Kungani singenawo ama-orgasm nokuthi singayilungisa kanjani

Yini i-anorgasmia

I-Anorgasmia yisifo socansi lapho kungekho khona nhlobo i-orgasm noma okungavamile ukufezwa. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka kwabesifazane futhi kungenzeka kokubili ngesikhathi socansi nomlingani nangesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu.

Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Kunezizathu eziningi ze-anorgasmia, futhi ukuze uthole indlela efanele yokubhekana nayo, kufanele uqale unqume ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwe-anorgasmia olujwayelekile kuwe.

I-Anorgasmia iyinhloko noma yesibili. Nge-anorgasmia eyinhloko, asilokothi sifike kowamanqamu futhi asikutholi ukuphumula: noma sinozakwethu, noma lapho siziphulula. Nge-anorgasmia yesibili, ngezinye izikhathi sifinyelela i-orgasm, kodwa lokhu ukwenzeka kuyaqabukela futhi ngokuvamile kuthatha umzamo omkhulu.

Kukhona futhi i-anorgasmia yesimo: kulokhu, ukwaneliseka kungatholakala kuphela ezikhundleni ezithile noma lapho sinohlobo oluthile lobulili (isibonelo, ngomlomo).

Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-coital anorgasmia iyenzeka. Singakhuluma ngakho uma sifika ku-orgasm ngezindlela ezahlukene, kodwa hhayi ngesikhathi socansi. Futhi i-anorgasmia evamile, lapho singakujabuleli nhlobo ucansi.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu akufanele adibanise i-anorgasmia kanye ne-frigidity: nge-frigidity, owesifazane akazwani nokuvusa nhlobo futhi akafuni ukusondelana nganoma yiluphi uhlobo.

Izinkinga ze-anorgasmia

Amandla ethu okuthola ama-orgasm athonywa izici eziningi. Kubalulekile hhayi kuphela isimo somzimba womuntu, kodwa futhi nengqondo, ngokomzwelo.

Izimbangela ezingokomzimba ze-anorgasmia zihlanganisa izifo zabesifazane, isifo sikashukela, i-multiple sclerosis, nezinye. Izimbangela ze-anorgasmia yamadoda zingaba ukuhlukumezeka (ikakhulukazi, ukulimala komgogodla), isifo se-vascular, i-varicocele (i-testicular varicose veins, eqedwa ngokuhlinzwa endaweni ye-groin), ukuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal, isifo sikashukela futhi, yiqiniso, i-prostatitis.

Ikhono lokuba ne-orgasm liphinde lithinteke ngokuthatha imithi ethile, isibonelo, ama-antidepressants, ama-antipsychotics, ama-antihistamine. Utshwala buthuthukisa isifiso sobulili, kodwa ngeke kusize ukuthola ukwaneliseka, kunalokho, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuzophazamisa lokhu.

Izici ezingokwengqondo nazo zidlala indima ebalulekile - izingcindezi esibhekana nazo ikakhulukazi manje, ukucindezeleka, ubunzima bezezimali. Futhi, ukwesaba ukukhulelwa noma umuzwa wokuhlazeka ovela ebuntwaneni kusivimbela ekuphumuleni futhi sifinyelele ekugcineni. Mhlawumbe njengengane sezwa ukuthi ucansi lungcolile, luyihlazo, luyisono. Ngezimo zengqondo ezinjalo, kungase kube nzima ngathi ukuphumula, futhi kulokhu, ukusebenza nodokotela wezengqondo kuzosiza.

Yini okufanele uyenze uma usola ukuthi une-anorgasmia?

Okokuqala, udinga ukucacisa imbangela ye-anorgasmia. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti nochwepheshe ozohlinzeka ngosizo olufanele.

Amadoda, ukuze aqede i-anorgasmia, adinga ukuxhumana ne-andrologist, i-urologist noma i-endocrinologist, abesifazane - ku-endocrinologist noma i-gynecologist.

Uma labo dokotela bengatholi noma yikuphi ukwephulwa noma okungavamile ku-organic, kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa badinga ukuxhumana ne-sexologist noma i-psychotherapist.

Akufanele neze ukuzelapha. Ngezinye izikhathi amadoda asebenzisa izidakamizwa ezandisa inkanuko yobulili, okuvame ukuholela ezinkingeni. Izidakamizwa ezinjalo ziletha impumuzo yesikhashana, kodwa ziqeda kuphela umphumela wenkinga, hhayi imbangela.