I-Psychology

Yenza okuthandayo, thanda okwenzayo, futhi impumelelo ngeke kube isikhathi eside ukuza? Kuhle uku. Kodwa iqiniso alilula njengoba besingathanda. Ukuze uphumelele, akwanele ukuba nje umuntu oshisekayo. Intatheli u-Anna Chui uchaza ukuthi yisiphi isixhumanisi esishodayo ekuxhumaniseni uthando nempumelelo.

Ungase uthande okwenzayo, kodwa ukuthatheka kukodwa akulethi imiphumela. Lona umzwelo omsulwa, okungenzeka ukuthi unyamalale ngesikhathi esithile. Kubalulekile ukuthi intshisekelo ihambisane nemigomo nezinyathelo zangempela.

Mhlawumbe othile ufuna ukuphikisana futhi enze isibonelo uSteve Jobs, owathi uthando lomsebenzi womuntu lungashintsha umhlaba - okuyinto empeleni ayenza.

Yebo, uSteve Jobs wayeyindoda enothando, usomabhizinisi womhlaba wonke. Kodwa futhi waba nezikhathi ezinzima nezinkathi zokuncipha komdlandla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphezu kokuba nokholo empumelelweni, wayenezinye izimfanelo ezingavamile nezibalulekile.

UKUSHIYA AYIKULINGANI IThaleLE NEKHONO

Umuzwa wokuthi ungenza okuthile ngoba nje ukujabulele kuwukukhohlisa. Ungase uthande ukudweba, kodwa uma ungenalo ikhono lokudweba, akunakwenzeka ukuba ube uchwepheshe emkhakheni wezobuciko noma umculi ochwepheshe.

Ngokwesibonelo, ngithanda ukudla kahle futhi ngikwenza njalo. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi ngingasebenza njengomgxeki wokudla futhi ngibhale ukubuyekezwa okukhumbulekayo kwezindawo zokudlela ezinezinkanyezi ze-Michelin. Ukuze ngihlole izitsha, kufanele ngikwazi kahle ubunkimbinkimbi bokupheka, ukutadisha izakhiwo zezithako. Futhi-ke, kuyinto efiselekayo ukwazi ubuciko begama futhi uthuthukise isitayela sakho - ngaphandle kwalokho ngizolithola kanjani igama lochwepheshe?

Kufanele ube “nomqondo wesithupha”, ikhono lokuqagela ukuthi umhlaba udingani njengamanje

Kodwa nalokhu akwanele empumelelweni. Ngaphezu kokusebenza kanzima, uzodinga inhlanhla. Kufanele ube “nomqondo wesithupha”, ikhono lokuqagela ukuthi umhlaba udingani njengamanje.

Impumelelo ilele ezimpambanweni zezindawo ezintathu: ini...

...kubalulekile kuwe

...ungakwenza

...umhlaba uyantula (lapha okuningi kuncike emandleni okuba sendaweni efanele ngesikhathi esifanele).

Kodwa ungayeki: isiphetho nenhlanhla azidlali indima enkulu lapha. Uma ufunda izidingo zabantu futhi uhlaziye ukuthi amandla akho angabaheha, uzokwazi ukuzenzela owakho umnikelo ohlukile.

Imephu yendawo

Ngakho-ke, unqume ukuthi yini oyithanda kakhulu. Manje zama ukuqonda ukuthi yini ekubambezelayo futhi uhlonze amakhono ozowadinga ukuze uphumelele kule ndawo.

USteve Jobs wayengeneme kangangokuthi wathatha izifundo ze-calligraphy ukuze nje azijabulise. Wayekholelwa ukuthi ngokushesha noma kamuva zonke izinto azithandayo zizohlangana ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi waqhubeka efunda konke okuhlobene ngandlela thile nendaba yothando lwakhe.

Yenza itafula lamakhono akho. Faka kuyo:

  • amakhono owadingayo ukuze uwafunde
  • amathuluzi,
  • izenzo,
  • inqubekelaphambili,
  • okubhekiswe kukho.

Thola ukuthi yimaphi amathuluzi abalulekile ukuze ukwazi kahle futhi ubhale phansi izinyathelo okudingeka uzithathe kukholamu Yezenzo. Linganisela ukuthi ukude kangakanani ekutholeni ikhono kukholamu yokuqhubeka. Lapho uhlelo selulungile, qala ukuqeqeshwa okujulile futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyaliqinisa ngokuprakthiza.

Ungavumeli imizwa yakho ikususe eqinisweni. Zivumele zikondle, kodwa unganikezi amathemba amanga okuthi ukuqashelwa kuzozizela ngokwakho.

Uma ufinyelela izinga elanele lobungcweti emkhakheni wakho onentshisekelo kuwo, ungaqala ukufuna lowo mkhiqizo noma isevisi eyingqayizivele ongayinikeza umhlaba.

USteve Jobs uthole ukuthi abantu badinga ubuchwepheshe obunembile ukuze benze izimpilo zabo zibe lula. Lapho eqala ibhizinisi, izinto zikagesi zaziziningi kakhulu futhi isofthiwe yayingenabungane ngokwanele. Ngaphansi kobuholi bakhe, kwazalwa isizukulwane esisha samagajethi amancane, asesitayeleni futhi asebenziseka kalula, aqala ukufunwa phakathi kwezigidi.

Ungavumeli imizwa yakho ikususe eqinisweni. Zivumele zikondle, kodwa unganikezi amathemba amanga okuthi ukuqashelwa kuzozizela ngokwakho. Yiba nengqondo futhi uhlele impumelelo yakho.

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