Ukuphana nokuphana kwenza umhlaba wethu ube indawo engcono. Benza owamukelayo ajabule kanye nalowo ophayo. Naphezu kwezinzuzo ezisobala, izimfanelo ezinjalo ezweni lanamuhla zifanelekile isisindo sazo ngegolide. Umphakathi wamanje wakhiwe ngendlela yokuthi wonke umuntu azifunele okwengeziwe. Ubumnandi manje busezikhundleni, emandleni, ekuzijabuliseni kwezinkanuko nasekuphishekeleni ukunethezeka. Okwamanje, amathuba angapheli omusa nokupha asizungezile ngaso sonke isikhathi, nsuku zonke. Ukuze umise inkambo enjalo yezenzakalo futhi uyiphendulele kuma-degree angu-180, kuyadingeka, mhlawumbe, ukuguqula umbono wezwe kancane. Nokho, lokhu akunzima njengoba kungase kubonakale ekuqaleni, futhi kunezinzuzo eziningi.
1. Izinsiza zenjabulo azinamkhawulo
Umqondo wokuncintisana othi “wena noma wena” ovame ukubekwa ezweni lanamuhla awunangqondo futhi awunabuntu. Ake sidwebe ukuhambisana okulandelayo: sicabanga ngephayi (elilinganiselwe ngosayizi) futhi uma omunye umuntu edla ucezu, awutholi lutho. Lapho abantu abaningi abafuna ukudla uphaya omnandi, mancane amathuba okuba uwudle. Ngakho-ke, kaningi, siphinde sicabange ezimweni zokuncintisana (uma ephumelela, ngizogcina ngingenalutho), kodwa lokhu akulungile ngokuphelele., ngokungafani nephayi. Izinsiza ziyakhula futhi zikhule njengoba umphakathi uthuthuka.
2. Ukuphana nokuphana kwandisa injabulo
Ucwaningo luqinisekisa ukuthi ngokupha, siyazigcwalisa, sijabule, sizuza incazelo. Kunalokho, izidingo zethu bezilokhu zihlanganisa ukufuna nolwazi lothando, ukunakekela abanye. Labo abanquma ngalokhu kusesha, ekugcineni, bathola lokho abakufunayo.
3. Ukushintsha ngisho impilo eyodwa ibe ngcono kuyakufanelekela.
Umuntu ophanayo futhi okhululekile uyaqaphela ukuthi ukuxazulula inkinga yomhlaba ndawonye kuyiqiniso kakhulu kunoyedwa. Mhlawumbe isisombululo sizothatha isikhathi eside kakhulu (isibonelo, isizukulwane esingaphezu kwesisodwa). Kodwa lokhu akumvimbi esenzweni nasekunikeleni kwakhe okungenzeka. Phela, ukuthuthukisa isimo ngisho nangengxenye yenkulungwane, ngaphakathi kwemingcele yamakhono omuntu, kakade kuyimbangela efanelekayo. Isibonelo sangempela: umsebenzi wokuzithandela, usizo lwezinto ezibonakalayo (hhayi imali, kodwa imikhiqizo, amathoyizi, njll., ukutshala izihlahla, njll.).
4. Ukuthembana kubalulekile
Umusa uhlale uhilela ukwethembana. Ngokutshala isikhathi namandla ethu kokunye, ngokunganaki sifuna ukukukholelwa lokho. Umuntu ophanayo unethemba. Futhi abantu abanethemba bangabantu abajabulayo ngoba bakhetha ukuphila ngokholo kwabanye.
Unyaka nonyaka, indikimba ekhulayo yocwaningo ikhomba emiphumeleni emihle yokuphana empilweni yengqondo nengokomzimba. Isimo sengqondo sokuphana kwabanye asigcini nje ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka, sigcina impilo yomzimba, sinikeza umqondo wencazelo futhi asikuvumeli ukuba unqotshwe ukucindezeleka, kodwa futhi.
Ngokuzijwayeza ukupha, sakha ubudlelwano nomhlaba wangaphandle, umphakathi kanye nathi. Umusa, ukuphana nokuphana kuyasikhuthaza ukuba sibone abantu ngendlela eyakhayo, kunikeze umuzwa ongenakuqhathaniswa wokuba ngabangane kanye nokuxhumana.