Ingane yami ihlukumezekile esikoleni, ngenzenjani?

Ukuze kuvinjelwe futhi kulawuleke kangcono udlame ezikoleni, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kwezenhlalo u-Edith Tartar Goddet umema umzali ngamunye ukuba axoxe ngakho nengane yakhe kusengaphambili. Kubalulekile ukumchazela ukuthi akumele enze okuthile ngenkani, ukuthi akudingekile ukuthi aphushwe abanye abafundi… futhi ikakhulukazi ukuthi kufanele axoxe ngakho nomuntu omdala.

Ubuqhwaga esikoleni: ukungathathi ubulungiswa ngezandla zakho

“Uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho ihlaselwe, akufanele ulingise noma uqale ngokushesha. Ukuhlasela ngendluzula umfundi omhlukumezayo noma uthisha omehlisile akusona isixazululo esihle. Ukusabela kwesibuko kubi kakhulu, ”kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Edith Tartar Goddet.

Okokuqala, kungcono ukukhuluma nengane yakho, umbuze imininingwane yezenzo ezenziwe. “Khona-ke, ukuze uthole umbono womhlaba wonke ngalesi simo, hlangana nothisha noma abaphathi. Le ndlela izokwenza kube nokwenzeka ukwenza izenzo. “

Qaphela: ezinye izingane azikhulumi, kodwa ziveza imizimba yazo (isisu esibuhlungu, ingcindezi…). “Lokhu akusho ngempela ukuthi bayahlukunyezwa, kodwa kubalulekile ukuxoxa nabo ukuze uthole ukuthi kwenzekani futhi wenze noma imaphi amalungiselelo,” kuxwayisa u-Edith Tartar Goddet.

Sekela ingane yakho uma ihlukunyezwa

Lapho ingane iyisisulu sobudlova basesikoleni, kubalulekile ukuyisekela, kugcizelela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Edith Tartar Goddet. “Isibonelo, qiniseka ukuthi akabuyi yedwa esikoleni…”

Kuyadingeka futhi ukuhlukanisa ukungaboni ngaso linye kanye nolaka phakathi kwabafundi (okungaholeli kunoma yikuphi ukuhlukumezeka) kusukela kubudlova bangempela nokuhlukunyezwa. Izingane eziyizisulu, ngokuvamile ezishaqekile, zikhuluma ngendlela eyihaba. Ngakho-ke bangase badinge ukusekelwa ngokwengqondo.

Ubuxhwanguxhwangu esikoleni: usifaka nini isikhalazo?

Uma kwenzeka kunodlame lwangempela esikoleni, kubalulekile ukufaka isikhalo. “Ngenxa yomsebenzi omningi, ezinye iziteshi zamaphoyisa zizokuphusha ukuthi uvele uvule imbokodo, ikakhulukazi uma kuhlukumezeka ngokuziphatha. Kodwa uma ukwahlulela ukuthi isikhalazo siyadingeka, nokuthi izenzo ezenziwe zinecala, zilalele wena ", kugcizelela uchwepheshe u-Edith Tartar Goddet.

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