Ababhali, izimbongi, abaqondisi bavame ukudweba izithombe zothando olufanele. Sifuna ukukholelwa ukuthi kunjalo. Ngelinye ilanga kuyofika inkosana enhle izosiyisa embusweni wezinganekwane. Kodwa izindaba zothando ezivela ezincwadini azihlobene kangako nempilo yangempela.
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, bengiwathanda amafilimu nezincwadi zothando. Ngikhule nginemibono ephusile ngothando. Amadoda ahloniphekile nabesifazane ababukekayo babedansa ngaphansi kokukhanya kwenyanga futhi badla ngamakhandlela ukuze baphile umculo. Amadoda ayengamakhosana ayegibele amahhashi amahle kakhulu ahlenga izintokazi ezinhle. Ukuqabula okumnandi, imidanso ehehayo, izikhathi zobubele, izenzo zothando — emcabangweni wami, uthando beluluhle.
Ngabe sengikhulile, ngashada ngabona ukuthi uthando alunjalo. Ungangiqondi kahle. Ngiyamthanda umyeni wami. Ngicabanga ukuthi sinempilo emnandi. Sijabule futhi sisathandana, njengoba okwamanje sihlangane esifundweni sokudweba ebangeni lesikhombisa. Sakhula futhi savuthwa ndawonye. Sesiyiqembu langempela. Ngiyakholelwa othandweni.
Kodwa phezu kwakho konke lokhu, angikholwa ukuthi uthando luhle. Uthando lweqiniso alunjalo neze. Ngemva kweminyaka emihlanu sishadile, ngabona ukuthi uthando lweqiniso aluvamile ukubonakala luphelele, njengasesithombeni. Kunezikhathi ezinezithombe ezinhle: izithombe zohambo lwangaphandle kanye nezidlo zakusihlwa zothando amantombazane athumela ku-Instagram (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia). Ngezinye izikhathi sithola izimbali ezinhle futhi sitadishe isibhakabhaka esigcwele izinkanyezi nesithandwa sethu.
Kodwa izikhathi ezinjalo zihlukile. Sonke isikhathi uthando alukho luhle
Akasondeli nokuba muhle. Uthando lweqiniso, olugcina imishado nokuphila ndawonye, alulungile futhi alubi. Lena inqwaba yezilingo, izinkinga nokuphelelwa ithemba, umzamo wabantu ababili wokugwedla ohlangothini olulodwa, naphezu kwemibono nezinkolelo ezihlukene.
Lokhu ukugcwaliseka kweqiniso: ikhekhe lomshado ngeke lihlale isikhathi eside, i-halo ye-honeymoon kanye ne-splashes ye-champagne izohlakazeka ngokushesha. Esikhundleni sentokozo kuza ukuphila kwangempela, esikhundleni sokuzenzakalela nezothando - ukukhathazeka kwezwe
Uthando lweqiniso yizingxabano ezinyanyekayo zezihlobo, imali, nosoda ochithekile esiqandisini. Lokhu kwenzelwa ukuhlanza imiphumela yokuvala indle nokuhlanza kukhaphethi. Ziba amasokisi ahlakazekile nezinkomishi zekhofi ezingenalutho ezishiywe ifulethi lonke.
Uthando wukujuxuza ekhishini, angazinaki izintaba zezitsha ezingcolile kusinki nephunga likadoti okufanele ngabe kade likhishwa, akhale ehlombe lakhe kugeleza imfucumfucu kanye nezidumbu ezivuzayo.
Uthando luwukusekelana lapho ukuphila kuthumela izilingo ezimbi futhi engekho amandla okuveza ukumamatheka
Kulapho ekhumbula khona esitolo ukuthi uthanda i-tick-tock ewolintshi, elayisha ingoma oyithandayo kuma-iTunes. Uthando ukubona omunye nomunye ekhishwa ngaphakathi ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu nezingakhethi futhi naphezu kwalokhu uthi: "Ngikhona, ngizohlala nginawe."
Uthando aluzona izinwele eziphelele kanye ne-makeup, izimbali ezimangalisayo kanye nezidlo zothando nsuku zonke. Uthando alulona uhambo olujabulisayo ensimini yamadaisi ekushoneni kwelanga. Uthando lunzima, lubuhlungu futhi luyesabeka. Iqukethe iziqephu ongeke uzibonise kwabanye. Uthando luwukungabaza, ukuxabana, izingxabano nezinqumo ezinzima.
Uthando aluluhle, kodwa lokhu kulwenza lube ngenye yezinto eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi ezibalulekile. Siyamlandela ngokumelene nezingqinamba, sihamba onqenqemeni futhi sifaka ubungozi. Siyakwamukela okubi kanye nokuhle, ngoba sinamathele kakhulu kulo muntu.
Ngeke ngihwebe kanzima, ngothando olunzima ngenguqulo yalo ephelele. Ngisho nalapho sinzima futhi sesaba, sithola indlela yokumamatheka futhi sibone ubuhle ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu. Lawa amandla othando.
Mayelana Nombhali: ULindsey Detweiler ungumbhali wezincwadi zothando.