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Lapho ifika esikoleni, ingane yakho izothola izinto eziningi ezintsha. Othisha, abangani … Zonke lezi zinto ezintsha zingaba umthombo wokukhathazeka futhi zidale ubunzima ekufundeni esikoleni. Sibheka lezi zinkinga ezingavela ngemuva kokuqala konyaka wesikole kanye nezindlela ezahlukene zokuzilungisa.
Ingane yami ingitshela ukuthi ayisithandi isikole
Lesi sikole asiyona inkulisa, inkulisa noma indawo yokuphumula, futhi izingane zingazizwa zilahlekile kuso. Yindawo entsha, enkulu enezisebenzi eziningi. Uma nje kuyikhefu lokuqala, izingane ezinakekelwa umzanyana noma ekhaya, isiqephu singaba nzima. Ukuze usize ingane yakho, udinga ukukhuluma kahle ngesikole, kodwa ngokwethembeka. Awuyibeki lapho “ngoba umama nobaba bayasebenza”, futhi akuyona indawo “lapho ezodlala khona”. Kumelwe aqonde ukuthi unesithakazelo somuntu siqu sokuya lapho, ukuze athenge izinto, akhule. Manje usengumfundi. Uthe uma elokhu ethi akasithandi isikole. kufanele uqonde ukuthi kungani. Thatha i- ukuhlangana nothisha futhi wenze ingane yakho ikhulume. Akalokothi noma akakwazi ukuveza izizathu zakhe eziyisisekelo: umngane omcasulayo ngesikhathi sokuphumula, inkinga enkantini noma enkulisa ... Ungasebenzisa futhi i-albhamu yentsha ngezikhathi ezahlukene zesikole : kungamsiza ukuveza imizwa yakhe.
Ikilasi lengane yami likumazinga amabili
Imvamisa ukukhathazeka kakhulu kubazali kunezingane, amakilasi asezingeni elikabili okucebisa kakhulu. Abancane bagezwa ngolimi olunothile; bahamba ngokushesha ekufundeni. Abantu abadala baba yizibonelo futhi bazizwe bebalulekile futhi benesibopho, okuyinto ikhuthaza ukuzimela kwabo. Baphinde badlulisele ulwazi lwabo kubo, okubasiza ukuthi baluhlanganise. Ngokwakhe, uthisha uyaqikelela ukuthi uyawahlonipha amazinga ehlukene, mayelana nokufunda okuqondile kweqembu ngalinye.
Ingane yami ayihlaliseki emuva kokubuyela esikoleni
Ukubuyela esikoleni kuwukucindezeleka emndenini wonke : kufanele ubuyele esigqi sonyaka ngemva kwamaholide, uzihlele kabusha emndenini, uthole umzanyana, wenze izikhathi zokwelashwa, ubhalisele imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole ... Kafushane, ukuqalisa kabusha akulula kunoma ubani! Ukulingisa ekilasini nakho kuyakhathaza : izingane zinezinsuku ezinde zeqoqo, eqenjini elikhulu. Abancane kufanele bafunde ukujwayela lesi sigqi esisha. Ukukhathala akulawulwa kahle futhi izingane zithukuthela ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukubaqinisekisa isigqi esivamile "Ukulala-ukuvuka-ukuzijabulisa" ekhaya.
Ingane yami imanzisa umbhede kusukela kuqale unyaka wesikole
Kaningi, inhlanzeko isanda kutholwa futhi ukuphithizela kokuqala konyaka wesikole kubukela phansi lokhu kutholwa.. Izingane zingabazali egumbini lezimo eziphuthumayo: lawula ukucindezeleka kwabo, imizwa yabo, abangane abasha, umuntu omdala omusha, izikhala ezingajwayelekile, njll. Bagxila kakhulu emini futhi ngezinye izikhathi "bayakhohlwa" ukucela ukuya endlini yokugezela. Lezi zingase ziqhelelene negumbi lokufundela futhi “abadala” abasakwazi ukuya lapho … Ezinye izingane zihlazekile umphakathi, azifuni ukukhumula phambi kwabangane bazo futhi zizibambe. Uma kunjalo ngeyakho, ungacela uthisha aqinisekise ukuthi uhamba yedwa, ephelezelwa i-ATSEM. Kuzo zonke izimo, letha izingubo zokushintsha.
Ithiphu: amphelezele aye endlini yokugezela ngaphambi kokuthi angene ekilasini. Lokhu kuzomenza azizwe ezethemba futhi uzozinika isikhathi sokumchazela ukuthi asetshenziswa kanjani iphepha, ukugeza indlu yangasese, insipho. Ekugcineni, kwenzeka ukuthi ezinye izingane ziyachama futhi ebusuku: akunandaba futhi, ezikhathini eziningi, yonke into ibuyela kwesijwayelekile ngaphambi kwamaholide Abangcwele Bonke. Into eyodwa ongayenzi: mnike amanabukeni, uzozizwa edelelekile.
Rased, isixazululo ukusiza ingane yakho?
Uma ingane yakho ibonakala inobunzima obubalulekile ngempela lapho ibuyela esikoleni, yazi ukuthi emfundweni kazwelonke, kwakhiwa amaqembu phakathi kwesikhungo sayo ukuze ayisize ithuthuke kangcono kakhulu endaweni yesikole. . I Amanethiwekhi ayisipesheli asiza izingane ezisebunzimeni (Ihlisiwe) ingasiza ingane yakho empumelelweni yayo ezifundweni. Bayingxenye yethimba lezemfundo lezikhungo futhi bangenela njalo ngamaqembu amancane. Ngakho-ke bazomisa izifundo eziqondene nawe abafundi ebunzimeni. Bangakwazi futhi ukuhlela ukulandelana kwengqondo ngokuvumelana nabazali kanye nothisha. AmaRased akhona enkulisa naseprimary.
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