Okuqukethwe
😉 Ngiyanibingelela bafundi bami! Uyilawula kanjani imizwa yakho? Ake sixoxe ngakho.
Bonke abantu baphila nemizwa kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho, besabela ezimweni ezithile zempilo. Kujabulisa kakhulu futhi kuyazuzisa ukuzwa imizwa eyakhayo, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuzibamba. Nokho, kunezindlela ezimbalwa zokufunda ukuthi ungazilawula kanjani.
Uma uzithola uhlangabezana nomhawu owengeziwe, ukudabuka, ukucasuka, intukuthelo nokuphelelwa ithemba, khona-ke udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungakuqeda kanjani. Phela impilo yakho yonke incike kulokho obhekene nakho. Awukwazi ukuba yisigqila semizwa yakho futhi kufanele uhlale ukhumbula ukuthi umcabango uyinto ebonakalayo.
Lapho umuntu esabela kabi kukho konke, khona-ke kubonakala kuye ukuthi ukuphila kwakhe kuhlulekile. Usesimweni esibi, ubuhlobo bakhe nabanye buyawohloka, nempilo yakhe iyonakala. Noma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho okubi kuthinta inhlalakahle yakho engokwengqondo nengokwenyama.
Indlela yokulawula imizwa
Udinga ukufunda ukuhumusha yonke imicabango engalungile ibe yinhle - ukuthola ama-pluses kunoma yisiphi isimo. Isibonelo, uma okuthile kukucasulile noma kukuthukuthelisile, zama ukususa konke okubi kuwe futhi ucabange ngokuthile okuhle. Cabanga ngesimo esiyokwenza umomotheke. Noma umuntu omthandayo.
Ungakhetha umculo owuthandayo okujabulisayo, futhi uwulalele ngezikhathi zentukuthelo nokudabuka. Uma uthanda izilwane, ungabuka ividiyo ehlekisayo noma izithombe nazo.
Kwabanye, kwanele ukuhlangana nabangane, ukuchitha isikhathi enkampanini, kubasiza ukuba baphazamiseke. Ukuhamba epaki noma olwandle kuzokhulula ukucindezeleka okuningi. Wonke umuntu kufanele azikhethele indlela ezomsiza ukuthi anqobe ukungabi nandaba.
Uma imizwa engemihle ikwehlela, lokhu kuwukunquma imbangela yokwenzeka kwayo. Hlaziya futhi uthole ukuthi yini ngempela ekwenza uzizwe le mizwa.
Ngokuvamile kunalokho, ukuqonda inkinga kwenza kube lula ukuyixazulula. Uma ucasulwa ukuziphatha komuntu othandekayo, isimo sakhe sengqondo ngawe, kufanele ucabange ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze uxazulule isimo. Uma unesixazululo, ngeke kube nomqondo emizweni engemihle.
Kunezikhathi ezinzima ezinjalo lapho kungenakwenzeka ukulungisa okuthile futhi unqume ngokushesha. Kodwa ngenxa yokuthi uthukuthele futhi unovalo, akukho lutho oluzoshintsha, uzolimaza wena nempilo yakho kuphela.
Ukuzindla okuncane
Ukuzindla kuyindlela enhle yokususa imizwa emibi nokuphazamiseka ezinkingeni. Kuyadingeka ukuyiqhuba buthule noma ngomculo opholile opholile.
Ukuzindla kwakudala kumayelana nokugxila ekuphefumuleni kwakho nokususa ingqondo yakho emicabangweni engemihle. Lona umkhuba obaluleke kakhulu futhi owusizo.
Ukulawula imizwa yakho kunzima kakhulu, kodwa ungafunda ukuyilawula. Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuze uthole umphumela, uzodinga ukuchitha isikhathi esanele nomzamo. Lapho ususa izinkathazo, ukwesaba, ukucasuka, intukuthelo, uzobona ukuthi impilo yakho izogcwala kanjani injabulo nenjabulo.
Uyilawula kanjani imizwa yakho (ividiyo ehlobene)
Shiya izeluleko zakho nezengezo esihlokweni emazwaneni. Yabelana ngolwazi nabangani bakho kwezokuxhumana. amanethiwekhi. Ngale ndlela ungasiza umuntu.