Izici ze-Psychopathic azibekelwe izigebengu eziyingozi kanye nabantu abanokuphazamiseka kwengqondo - ngokwezinga elithile noma kwelinye, ziyisici somunye nomunye wethu. Ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi sonke sine-psychopathic encane? Udokotela wezengqondo uLucy Foulkes uyachaza.
Ngamunye wethu ngezikhathi ezithile uqamba amanga, akhohlise noma wephule imithetho. Wonke umuntu angase angabonisi uzwela nokuqonda okufanele esimweni esithile. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi cishe wonke umuntu uzothola izici ezithile ze-psychopathic kubo.
Ukunquma ubukhona babo kunoma yimuphi umuntu kuvumela Uhlu lwemibuzo Lwesikali Se-Self-Report Psychopathy (uhlu lwemibuzo lokunquma izinga le-psychopathy). Lolu hlu lwemibuzo luhlanganisa izitatimende ezingama-29, ezinezinketho zokuphendula ezisukela kokuthi «ngivumelana kakhulu» kuye kokuthi «ukungavumelani kakhulu». Nansi enye yazo: "Ngezinye izikhathi ngitshela abantu lokho abafuna ukukuzwa." Impela abaningi bethu bangavumelana nalesi sitatimende - kodwa ingabe lokho kusenza sibe ama-psychopaths?
"Hhayi ngaphandle kwalapho sithola amaphuzu aphezulu kwezinye izitatimende," kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uLucy Foulkes. “Kodwa-ke, bambalwa bethu abazoqeda lolu cwaningo ngomphumela onguziro. Ngakho kukhona okumele ucabange ngakho.”
Kwezinye izimo, izinga eliphansi le-psychopathy lingase libe nenzuzo. Ngokwesibonelo, udokotela ohlinzayo okwazi ukunqamula ngokomzwelo ekuhluphekeni kwesiguli sakhe cishe uzosihlinza ngokuphumelelayo. Futhi usomabhizinisi olawula abantu ngobuchule futhi akhohlise ngokuvamile uyaphumelela.
Sithukile futhi sithatheka ngokuziphatha kwabo: obani lezi zilo, ngokungafani nathi?
Abaningi bakhangwa izimfanelo ezinjalo ze-psychopaths njengekhono lokuheha abanye, ukomela ingozi, isithakazelo ebuhlotsheni obungavamile. “Nokho, esimweni sako sokugcina, i-psychopathy iwukuphazamiseka kobuntu okulimaza kakhulu,” kusho uLucy Foulkes. Uhlanganisa ukuziphatha okuphambene nomphakathi kanye nokufuna injabulo (okuzibonakalisa ngolaka, ukuluthwa izidakamizwa, ukuthatha ingozi), ubudlwangudlwangu nokuzola, ukungabi necala kanye nesifiso sokukhohlisa abanye. Yile nhlanganisela eyenza i-psychopaths ibe yingozi kwabanye. "
Izinto ezivimba abantu abajwayelekile ekwenzeni ubugebengu - imizwa yokuhawukela umuntu ongase abe isisulu, imizwa yecala, ukwesaba ukujeziswa - ayisebenzi njengebhuleki kuma-psychopaths. Abanandaba nakancane ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kubathinta kanjani labo ababazungezile. Bakhombisa intelezi enamandla ukuze bathole abakufunayo, bese bekhohlwa kalula lowo ongeke esaba wusizo kubo.
Lapho sifunda ngabantu abanezimpawu ze-psychopathic ezishiwo, siyesaba futhi sithatheke ngokuziphatha kwabo: obani lezi zilo, ngokungafani nathi? Futhi ubani owawavumela ukuba aphathe abanye ngonya kangaka? Kodwa okwesabisa kakhulu ukuthi izici ze-psychopathic azikho kuphela kubantu abanenkinga yobuntu eyaziwayo. Zinjengokungathi, "zichithekile" emphakathini, futhi azilingani: kubantu abaningi, lezi zici zibonakaliswa kancane kancane, kubantu abambalwa - ngokuqinile. Sihlangana nabantu abane-psychopathy yamazinga ahlukene ezimotweni ezingaphansi komhlaba nasemsebenzini, sihlala endaweni kanye nabo futhi sidle isidlo sasemini ndawonye ekhefi.
“Izici zengqondo azigcinelwa kuphela izigebengu eziyingozi nabantu abanokuphazamiseka kwengqondo,” kukhumbuza uLucy Foulkes, “ngokwezinga elithile, ziyizimpawu zomuntu ngamunye wethu.”
I-Psychopathy iyiphuzu lomugqa sonke esimi kuwo
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bezokwelapha bazama ukuqonda ukuthi yini enquma ukuthi iyiphi indawo esizoyithatha esikalini esingavamile. Izakhi zofuzo ngokuqinisekile zinendima enkulu: abanye baziwa ngokuthi bazalwa benesimo sengqondo sokuthuthukisa izici ze-psychopathic. Kodwa akugcini lapho. Izici zemvelo nazo zibalulekile, njengobudlova obenziwa sikhona lapho siseyizingane, ukuziphatha kwabazali bethu nabangane.
Njengezici eziningi zobuntu bethu nokuziphatha kwethu, i-psychopathy ayiwona nje umphumela wokukhuliswa noma wezipho zemvelo, kodwa futhi nokuxhumana okuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kwabo. I-Psychopathy akuyona indlela yetshe ongeke uyishiye, kodwa "ikhithi yokuhamba" ekhishwa ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukungenelela okuthile, njengokwesekwa kwabazali izingane zabo ezinikezwe amazinga aphezulu ezimpawu ze-psychopathic, kunganciphisa la mazinga.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uLucy Foulkes unethemba, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zasemtholampilo zizothola ukwelashwa okungasiza ekwehliseni izici ezishiwoyo ze-psychopathic. Nokho, okwamanje, kusekhona abantu abaningi—emajele, ezibhedlela zabagula ngengqondo, nasezimpilweni zethu zansuku zonke—ababonisa amazinga aphezulu kakhulu e-psychopathy futhi ukuziphatha kwabo kulimaza labo ababazungezile.
Kepha kusabalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ama-psychopaths awahluke ngokuphelele kithi. Bamane banikezwe isethi eyeqisayo yalezo zici zobuntu nokuziphatha esinazo sonke. Yebo, ukuziphatha kwabanye balaba bantu - ukubulala, ukuhlukumeza, ukudlwengula - kuyanyanyisa kangangokuthi kunzima ukukuqonda, futhi kufanele. Kodwa empeleni, ukuziphatha kwe-psychopaths kuhluke ekuziphatheni kwabantu abavamile kuphela ngezinga elithile. I-Psychopathy imane nje iyiphuzu elidlulele lomugqa esimi kuwo sonke.