Ukudlala ngokweqile imidlalo yamavidiyo kungadala ingozi kubantu abasha. Ukusungula imithetho ethile kubalulekile ukuyivikela. Sondeza izimpawu zezindlela zokuncika, izixazululo zokwelashwa nezokuvimbela.

Ngokuyinhloko yintsha evezwe ekuluthweni komdlalo wevidiyo. Kodwa-ke, izimo zokulutha ngokweqile kwezifo azivamile. Izingozi ezinkulu kakhulu zemidlalo yenethiwekhi yokulutha umlutha futhi ikakhulukazi imidlalo yokudlala indima yabadlali abaningi. Kucatshangelwa ukuthi kunokulutha emidlalweni yevidiyo lapho umdlali enza lolu hlobo lomsebenzi ngokweqile, okungukuthi kusuka emahoreni angamashumi amathathu ngesonto, kakhulu kunesikhathi esinqunyelwe yi abadlali abanzima - noma abadlali abakhulu - ekuthandeni kwabo, okungukuthi phakathi kwamahora ayi-18 nama-20 ngeviki.

Abazali kufanele baziswe ngezimpawu ezithile, ngoba izimpawu zokulutha komdlalo wevidiyo zihlala zifana njalo. Siphawula, isibonelo, ukwehla ngokungazelelwe imiphumela yesikole, ukungabi nentshisekelo kunoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lomsebenzi kodwa futhi nakubudlelwano bezenhlalo (abangane nomndeni). Eqinisweni, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo ngokomongo wokulutha kuthatha isikhathi esiningi, ngoba lowo muntu akakwazi ukunciphisa isikhathi asinikela emidlalweni. Lokhu kulimaza eminye imisebenzi ayeyithanda, kepha, njengemidlalo, i-cinema, umculo, ubuciko obubukwayo noma ukuvakasha okulula nje nabangane. Intsha ijwayele ukuzihlukanisa futhi ayisafuni ukushiya amakhaya ayo.

Uma ubona izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho, kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke umthombo. Lokhu kungaqhamuka ngokuphelele ekuthandeni imidlalo yevidiyo.

Siyabona imiphumela kuye ubuthongo ngoba umdlali umlutha ivame ukudlala ngisho nasebusuku, ifinyeza isikhathi sabo sokuphumula. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuluthwa kungathinta nokudla okusele.

Umuntu obuthakathaka onomlutha wemidlalo yevidiyo usengozini, ngokungabikho kokwesekwa, ngokushesha noma kamuva azithole esesimweni sokuhlupheka kwengqondo futhi okukhulu ukuhlala yedwa. Lokhu kubangela ukungakhululeki okusobala. Ezimweni ezingavamile, a umlutha ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo kungaba lusizi ngokweqile noma kube nolaka.

Uma kungenziwa lutho ukumvumela ukuba ahlukane nokulutheka kwakhe, umuntu osemusha kancane kancane uchayeka ekuhlulekeni ezifundweni nasekunciphiseni ubuzwe. Angakwazi, esikhathini eside noma esincane, alahlekelwe ukuzethemba kwakhe.

Njengoba sibonile, ukulutheka emidlalweni yevidiyo kungaba nemiphumela ebalulekile empilweni engokwengqondo nengokomzimba yabadlali abasha be-pathological gamers, kepha akuvamile. Ukuphendula ngokushesha okukhulu kubalulekile ukunciphisa umkhawulo walokhu kuncika. Umlutha wemidlalo awunakukhawulwa uwedwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukulawula isikhathi esichithwa kudlalwa kufanele kwenziwe ngabazali.

Kubalulekile ukuthi basungule inkhulumomphendvulwano nengane yabo, lapho imidlalo yevidiyo kufanele ifinyelelwe kuyo ngaphandle kwethabhu. Futhi kuyisixazululo esihle sokuba nentshisekelo kule nkinga yamanje futhi ubonise ingane yakho ukuthi nawe uyayithanda. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kuyadingeka ukugwema izimpi zamandla.

Umdlalo wevidiyo ungaba muhle uma ulingana kahle neminyaka yengane noma eyeve eshumini nambili, futhi nesikhathi esabelwe sona sinengqondo. Ukwenza kwayo akumele kuphazamise impilo yomndeni, ukufunda, isikhathi sokulala nesikhathi sokuzilibazisa. Kungaba futhi umsebenzi owabelana nomndeni. Lapho umuntu omusha edlala yedwa, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi indawo ebekelwe imidlalo yevidiyo ibekwe ezindaweni zokuhlala ezibekelwe wonke umndeni. Ngale ndlela, umuntu omusha akazitholi ehlukanisiwe phambi kwesikrini sakhe futhi kulula ukunciphisa isikhathi asichitha kulo msebenzi.

Abazali abadinga ukulutha komdlalo wevidiyo yezingane zabo bangaguqukela kudokotela wabo. Umuntu omusha angabe esenakekelwa yi-a isazi sezengqondo ngokukhethekile emikhubeni yokulutha. Lokhu kuyasiza uma ingane ingumgembuli we-pathological, ngenhlanhla engajwayelekile kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuziphatha okuluthayo kuvame kakhulu kubantu abadala kunabantu abasha. Noma kunjalo, lapho sibhekene necala elibi kakhulu, kungcono ukhethe ukuthunyelwa komuntu omusha kuchwepheshe enkingeni yokuziphatha kwabasha nezingane.

Ukuvimbela ukulutha emidlalweni yevidiyo kudinga ukusungulwa kwemithetho yangempela kepha hhayi ebucayi: akukho mbuzo wokunqabela ukufinyelela emidlalweni yevidiyo. Imizuzu engamashumi amathathu kuye kumashumi ayisithupha ngosuku, kuya ngeminyaka yengane noma eyeve eshumini nambili, yisikhathi sokudlala esifanelekile futhi esiphephile.