Siqondana no-Sabine Duflo, udokotela wezengqondo nodokotela womndeni, umbhali othi “Lapho izikrini ziba ne-neurotoxic: asivikele ubuchopho bezingane zethu”, ed. I-Marabout.
Ekilasini, phakathi kwezingane zaba nomkhuba wokukopisha kumakhelwane wazo we-CE1. Ezemidlalo noma phakathi nemidlalo yebhodi lomndeni, uqoqa amaphuzu acatshangelwayo futhi aguqule imithetho yomdlalo ukuze azuze. “Akumangalisi ukuthi lezi zingane zingena eminyakeni yokucabanga futhi zifuna ukuwina nokuba ngabaphambili. Ngokuvamile, lesi yisixazululo esilula abangasithola ukuze bathole ukunqoba! », Kuqinisekisa uSabine Duflo.
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"Zonke izingane zinamandla okukopela, kungokwemvelo", kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. Ukuze siqonde izisusa zakhe, siyambheka ukuze aqonde umongo omshukumisela ukuba enze ngale ndlela. Mhlawumbe akakwazi ukubekezelela ukulahlekelwa. Mhlawumbe futhi akakaqapheli ukuthi kufanele ahloniphe izingqinamba. Noma ukuthi usevele unolaka lokufuna ukugoba noma ukwephula imithetho? Uma edlala ukholo olubi kuphela phambi komuntu ofanayo, ngokuqinisekile uzizwa engaphansi kwakhe. Kodwa uma ukukopela kuhlala unomphela, kuvusa isimilo. Ube esefuna ukuqeda izimbangi kanye nabangase badle ezinye! Ngezinye izikhathi kuba buhlungu, ukwehluleka okuholela ezigcawini zokwethuka, intukuthelo, ngisho nobudlova. “Ngokuvamile, lesi simo sengqondo siveza umuzwa wokungazethembi ohlobene nokuntula ukuzethemba noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuzethemba ngokweqile, okuyinhlanhla okungenzeka ukuphinde kulungiswe ukuze kungenzeki leli phutha. 'kuyandisa', kuphawula uchwepheshe.
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Sihlela kabusha ngaphandle kokulingisa
Kuhle “ukuhlela kabusha ukukopela ukuze wazi ukuthi imithetho kufanele ihlonishwe ukuze kuzuze wonke umuntu”, kweluleka uSabine Duflo. Ekhaya, singamlingisa endimeni yengane ekhungathekile ukuze sibuyisele kuye isithombe salokho ekuzwayo lapho ihlulwa emdlalweni. Singamkhumbuza futhi ukuthi ngubani onegunya futhi, ngokungaphezi, sivikele ngokuqiniseka izikhundla zalo. Idlula ngamazwi anokuzethemba nokushukuma komzimba okuzombonisa okulungile nokungalungile, "ukuphikisana nokusola okusebenza kuphela ukuqinisa ukungakhululeki kwakhe noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, lo muzwa wokuba namandla onke", kuphawula uchwepheshe. Singambonisa nesibonelo: ukulahlekelwa emdlalweni webhodi akuyona idrama. Sizokwenza kangcono ngokuzayo, futhi kuyoba okujabulisayo nakakhulu! Kuze kube usuku lapho mhlawumbe ingane izocaphuna uCoubertin ngokwakhe: “Into ebalulekile ukuba nengxenye! “