Isazi sokuhlalisana kwabantu, umcwaningi e-Harvard Business School u-Amy Cuddy ugxile emqondweni othi «ukuba khona». Lesi isimo esisisiza ukuba sizizwe sizethemba sodwa futhi sixhumana nabanye. Kuyikhono lokubona kuzo zonke izimo ithuba lokuzibonakalisa.
“Ikhono lokuba khona likhula ekuzikholelweni kuwe nasekuthembeleni kuwena—emizweni yakho eyiqiniso, eqotho, ohlelweni lwakho lwenani, emakhonweni akho. Lokhu kubalulekile, ngoba uma ungakholelwa kuwena, abanye bazokholelwa kanjani kuwe? Kubuza u-Amy Cuddy. Ukhuluma ngezifundo eziye zabonisa ukuthi ngisho namagama umuntu aziphindaphinda kuye, njengokuthi «amandla» noma «ukuzithoba,» aguqule ukuziphatha kwakhe ngendlela ebonwa ngabanye. Futhi uchaza «ukuma kwamandla» lapho singazizwa siqiniseka ngokwengeziwe. Incwadi yakhe yaqanjwa ngokuthi "Enye Yezincwadi Zebhizinisi Ezihamba Kakhulu eziyi-15" yiForbes.
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