Imingcele yobumfihlo: yini futhi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singatshela bani ngawe?

Impumelelo yokwelulekwa ngokwengqondo incike kakhulu ekutheni ubudlelwano bokwelapha bukhula kanjani phakathi kweklayenti nodokotela wezengqondo. Isisekelo salobu budlelwano ukwethembana. Ngenxa yakhe, iklayenti lihlanganyela nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ukuthi yini ebalulekile futhi ethandekayo kuye, ivula okuhlangenwe nakho kwayo. Inhlalakahle kanye nempilo yekhasimende kanye nomndeni wakhe kuphela, kodwa futhi nabanye abantu ngezinye izikhathi kuncike ekutheni uchwepheshe uphatha kanjani ulwazi olutholiwe ngesikhathi sokubonisana.

Ake sithathe isibonelo esiwumfanekiso. UVictoria, oneminyaka engu-22 ubudala, eyisikhombisa kubo, ngokuphikelela kukanina, uya kodokotela bengqondo. Izimpawu - ukwanda kokukhathazeka, ukuhlaselwa kokwesaba, okuhambisana nokuphefumula. “Ngiza esimisweni ukuze “ngixoxe” nje, lutho. Kungani ngingavula umphefumulo wami kuma-psychologists? Bese betshela umama konke! Bengingazi ukuthi nginelungelo lokuba nemfihlo!» Iminyaka eyisikhombisa, uVictoria wahlushwa ukuhlaselwa kokukhathazeka okukhulu, umndeni wentombazane wamosha imali, isifo sokukhathazeka saba esingamahlalakhona - konke ngenxa yokuthi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezimelulekayo zephule isimiso sokugcinwa kwemfihlo.

Ngenxa yezenzo ezinjalo, imindeni ingacekelwa phansi, ukulimala kwemisebenzi kanye nempilo kungenziwa, imiphumela yomsebenzi iyancipha, kanye nomqondo wokwelulekwa ngokwengqondo. Kungakho ukugcinwa kuyimfihlo kukhona kuwo wonke amakhodi okuziphatha ochwepheshe bezengqondo nama-psychotherapist.

Ikhodi yokuqala yezimiso zokuziphatha yezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo

Ikhodi yokuqala yezimiso zokuziphatha yezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yathuthukiswa yinhlangano enegunya — American Psychological Association, uhlelo lwayo lokuqala lwavela ngo-1953. Lokhu kwandulelwa umsebenzi weminyaka emihlanu wekhomishana yezindinganiso zokuziphatha, owawukhuluma ngeziqephu eziningi zokuziphatha kwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ngokombono wezimiso zokuziphatha.

Ngokusho kwekhodi, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kufanele zivikele imininingwane eyimfihlo etholwe kumakhasimende futhi ixoxe ngezindaba zokuvikela ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bokwelapha, futhi uma izimo zishintsha ngesikhathi sokwelulekwa, phinda uvakashele lolu daba. Ulwazi oluyimfihlo luxoxwa kuphela ngezinjongo zesayensi noma zomsebenzi futhi kuphela nabantu abahlobene nalo. Ukudalulwa kolwazi ngaphandle kwemvume yeklayenti kungenzeka kuphela ezimweni eziningi ezibekwe kukhodi. Amaphuzu amqoka alokhu kudalulwa ahlobene nokuvimbela ukulimala kweklayenti nabanye abantu.

Phakathi kwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo e-United States, indlela yokuziphatha ithandwa kakhulu. ikhodi ye-american consultants association.

E-US, ukwephulwa komthetho kungajeziswa ngelayisensi

“Ngokomthetho wezimiso zokuziphatha we-American Association of Consultants, ukushicilelwa kwecala kungenzeka kuphela ngemva kokuba iklayenti selifunde umbhalo futhi linikezwe imvume ebhaliwe, noma imininingwane isishintshiwe ngendlela engenakuqashelwa,” kusho u-Alena Prihidko, umkhaya. umelaphi. – Umxhumanisi kufanele axoxisane neklayenti ukuthi ubani, kuphi futhi nini elizokwazi ukuthola ulwazi oluyimfihlo. Futhi, umelaphi kufanele athole imvume yeklayenti ukuze axoxe ngodaba lwakhe nezihlobo. Ukuyisa icala endaweni yomphakathi ngaphandle kwemvume usongela okungenani kulungile, ubuningi - ukuhoxiswa kwelayisensi. Odokotela bengqondo e-United States bayawazisa amalayisense abo, ngoba akulula ukuwathola: kufanele uqale uqedele iziqu ze-masters, bese ufunda i-internship iminyaka emi-2, uphumelele izivivinyo, ugadwe, wazi imithetho nezimiso zokuziphatha. Ngakho-ke, kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi bangaphula ikhodi yokuziphatha futhi bachaze amakhasimende abo ngaphandle kwemvume - ngokwesibonelo, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana."

Kuthiwani ngathi?

E-Russia, umthetho wokusiza ngokwengqondo awukakamukelwa, ayikho ikhodi yokuziphatha evamile kubo bonke ochwepheshe bezengqondo futhi azikho izinhlangano ezinkulu ezihlonishwayo zengqondo ezizokwaziwa kahle.

