Okuqukethwe
Akuwona wonke umuntu onesikhathi sokususa isihlahla sikaKhisimusi okwamanje, kodwa wonke umuntu oseduze usevele elungiselela uSuku lweValentine. Ukukhangisa ku-inthanethi kuthembisa izinhlinzeko ezikhethekile: izidlo ezikhanyiswe ngamakhandlela, uhambo lothando lwamabhaluni amabili, abomvu amise okwenhliziyo. Kodwa kuthiwani ngabesifazane abangenaye umlingani? Thula ekhaya futhi ukhale emcamelweni wakho? Sinikeza ukukhohlwa ngezinyembezi nokuzihawukela futhi senze okuthile okuthakazelisayo.
Ukuhlala esofeni, ukubukela amahlaya othando, ukudla ushokoledi ngokweqile nokuzisola akuyona into embi kakhulu, kodwa akuyona inketho engcono kakhulu. Ukuthi uwedwa akusona isizathu sokudangala. Ingabe kuyadingeka ngempela ukuba nomngane womshado ukuze ugubhe iholidi? Ungakwazi, isibonelo:
1. Pamper izingane
Ungamoshi imali yakho ngezipho ezinganambitheki, yisa abashana bakho noma izingane zabangane bakho ndawana thize. Vumela abazali babo bahlale bodwa, nawe unakekele izingane - mhlawumbe uzoba nesikhathi esimnandi kakhulu.
2. Siza umuntu ongamazi
Uma kungekho othandekayo eduze, nika uthando kuso sonke isintu. Yenza umuntu amamatheke. Volontiya ekhaya lezintandane noma esibhedlela. Kunabantu abaningi eduze kwakho ababi kakhulu kunawe.
3. Baleka edolobheni
Awudingi umlingani ukuze ube nesikhathi esimnandi: yehla kusofa uhambe uyozidela. Vakashela indawo engaphansi komhlaba obukade ufuna ukuyivakashela, noma ube isivakashi edolobheni lakini usuku olulodwa.
4. Nikeza uthando kubangane nomndeni
Ukuthanda indoda kumane kungenye yezinhlobo eziningi zothando. Sebenzisa uFebruwari 14 njengethuba lokukhumbuza umndeni wakho nabangane ukuthi ubathanda kangakanani, ukuthi ujabula kangakanani ngokuba nabo ekuphileni kwakho.
5. Vakashela umuntu ongenabani
Cabanga ngalabo abahlala bodwa. Vakashela isihlobo esikhulile esishonelwe umyeni futhi manje esihlala sodwa, sinikeze imfudumalo.
6. Gcwalisa usuku ngencazelo
Yenza lokho owawuzithembisa kudala. Qala iphrojekthi entsha, bhalisela amakilasi ekilabhu yokufaneleka, hlanza indlu yakho — lolu suku malungabi yize.
7. Sula ikhala labashadile
Sekuyisikhathi sokufakazela abathandi ukuthi intombazane yamahhala ingaba nesikhathi esihle. Bhuka itafula endaweni yokudlela e-chic yezintombi zakho ezingashadile. Zenzele iphathi. Jabulela imibhangqwana eqinile ecasulayo ngokuhleka okukhulu namahlaya.
8. Gubha inkululeko
Meyi 14 kube usuku lwakho. Phuma emsebenzini kusenesikhathi noma uthathe usuku lokuphumula. Yenza noma yini oyifunayo. Ziphathe, vakashela imuvi noma ikhonsathi. Jabulela inkululeko yakho ngenkathi ukwazi ukuyikhokhela.
"Zama ukujabula lapha futhi manje"
Veronika Kazantseva, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo
Umthetho oyinhloko wokuzizwa okuhle kanye nesimo esivumelanayo ukuzama ukujabula lapha futhi manje. Kusho ukuphila umzuzu ngamunye wokuphila. Ungaguquli impilo yansuku zonke ibe yithemba lekusasa eliqhakazile: "Ngizojabula lapho kuvela indoda."
Usuku lwezithandani luyingqungquthela nje, iholidi abantu abeze nalo. Futhi imithetho yokuziphatha ngalolu suku nayo yasungulwa. Zigcwele izingqungquthela.
Yini ekujabulisa? Yini engaphakamisa umoya wakho? Sebenzisa wonke amathuba ukuze uzijabulise. Ukhululekile futhi ungenza noma yini oyifunayo. Awudingi ukuzivumelanisa nesimo esihlelwe kusengaphambili somunye umuntu. Ukuze ungadabuki ngoFebhuwari 14, yenza izinhlelo kusenesikhathi. Akunandaba ukuthi wenzani, okubalulekile ukuthi uyakujabulela ngempela.
Abesifazane abanganelisekile ngobudlelwano babo bavame ukuza kimi ukuze babonisane. Bakhononda ngomyeni wabo: “Konke kuhleliwe: uthando luqashelwa ngoFebhuwari 14, izimbali zinikezwa ngoMashi 8, isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni ngosuku lwami lokuzalwa. Kodwa empilweni evamile akanandaba, uyabanda, unyamalala ngaso sonke isikhathi emsebenzini.
Abaningi bakha ukubukeka kokuphila okujabulisayo ngamaholide kuphela. Kodwa ukuphila kwangempela kumanje. Amaholide kuwo ahlelwa nguwe ngokwakho, uma ufuna, hhayi ngezinsuku ezabelwe lokhu.
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