I-Psychology
Ifilimu "izihlalo ezingu-12"

Unyembezi kufanele luphume kuliphi iso? - Kusukela kwesokudla! Oleg Tabakov angenza konke.

landa ividiyo

a a a a Ikhono lokulawula imizwa yakho alikho kuyivelakancane, kakade izingane zibangela kalula ukukhala kwazo kubazali bazo, kubo kuyisisekelo. Abalingisi, amaNdiya, amanxusa kanye nabanye abantu abaye baqeqeshwa ngokukhethekile banokulawula okungcono kakhulu imizwelo yabo kunabantu abavamile abangenakho ukuqeqeshwa okunjalo. Ukulungela komuntu ukuphatha imizwa ngokuyinhloko kunqunywa ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono alandelayo:

  • ikhono lokuphumula
  • ikhono lokulawula ukunaka kwakho. Ikakhulukazi, dweba ukunaka kwakho kulokho okudingayo futhi uziphazamise kulokho okungadingekile.
  • ikhono lokuzola ubukhona futhi
  • ukuthuthukiswa kokubonakaliswa kwemizwelo.

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“UTabakov unenkanyezi ezihlalweni zami eziyishumi nambili,” kukhumbula uMark Zakharov. - Kwesinye seziqephu, iqhawe lakhe kudingeke ukuthi lihlengezele izinyembezi. Bese u-Oleg Pavlovich engibuza: "Yiliphi iso okufanele liphume izinyembezi?" Nganquma ukuthi lokhu kwakuyihlaya, futhi ngaphandle kokungabaza ngaphendula: "Kusuka kwesokudla." Cabanga ngokumangala kwami ​​lapho, ngesikhathi esifanele, izinyembezi zikaTabakov ziphuma esweni lakhe langakwesokudla↑.

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Njengombono ojwayelekile, siphawula ukuthi wonke lawa makhono asebenza kuphela uma umuntu esesimeni esihle kakhulu: uzizwa ejwayelekile (futhi engaguli), ulele ngokwanele, akakhathali, njalonjalo. Umuntu okhathele kakhulu, ogulayo futhi olele akakwazi ukulawula imizwa yakhe.

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