I-Russian Psychological Society (RPO) izame ukwenza ikhodi ehlangene yezimiso zokuziphatha yezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo. Ishicilelwa kusizindalwazi somphakathi, futhi isetshenziswa izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezingaphansi kwe-RPO. Nokho, nakuba i-RPO ingenalo udumo olukhulu phakathi kochwepheshe, akuzona zonke izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezilwela ukuba amalungu omphakathi, iningi alazi lutho ngale nhlangano.

Ikhodi ye-RPO yezimiso zokuziphatha ayisho okuncane mayelana nokugcinwa kuyimfihlo ebudlelwaneni bokweluleka: “Ulwazi olutholwe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ngesikhathi sokusebenza neklayenti ngesisekelo sobudlelwano bokwethembana alukho ngaphansi kokudalulwa kwamabomu noma ngephutha ngaphandle kwemibandela okuvunyelwene ngayo.” Kuyacaca ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye neklayenti kufanele bavumelane ngemibandela yokudalulwa kolwazi oluyimfihlo bese behambisana nalezi zivumelwano.

Amakhodi okuziphatha ochwepheshe bezengqondo, adalwe ezingeni lezinhlangano zaseRussia ezindaweni ze-psychotherapy, nazo ziyimpoqo ukuthi zisetshenziswe ngamalungu ezinhlangano kuphela. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ezinye izinhlangano azinawo amakhodi azo okuziphatha, futhi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi aziwona amalungu anoma yiziphi izinhlangano.

Kuvela ukuthi namuhla eRussia phakathi kwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo akukho ukuqonda okuvamile kwezimiso zokuziphatha kochwepheshe. Ngokuvamile, ochwepheshe banokuqonda okukha phezulu kakhulu kwezimiso zokuziphatha., okuhlanganisa nolwazi oluncane lwesimiso sokugcina imfihlo. Ngakho-ke, kuya ngokwandayo ukubona ukuthi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezidumile zizichaza kanjani izikhathi ngaphandle kokuthola imvume yamakhasimende, zenze uhlu lwezicelo zamakhasimende ezingenangqondo, futhi zihlole abahlaziyi emazwaneni kokuthunyelwe.

Okufanele ukwenze uma icala lakho selivela esidlangalaleni

Ake sithi ulwazi olumayelana nokusebenza nawe lufakwe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ku-inthanethi — isibonelo, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Thola ukuthi imuphi umphakathi wochwepheshe onguchwepheshe wakho wezengqondo (uma ungazange uthole ngaphambi kokubonisana kokuqala).

Uma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo siyilungu lenhlangano yochwepheshe, uzokwazi ukuvimbela ukwephulwa kokugcinwa kwemfihlo ngokuphathelene namanye amaklayenti, kanye nokulimala kwesithunzi sochwepheshe sochwepheshe. Thola isayithi lomphakathi elichwepheshile ku-inthanethi. Bheka isigaba seKhodi Yokuziphatha futhi uyifunde ngokucophelela. Faka isikhalo bese uthintana nekomidi lokuziphatha lomphakathi. Uma ungakwazi ukuthola oxhumana nabo bekomiti lekhodi nezimiso zokuziphatha, sicela ufake isikhalazo ngokuqondile kumongameli womphakathi.

Ngaphansi kwengcindezi evela kozakwethu, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sizophoqeleka ukuba sicabangele kabusha isimo sakhe sengqondo ngokuziphatha okuhle. Mhlawumbe uzoxoshwa emphakathini, kodwa kunoma yikuphi, ngeke alahlekelwe umkhuba wakhe, ngoba imisebenzi yezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezweni lethu ayikakavunyelwa.

Ungakuvimbela kanjani ukwephulwa kobumfihlo

Ukuze uvimbele ukwephulwa kokuziphatha, udinga ukuthatha izinyathelo eziningi esigabeni sokukhetha isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.

Kubalulekile ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esilulekayo singabi nemfundo eyisisekelo yengqondo kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuqeqeshwa kabusha kochwepheshe endaweni eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ye-psychotherapy. Udinga futhi ukwelashelwa yena kanye nokugadwa njalo nozakwabo abanolwazi oluthe xaxa, abe yilungu lemiphakathi yochwepheshe.

Uma ukhetha uchwepheshe...

…cela amakhophi ediploma emfundweni ephakeme kanye nezitifiketi zokuqeqeshwa kabusha kochwepheshe.

…thola ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sikumuphi umphakathi wochwepheshe nokuthi ubani umphathi wakhe. Vakashela iwebhusayithi yenhlangano, bheka uchwepheshe wakho phakathi kwamalungu omphakathi. Funda ikhodi yokuziphatha yenhlangano.

… buza ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sakho siwuqonda kanjani umgomo wokuba yimfihlo. Buza imibuzo ethile: “Obani ngaphandle kwakho abazokwazi ukufinyelela olwazini oluyimfihlo? Ubani ozokwazi ukuthi sizokhuluma ngani ngesikhathi selulekwa?” Impendulo efanelekile evela kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kulesi simo kungaba: “Mhlawumbe ngingathanda ukuxoxa ngendaba yakho nomphathi wami. Ucabangani ngakho?"

Lezi zindlela zokuphepha zizokusiza ukuthi uthole isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esichwepheshile ongamethemba, futhi ngenxa yokusebenza nobani ozothola naye usizo olusebenzayo lwezengqondo.