi yakho. Into esemqoka ukuthi wethemba ilungu ngalinye leqembu.

Isikhundla somfundi

Abagxeki abawusizo kakhulu bayazidla. Sebephenduke ochwepheshe ngoba abawubekezeleli umsebenzi omubi. Manje sebekuphatha ngendlela ecindezelayo njengoba babehlale beziphathisa bona. Futhi abazami ukujabulisa, ngakho badelela. Akujabulisi ukubhekana nomgxeki onjalo, kodwa umuntu angazuza kukho.

Uma uqala ukuzivikela, umgxeki omubi uzovutha futhi aqhubeke nokuhlasela. Noma okubi nakakhulu, uzonquma ukuthi awunathemba futhi uvale umlomo. Uma unquma ukungazibandakanyi, ngeke ufunde izinto ezibalulekile. Zama elinye iqhinga — thatha isikhundla somfundi. Ungawuvikeli umsebenzi wakho, buza imibuzo. Khona-ke ngisho nomgxeki ozidlayo uzozama ukusiza:

- Awunamali: uthatha izithombe ezimnyama nezimhlophe ngoba awazi ukusebenza ngombala!

- Yeluleka ukuthi ufundeni ngombala ezithombeni.

“Ugijima kabi, ngakho uphelelwa umoya.

— Iqiniso? Ngitshele okwengeziwe.

Lokhu kuzothulisa umgxeki, futhi uzozama ukusiza - uzokutshela konke akwaziyo. Ochwepheshe bafuna abantu abangabelana nabo ngolwazi lwabo. Futhi lapho eyala isikhathi eside, yilapho ezoba umthandi wakho ngokwethembeka. Futhi nonke nazi kangcono isihloko. Umgxeki uzolandela intuthuko yakho futhi azicabangele kancane ezakhe. Phela wakufundisa.

fundani ukubekezela

Uma wenza okuthile okuqaphelekayo, kuzoba baningi abagxekayo. Kuphathe njengokuzivocavoca: uma uhlala, uzoba namandla.

Umklami uMike Monteiro uthe ikhono lokuthatha i-punch yikhono elibaluleke kakhulu alifunde esikoleni sobuciko. Kanye ngesonto, abafundi babebukisa ngomsebenzi wabo, futhi abanye baqhamuke namazwi anonya kakhulu. Ungasho noma yini - abafundi baqhumisana, bakhala izinyembezi. Lokhu kuvivinya umzimba kwasiza ekwakheni isikhumba esiwugqinsi.

Izaba zizokwenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu.

Uma uzizwa unamandla kuwe, hamba ngokuzithandela ku-lynch. Thumela umsebenzi wakho kubhulogi lochwepheshe bese ucela ozakwe ukuthi bayibuyekeze. Phinda umsebenzi kuze kube yilapho uthola ikholi.

Shayela umngane ohlezi eseduze kwakho futhi nifunde amazwana ndawonye. Xoxa ngalezo ezingafaneleki kakhulu: ngemuva kwengxoxo kuzoba lula. Ngokushesha uzoqaphela ukuthi abagxekayo bayaphindana. Uzoyeka ukuthukuthela, bese ufunda ukushaya.

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