Okuqukethwe
😉 Ukubingelela abafundi abasha nabavamile! Abangane, ekusebenzeni ngokwakho, awukwazi ukungazinaki lo mbuzo: okuyize: kuyini? Mayelana nalokhu esihlokweni.
Kuyini okuyize
Ngokuvamile okuyize kubhekisela esidingweni esikhulu somuntu sokubukeka kangcono emehlweni abanye kunalokho abayikho ngempela. Ngezinye izikhathi lesi isifiso esingenangqondo sodumo nokuqashelwa emhlabeni wonke. Ngokuvamile, abantu abaqhoshayo bahamba “phezu kwamakhanda abo” ngokoqobo ukuze bathole abakufunayo.
Ngokuvamile, ukuzikhukhumeza kusiza ekufinyeleleni imigomo oyifunayo kanye “neminyango evulekile” yanoma yimiphi imizamo ekuphileni. Ngenxa yale mfanelo, abantu bafunda izinto ezintsha, bathole impumelelo emisebenzini yabo. Kodwa le mfanelo ayibhekwa njengenhle. Futhi konke ngenxa yama-nuances athile.
Okuyize kungukuzidla, ukuzidla, ukuzidla, ukuzidla, ukuthanda udumo, ukuhlonipha. Akuveli uma umuntu emubi, kodwa uma konke kukuhle kuye. Lapho impumelelo ifika, ukuchuma namandla.
Lapho ukuziqhenya kukhula, akusenakunqandwa, kuphakamise umuntu kuqala, kumphonse ekukhohliseni kobukhulu bakhe, bese kuthi ngomzuzwana nje umlahle kwalasha, amphahlaze phansi.
Zonke izenzo ezigqugquzelwa yilesi senzo ezimbi zenziwa yena kuphela, hhayi omunye umuntu. Futhi impumelelo, okokuqala, akusona isiphetho, kodwa indlela. Ngokuvamile, izenzo ezinjalo ngokuvamile ziba yize futhi zibe yingozi kokubili kumuntu ngokwakhe nakulabo abaseduze kwakhe.
Ngeshwa, umuntu onjalo ofuna ukugqama esixukwini ngawo wonke amandla akhe akathandwa futhi athandwa ngabanye. Kunzima ngabantu abanjalo ukwakha ubungane.
Akuwona wonke umuntu okwazi ukuzuza impumelelo nodumo. Iningi livele liphuphe ngakho, kodwa empeleni aliyitholi imiphumela ephusile. Kulokhu, abanye abantu bahlakulela ikhwalithi ephambene yokuzikhukhumeza - ukwephulwa komthetho.
Abaningi baba nomuzwa wokunganeliseki, futhi baqala ukufuna labo abangabasola ngokwehluleka kwabo. Ngakho-ke, bangazisola kuphela ngalokho obekungafinyelelwa ukube ukuphila kwaba ngenye indlela. Lolu uhlangothi oluyize lweze.
Indlela yokunqoba okuyize
Kodwa noma kunjalo baningi abantu abayize. Abaningi balabo ababekwazi, kodwa abafinyelelanga konke ababekufisa, kodwa ingxenye encane yalokho ababekuhlelile, bazizwa bekhululekile futhi abazami ukushintsha noma yini ekuphileni kwabo.
Kodwa kukhona abakuqondayo ukuthi ukuziqhenya kunezinselele zakho, ngisho nalabo abakhathele yile mfanelo. Ngakho-ke, bazama ukuyinqoba futhi bathole inketho yokuxhumana nabanye abantu, lapho bangakha khona ubudlelwano obusekelwe ekuhloniphaneni nasekuthembekeni.
Konke kuncike embonweni wakho kanye nombono wakho ngempilo. Phela wonke umuntu unendlela yakhe yokuthola ulwazi. Ungakwazi ukuchaza kuphela izinketho zokuthuthukiswa okungenzeka kwemicimbi kulabo abanqume ukunqoba ubuze.
- okokuqala, uma umuntu eqonda ukuthi kukhona ukuqhosha nokuzikhukhumeza kuye, lokhu kakade kuyancomeka;
- okwesibili, udinga ukuphatha noma yikuphi ukugxeka nokuhlambalaza ngendlela evamile;
- okwesithathu, udinga ukuthula kakhulu. Phendula imibuzo kuphela futhi impendulo kufanele ibe mfushane kunombuzo ngokwawo;
Ngenxa yalokho, kuzokwazi ukufeza ukuqashelwa hhayi kuphela ukubaluleka nokubaluleka kwabo, kodwa futhi nokuhlola izimfanelo zabanye abantu. Izinzuzo zazo zonke izenzo zakho ngeke zizizwele wena kuphela, kodwa nakwabanye abaningi. Umbono nesimo sengqondo ekuphileni kuzoshintsha ngokuphelele.
Uma umuntu efika esiphethweni sokuthi okuyize kuyamvimbela ukuba aphile, khona-ke ngomzamo omncane, ungawunqoba ukuze uzuze wena nalabo abaseduze nawe.
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