Okuqukethwe
Sonke sinamazinga ahlukile wesipiliyoni ebudlelwaneni, kanye nezinga le-intuition. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongafunda umuntu ofana nencwadi vele emhlanganweni wokuqala. Kepha ukuqonda ukuthi ngubani ophambi kwakho, kubalulekile ekwakheni ibhizinisi, ubungane, futhi ikakhulukazi ubudlelwane bezothando.
Usizo kulokhu okubonwayo lunganikeza nolwazi lokuthi ukudla kungamlingisa kanjani umuntu.
Ngakho-ke, uye endaweni yokudlela wayohlala etafuleni. Bese uphenduka ukuze uqaphele.
Yenza ngaphandle kokulibala
Ohamba naye, njengoba wazi, okokuqala kule ndawo yokudlela, kepha i-oda lenziwa ngokushesha futhi ngaphandle kokubheka imenyu? Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi ngaphambi kwakho - onenkani, onqena ukuthatha isinqumo sokuzama. Ngokungabaza, kusebenza kokunye okusha, okufana nokuphila “njengabazali bethu,” sikhetha uphawu olufakazelwe nokuzibeka engcupheni. Lona ngumuntu ophikisana nokugcina futhi ngeke anqobe noma yiziphi izimpikiswano; uhlala engaqiniseki.
Ukuthi kunjalo
Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma obekuxoxwa naye engakwazanga ukunquma ukuthi yini azoyikhetha, lapha, njengoba besho, hhayi ukuya kumbhuli, kuyacaca ukuthi awunqikazi. Kodwa-ke, okubalulekile ukuthi usixazulula kanjani lesi simo ngokuqhubekayo. Ngangibubula ngaphansi kokuphefumula kwakhe, ngibonisana nawe, futhi ekugcineni, ngakhathala yena; uyala okuthile, uxwayisiwe. Le ndoda ayizazi ukuthi ifunani empilweni futhi kungenzeka idlale indawo yesibili.
Kepha uma umuntu enqotshwa izitsha ezintsha angajwayelekile ekuqaleni kepha uthathe ukuma okusebenzayo - ukubiza uweta ukuthi ancome nokuningi ngemenyu noma acele izincomo zakho futhi enze imibuzo yokulandela, lokhu kuyindlela ekhuthazayo . Indoda ekulungele ukubhekana nezinselelo futhi - ngaphezu kwalokho - inentshisekelo yenqubo.
Yini ongathanda?
Okuyalela isathelayithi nakho kuningi engakusho ngakho.
Ngokusho kochwepheshe, uma umngane wakho ekhethe isaladi yemifino emisha, ama-smoothies, inhlanzi eshisiwe phambi kwakho, kungenzeka, ungenise. Futhi, ungumuntu onokuthula futhi ononembeza. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abantu abanjalo imvamisa bayazi ngokudla kwabo, futhi kulula ukuzijwayeza ukudla okunempilo.
Ama-extroverts, kunalokho, ngiyathanda inyama enamafutha namaswidi. Bathanda ukuthola ngokudla ubumnandi futhi abavamile ukwenqaba imihlangano nabangane. Ngakho-ke, ama-extroverts maningi amathuba okudla ngokweqile nesisindo eseqile.
Ake sithi umngane wakho ukhetha a ukupheka kanye nonyaka ngopelepele oshisayo zonke izidlo, wena odlala umdlalo othanda ubungozi. Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwaseChicago, othanda ispicier sokudla ukhetha ukugembula, ukushayela okusheshayo, nama-movie asabisayo. Labo abakhetha izitsha ezingaphandle abasoze baba yisicefe. Abathandi bezinto ezintsha, baphendula kalula ekuhambeni kwe-adventure futhi bahlala bekulungele ukuthola imibono emisha emsebenzini.
Ngikhombise ukuthi udla kanjani, ngizokutshela ukuthi ungubani
Ngakho-ke, kwa-odawa izitsha. Manje bhekisisa ukuthi ozohamba naye uzoba nani nokuthi yimaphi ama-condiment ongangeza
Umkhuba wokuxuba epuletini konke ukudla okuyinqwaba eyodwa enkulu, namanje akuqedile kuqala, wukuqhubeka nakho bese ubuyela kowokuqala, kunika abantu abafuna ukuthola impilo ngasikhathi sinye, hhayi imininingwane ephazamisayo. Azihambisani necebo lempumelelo elizinzile; bafuna ukuthatha ithikithi lenhlanhla lapha futhi manje. Umbono womphakathi awubalulekile kangako kubo, njengokuthi bangakhuphuka kangakanani empilweni. Abantu abanjalo bayasazisa isikhathi, bathanda ukuzijabulisa, futhi imvamisa kuvulekile.
Umlingani wakho onesifiso sokudla isobho nokuhlafuna ukuze abanye baconse amathe? Ngaphambi kokuba uvule futhi ungakhathali umuntu ongabhekani naye, cabanga ngaye. Ngabantu abanjalo kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ngoba babhekene nesigqi sangaphakathi kuphela.
Izinto ezintathu ongazibuka ungapheli: umlilo, amanzi, nokuthi ukuhlala phambi kwabantu akunakude futhi kusike ngokucophelela zonke izithako ezisepuletini lakho - okuyisidina nokuqikelela. Ukulungiswa okuhle kwanoma yiliphi ibhizinisi kwehlukanisa laba bantu. Emsebenzini, bakhetha inqubekela phambili ehamba kancane kepha engagudluki ekukhuphukeni kwesitebhisi somsebenzi, futhi ebudlelwaneni, banentshisekelo kumlingani ohlala njalo futhi onokwethenjelwa. Bayaphuza ebhizinisini; Ngingathanda ukwenza okunenjongo futhi okufanele, kepha ngithembeke futhi nginesizotha, bangathembela impela. Lokhu akubona abazingeli benhlanhla, kunalokho, izisebenzi kanye nabasebenzi.
Labo abaqaqa isitsha epuletini bezithako ngazinye, umsebenzi usebenza njengomhleli, kanti indlu iqukethe iSteria le. Into esemqoka - ukungawenzi ngokweqile, ukuze le mikhuba ingakhuli ibe yisiyezi.
Uma uzibamba ucabanga ukuthi ubheka osikhulumelayo, njengasesikrinini se-TV, ubuka ushintsho lwemizwa ehlukile, uyazi - ngaphambi kwakho, Maverick. Labo abangakwazi ukufihla imizwa yabo ekumungeni kokudla (okumnandi - bayoba nesifiso sokushaya izindebe zomuntu, futhi banciphise amehlo, okunganambitheki - ijika nakho konke kubonisa ukuhlupheka) - abantu abangazivumelanisi nabanye, abangafihli imizwa yabo futhi ungesabi ukuba nguwe. Kuyaqabukela balandele isixuku; Lalela inhliziyo yakho.