Abahleli be-Psychologos baziqhelelanisa nesikhundla sombhali walesi sihloko: ubudlelwano phakathi kowesifazane ongenangqondo nendoda engenakuzisiza, echazwe esihlokweni, buyingxenyana nje yokuphila. Emibhangqwaneni emihle, awekho amadrama nezinhlekelele ezizungeze i-PMS. Noma kunjalo, kuyasiza ukuthi amadoda afunde lesi sihloko futhi acabange ngaso.
Iphutha elikhulu elenziwa amadoda lapho i-PMS igingqika phezu kowesifazane ukucasha emigodini nasemiseleni, ehlezi kuma-dachas, aphinde adonsele amakhanda abo emahlombe abo. Kuzokwenzekani kuwe: uzokhishwa. Kusuka kunoma iyiphi indawo nesifunda. Inqubo yokukhipha ngeke ibe mnandi. Imizwa eyinhloko: kuzobonakala kuwe ukuthi babona ikhanda lakho elihoxisiwe, bese beqhumisa elingaphelile. Uzizwa kanjani owesifazane ngesikhathi esifanayo: ukufutheka, isizungu, umhawu, ukucasuka, futhi ngifuna ngempela i-Kalashnikov ezandleni zami. Futhi, ukukhala, ukukudubula ngokuba i-bastard enjalo.
Okufanele ukwenze ezigabeni zokuqala. Bhala phansi umbhalo we-SMS ephepheni uma ukwazile ukuba kude. Bhala: “Uyintombazane yami. Yikho kodwa (!). Ngokushesha nje lapho mina nobaba silungisa imoto (ngokushesha nje lapho mina noKolya sihambisa ikhabethe), ngizobe ngiseduze nawe ngokushesha. Uzofika nini?" Uma bekuthumela (“Skotina, angidingi lutho oluvela kuwe!”) ekuphenduleni lokhu, khona-ke isigaba sokuqala sesivele sidlulile futhi usendaweni yesigameko.
Okufanele ukwenze ngesikhathi esibucayi: akukho okuzokusiza. Linda aze aqale ukukhala futhi uthumele i-SMS engenhla futhi. Vele ungeze: "Nginokumangala." Ushokoledi kufanele ube isimanga. Unganiki amakha njengesipho - ngalesi sikhathi, umbono wephunga uyashintsha futhi, ngokuvamile, ikhanda libuhlungu ngenxa yephunga.
Uma utholakala, vele umlalele. Lapha, vele ume ndawana thize ngemva kohlaka lomnyango ukuze lingandizi ekhanda lakho, futhi umlalele. Ungawaphakamisi amashiya, ungahleki, ungasho ukuthi «yini umbhedo» — izinga lesiphepho lizokhuphuka ngokuhleleka kobukhulu. Ngokuvamile, kungcono ukufihla ubuso bakho futhi uthule. Bese uphuma lapho uzame ukusondela eduze kwakhe ukuze umgone. Inyakazise. Gibela uyolala. Hleba kamnandi. Uma wesaba futhi ungakwazi ukukwenza, kuzodingeka ubekezelele i-PMS amahora ambalwa engeziwe. Yiba yindoda enesibindi. Amagwala eduze kowesifazane akukho akwenzayo.
Okufanele ukwenze kahle kakhulu. Kodwa kunzima kakhulu (i-PMS ngokuvamile ingeyabanesibindi). Yiba naye nje.
Ongakwazi ukukwenza futhi ukusho noma yikuphi: ungasho noma yimaphi amagama abesifazane futhi ngokuvamile ubulili besifazane. Ubaba, uKolya, umfowethu, umshana - kuhle. UNkulunkulu akakuvumeli ukuthi uthi «uzakwethu».
Awukwazi ukuthi “Angifuni”, “Angikwazi”, “Ngeke” futhi “Angiqondi”. Uma ungangikholwa, kuzame futhi ubone ukuthi kwenzekani.
