UMia noma uLeia, uSvetozar noma u-Elisha … Lawa akude namagama angajwayelekile anikezwa izingane namuhla. Kungani abazali bekwenza? Sisebenzelana nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uNina Bocharova.
Abazali abaningi, kakade esiteji sokulindela ingane, bacabanga ukuthi bangagcizelela kanjani ubuntu bakhe, bemkhethela igama lokuqala, elingalindelekile, elikhanyayo.
Lapho befuna ugqozi, abanye baphendukela kwabangcwele. Lapho bangathola kokubili i-Varlaam ne-Filaret, kanye ne-Vassian, i-Efrosinya, i-Thekla noma i-Fevronia. Akumangalisi - ngaphambi kwenguquko, abazali babesebenzisa ikhalenda yesonto lapho benquma ukuthi bazoqamba kanjani izingane zabo.
Namuhla, amafilimu adumile, uchungechunge, amagama-mbumbulu amaciko asiza. Muva nje, uDaenerys, uJon no-Arya bebesemfashinini, kanye noLeia noLuka. Futhi amantombazane amaningana aba Madonnas.
“Ngokuqamba indodana noma indodakazi ngamagama abantu bomlando, abalingisi bezincwadi, izinganekwane noma ifilimu, abazali bafuna ukunikeza ingane lezo zimfanelo abazithandayo kubalingiswa abakhethiwe,” kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uNina Bocharova.
Ngo-2020, abazali baseRussia bakhethela izingane zabo amagama athi Olimpiada, Spring nelithi Joy, kwathi umfana oyedwa waqanjwa ngokuthi uJulian. Baze bakhumbula igama elithi Stalin elakhohliwe isikhathi eside, elalidume kakhulu ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yama-20s.
Ekhulwini lama-21 eRussia, okuthandwayo kunikezwa amagama amadala aseRussia nama-pseudo-Russian: isibonelo, uDragoslav.
Ngendlela, bekulokhu kunemfashini yamagama athile. Ngokwesibonelo, ezikhathini zamaSoviet, ingane yayingathola igama elithi Dazdraperma (elisuka kusifinyezo esithi “Phila Kahle Ngomhla WokuQala Kuka-May!”), Algebrina (elisuka egameni elithi “algebra”), Idlena (“imibono kaLenin”), iPartizan ngisho Oyushminald ("Otto Yulievich Schmidt on an ice floe «). Lena yindlela esabonakaliswa ngayo isifiso “sokwakha izwe elisha” ngaphansi kohlaka lomkhaya owodwa.
Lapho i-USSR ithumela umuntu wokuqala emkhathini, abafana babebizwa ngokuthi uYuri. Futhi lapho owesifazane wokuqala eya lapho, amantombazane amaningi asanda kuzalwa aba ama-Valentines.
Ngekhulu lesi-XNUMX eRussia, abaningi bakhetha amagama amadala aseRussia kanye nawe-Slavic mbumbulu: ngokwesibonelo, uDragoslav noVolodomir. Abazali abanesibindi kakhulu baqaphela amaphupho abo ngokuzibandakanya ezenzweni ezingokomoya futhi banikeze incazelo ethile ye-esoteric egameni. Ngokwesibonelo, umfana angase abizwe ngokuthi iCosmos, kanti intombazane ingase ibizwe ngokuthi iKarma.
Abantu abadala baqondiswa yini lapho becabanga ngokuthi bangayiqamba ngani indodana noma indodakazi yabo? "Ukukhetha amagama angavamile," kusho uNina Bocharova. “Abazali bafuna ukugcizelela ubuntu bengane ngegama, ukuze bayihlukanise kwabanye.”
Kwesinye isikhathi izisusa zingaba ngokwenhlalo namasiko, ezihlobene nokuhlangana kwezwe noma kwezenkolo, uchwepheshe uyanezela.
Ngeshwa, lapho uqamba ingane ngendlela engavamile futhi ekhangayo, abazali bacabanga kakhulu ngezifiso zabo, hhayi ngomuntu okufanele aphile naleli gama, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo siyakhumbula. Kubonakala sengathi abaqondi ukuthi igama elingavamile lingaba isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa. Futhi indodana noma indodakazi ekhulile ekugcineni izomzonda futhi, mhlawumbe, ize imshintshe. Ngenhlanhla, akunzima ukukwenza manje.
Kungcono ukuqala ngokuhlaziya ukuthi igama lingathinta kanjani impilo yengane emphakathini.
Yini-ke okufanele uyicabangele lapho ukhetha, uma kungewona owakho umcabango? Inhlanganisela ne-patronymic, isibongo, noma idethi kwabaNgcwele? Ungenzi kanjani ingane ingajabuli?
“Kungcono siqale sihlaziye ukuthi igama lingayithinta kanjani impilo yakhe emphakathini. Ngabe kuzokhululeka ukuthi ahluke kangaka futhi agqame, kuzoba neziteketiso zamahlaya, iziqalo, bazohlekisa ngaye. Igama lizothinta kanjani ikhono lokuxhumana kanye nokuzazisa. Phela, leli gama kufanele linikezwe ingane, hhayi kubazali abamkhethela yena, "kuchaza uchwepheshe.
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ungakhetha izinketho eziningana ngokutadisha umlando wemvelaphi yegama. Futhi ngemva kokubeletha, bheka umuntu owazalwa, futhi unqume ukuthi yimuphi ofaneleka kakhulu. Futhi cabanga izikhathi eziyikhulu ngaphambi kokubiza ingane u-Pronya noma u-Evlampia.