Ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi kanye nengane
Yiqiniso, akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ubaba ahlanganise umsebenzi nengane, kodwa kubonakala sengathi, ngokusho kwabanye omama,namanje obaba abaningi bafika ekhaya ebusuku kakhulu noma banakekele abancane babo ngezimpelasonto kuphela! Njengo-Odile, izinyanga ezingu-2,5 ezikhulelwe nomama we-Maxime oneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, umyeni wakhe “Utshala imali eningi emsebenzini, akanalo uhlelo futhi akazi ukuthi uzobe esekhaya ngasikhathi sini”, noma uCéline, okhala ngokuthi a “Umyeni akekho ekhaya … uhlezi ezindlalele kusofa”, noma omunye umama ongenayo “Angizizwa ngisekelwe nhlobo” ngomyeni ongazitshali izimali “Okukhulu emsebenzini wengane. “ Ngakho obaba abaningi bangachitha ingxenye yesikhathi ngisho nangaphezulu kunomama benomntwana wabo omncane!
Kodwa izinto zingashintsha!
Uma owesilisa empilweni yakho engazibandakanyi noBaby ngendlela obungathanda ngayo, angase adinge isikhathi sokwenza kanjalo ukujwayela indima yakho entsha njengobaba. Ngakho bekezela.
Futhi uma, naphezu kwakho konke, uqhubeka nokuthatha konke ngokwakho, ungangabazi ukumtshela ngesimo, ukumtshela ukuthi udinga ukuphefumula nokuthi usizo oluncane luzokwenzela okuhle kakhulu. Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi kodwa, njengo-Anne-Sophie, ungazama njalo ubone isimo sishintsha: “Ngamsongela ngokuthi ngizomshiya yedwa ne-TV yakhe, kodwa lutho. Ngimshiye yedwa nezingane ezikhalayo eyothenga, akazange ashintshe namanabukeni waze wabaphuzisa. Kodwa lapho ngidlala ikhadi labangane abasizayo futhi babambe iqhaza emisebenzini yasekhaya (ngisebenza isikhathi esigcwele amahora amabili ohambo ngosuku), ngihlekwa usulu ngenxa yenkathi yakhe yakudala, waqala ukuphaphama kancane. Ngokufika kwesibili, uthuthuka: ushintsha i-pee, usiza ngokugeza nokudla, ok hhayi isikhathi eside futhi hhayi ngokubekezela okukhulu, kodwa uyasiza (kancane). “