Cishe isigamu sabashadile bamisa bonke ubudlelwano obuseduze lapho belindele umntwana. Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile ukuyeka injabulo? Ucansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa lungaba yinto emnandi - inqobo nje uma uqaphela.
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, umzimba wesifazane uyashintsha, kanjalo nesimo sakhe sangaphakathi. Kufanele acabange okubili, angathola ukushintsha kwemizwa nezifiso. Umlingani angase futhi abe nokungabaza: indlela yokuxhumana nowesifazane othandekayo kulesi simo esisha? Ingabe ukungenela kwakhe kungaba yingozi, ingabe wayezokwamukela? Kodwa kwabanye, lesi sikhathi siba yisikhathi sokutholwa okumangalisayo kanye nemizwa emisha ethokozisayo.
Ingabe ubulili buyashintsha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? “Yebo futhi cha,” kusho isazi sobulili uCaroline Leroux. “Ochwepheshe abanawo umbono ofanayo ngale ndaba, kodwa bavumelana ngento eyodwa: izifiso zowesifazane zingashintshashintsha kuye ngokuthi kungakanani isikhathi sokukhulelwa.” Ngaphezu kwezici ezingokwengqondo, i-libido ithintwa izinguquko ze-hormonal nezomzimba.
Ukukhulelwa nesifiso
“Phakathi ne-trimester yokuqala, isifuba siyashuba, ngokuvamile kuba nesifiso sokucanuzela kwenhliziyo,” kuchaza udokotela ohlola ubulili. - Abanye besifazane abazimisele kwezothando kulezi zimo. Izinguquko kuma-hormone kanye nokukhathala okuvamile nakho kunomthelela ekwehleni kwe-libido. Okunye ukwesaba kwabesifazane abakhulelwe, ikakhulukazi ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuqala, ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuphuphuma kwesisu. “Abesifazane ngokuvamile besaba ukuthi induku yowesilisa wabo ingase iwukhiphe umbungu,” kusho uCaroline Leroux. "Kodwa ucwaningo alusekeli ukuxhumana phakathi kocansi nokuphuphuma kwesisu, ngakho-ke lokhu kwesaba kungahlukaniswa njengobandlululo."
Ku-trimester yesibili, izinguquko zomzimba ziba sobala kakhulu: isisu siyindilinga, isifuba siyavuvukala. Owesifazane uzizwa efisa. UCaroline Leroux uyachaza: “Akakakuzwa ukusinda kombungu futhi uyawajabulela amafomu akhe, abonakala emkhanga ngokukhethekile. - Ingane isivele iqala ukunyakaza, futhi ukwesaba ukukhulelwa kwesisu kuyanyamalala. Lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu socansi.»
Ku-trimester yesithathu, ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba kuvela phambili. Ngisho noma isimo siyinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yobukhulu besisu, usengakwazi ukuya ocansini kuze kube sekuqaleni kokubeletha (uma kungekho miyalelo ekhethekile evela kodokotela). Lezi zinyanga zokugcina zokukhulelwa ziyithuba lokuthola izikhundla ezintsha nezinjabulo.
“Ku-trimester yesithathu, kungcono ukugwema indawo “yendoda engaphezulu” ukuze ungasifaki ingcindezi esiswini,” kusho uCaroline Leroux. — Zama indawo “yesipuni” (ulale ngohlangothi, ubheke ngemuva kozakwenu), indawo “yozakwethu ngemuva” (“isitayela senja”), ukuhluka kokuma kokuhlala. Umlingani angase azizwe ekhululeke kakhulu lapho esezingeni eliphezulu.”
Nokho, ingabe ikhona ingozi?
Lena enye yezinganekwane ezivame kakhulu: i-orgasm ivusa ukufinyela kwesibeletho, futhi lokhu kusolakala ukuthi kuholela ekuzalweni ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Akukhona ngempela mayelana nokulwa. "Ama-Orgasms angabangela ukuvinjelwa kwesibeletho, kodwa ngokuvamile ahlala isikhathi esifushane, amathathu noma amane kuphela," kuchaza u-Benedict Lafarge-Bart, i-ob / gyn nomlobi we-My Pregnancy ku-300 Questions and Answers. Ingane ayizizwa lezi zifinyezo, ngoba ivikelwe igobolondo lamanzi.
Ungaya ocansini uma ukukhulelwa kuhamba kahle
“Uma uphuma esithweni sangasese esingavamile noma uke wazala ngaphambi kwesikhathi esikhathini esidlule, kungcono ukugwema ukusondelana,” kweluleka uCaroline Leroux. I-Placenta previa (uma ingaphansi kwesibeletho, ngendlela yokuzalwa kwengane) nayo ingabhekwa njenge-contraindication. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuxoxa ngezinto eziyingozi zocansi nodokotela wakho.
Ubumnandi buqala ngokuqonda
Ecansini, okuningi kuncike ekutheni ukhululeke futhi ukulungele kangakanani ukwethembana. Ukukhulelwa akuhlukile kulo mqondo. UCaroline Leroux uyachaza: “Ukulahlekelwa isifiso kungase kubangelwe ukuthi abalingani bacindezeleke kakhulu, besaba imizwa engavamile nokuphazamiseka. - Phakathi nokubonisana, ngivame ukuzwa izikhalo ezinjalo zamadoda: "Angazi ukuthi ngingakhuluma kanjani nomkami", "ucabanga kuphela ngengane, njengokungathi ngenxa yalokhu ngiyayeka ukuba khona." Amadoda angase abe nokukhathazeka ngenxa yokuba khona "kwesithathu": njengokungathi uyazi ngaye, ambuke ngaphakathi futhi angaphendula ukunyakaza kwakhe.
“Imvelo iye yaqinisekisa ukuthi ingane ivikeleke kahle esibelethweni,” kusho uBenedict Lafarge-Bart. Ungoti wocansi weluleka abashadile ukuthi baxoxe ngakho konke okubahluphayo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngamadoda, uyagcizelela: “Kungase kudingeke isikhathi esithile ukuze ujwayele isimo esisha. Kodwa ungazishayi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, owesifazane uyashintsha, abe ngowesifazane futhi ahehe. Kubungaze, mncome, futhi uzoklonyeliswa.”