Awukwazi ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho ekuqaleni. Khohlwa ngabo. Ekuphenduleni "Ngiyakuthanda" ungathola "Angikholwa." “Ungixolele” kuyosho ukuthi kukhona okumele ukuthethelele futhi uyakwazi lokhu. Into engcono kakhulu engiyitshelwe kamuva nje ukuthi "Ngizokwenza noma yini." Khuluma ngezinyathelo ezilandelayo. Noma ngabe usubalekele eZimbabwe ngenxa yokwesaba. "Ngizokwanga maduze." "Ngizothenga noma yini oyifunayo, ake senze uhlu ndawonye." "Ngizopheka isidlo sakusihlwa manje, bese ugeza."
Ungalokothi utshele owesifazane we-PMS ukuthi une-PMS. “Sunny, you have PMS, phuza amaconsi” — “Ziphuzele wena ngokwakho!”
Ungadlali futhi ungadlali. Ngokuvamile, kukusindise ekuzameni ukunciphisa yonke into ibe yihlaya! Abesifazane abaku-PMS AKUKHO umuzwa wokuhlekisa! Anakho : inhlekelele akekho umuntu omthandayo uyisola kuwo wonke umuntu mubi mubi kakhulu emhlabeni umshiyile noma ngabe ubambe umlenze ngalesoskhathi. Impilo ayizange iphumelele. Uma kwenzeka uyazibuza, i-PMS kwesinye isikhathi ihambisana nemizwa enelukuluku eyenza owesifazane ahlanyiswe.
Ngokwesibonelo, kimi siqu, isikhathi sihamba kancane. Sekuyisonto kuwena, kodwa kimi yinyanga. Izimoto azihambi emarobhothini. Wonke umuntu wenza yonke into kancane kakhulu. Ukuma phakathi kwamagama kulenga iminyaka. Konke kuqala ukungena endleleni ngokomzimba. Ngangilokhu ngishaya inqulu ekhoneni letafula, ngihayiza, kodwa ngibekezele. Phakathi ne-PMS, ngathatha isaha lomyeni wami ngalisusa ekhoneni ngokuphazima kweso. Okuthusayo, akunjalo? Abanye abantu badla amabhakede ka-ayisikhilimu noma bachithe izizumbulu zemali bethenga, kodwa hhayi mina. Ukududuza.
Uma owesifazane egcwele isimo sengqondo, i-PMS yakhe nayo izoba nolaka. Hhayi-ke kusebuhlungu. Ngifuna okumnandi, okunosawoti kanye nenyama enegazi. Qinisekisa ukuthi inyama enegazi akuyona eyakho.
Asiqhubeke. Kunezindlela ezimbili ezifanele zokuqeda yonke i-PMS: ushokoledi nocansi.
Thenga ushokoledi. Amkhombise buqamama. Sondela ngobude bengalo. Aphakele owesifazane. Ngenkathi edla, unezinketho ezimbili: qala ukumphulula ngobumnene ezindaweni ozaziyo. Uma eheha futhi ekhahlela, futhi ushokoledi wakho undizela ekhoneni, usala nenketho yokugcina:
yiphule bese uyifefa.
Uzodinga ukubekezelela ukuphikiswa okuncane nokuklabalasa, kodwa uma umehlula kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, uzodla ushokoledi wakho futhi abambelele kuwe. Uqinisekisiwe isonto elizolile, elithulile.
Kwenzekani uma ukhetha ukubaleka, ukuphikisa (intsha engenalwazi kuphela eyenza lokhu), ucasuke (awunalo nhlobo ithuba lapha), noma udlale ngaye ihlaya, noma — horror — uphendukela ekucabangeni. Uyazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani? Kuzoba ne-PMS elandelayo. Futhi uzokhunjulwa lapho. Kuzodingeka ubaleke ngaso sonke isikhathi izinwele zakho zimile kuzo zonke izindawo, noma usuvele uphile njenge-anchorite, nakimi, i-Onegin. Uzozuza ukuthi owesifazane uzothanda futhi ahloniphe ikati lakhe ngaphezu kwakho.
Okudingayo ngokuphelele ukuze usinde ku-PMS: UKUBEKEZELA. I-Kiloton.
Odinga ukukwazi: I-PMS ihlala isikhathi esingangesonto. I-apogee ingafika ngosuku lokugcina, futhi ngaphambi kwalokho, owesifazane umane agangile futhi uyakhwifa.