Abesifazane abaningi bayesaba ukwenqaba. Ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ocansini. Abafazi besaba ukuthi lokhu kuzobandakanya ukukhashelwa komyeni wabo, ukumxosha, ukucasula. Ngenxa yalokhu, abaningi baziphoqa ukuthi baye ocansini bengathandi. Kodwa lokhu ngeke kwenziwe. Futhi yingakho.
Umzimba wesifazane uhlelo oluyinkimbinkimbi oluncike ezintweni ezihlukahlukene. Futhi isifiso sowesifazane singancika ezigabeni zomjikelezo, ukushintsha amazinga e-hormonal (isibonelo, ukukhulelwa, ukuncelisa, ukuyeka ukuya esikhathini, ukucindezeleka). Futhi ngokuvamile, ngesinye isikhathi ukungafuni ubulili kuyinto evamile kunoma yimuphi umuntu ngokomthetho.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzwa wena - ukuthi kuyini «angifuni.» Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi thina ngokwethu sinesibopho se-libido yethu. Uma ilala, kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi siyini isizathu. Mhlawumbe ukukhathala nje, bese udinga ukuzinakekela futhi uphumule, ubuyisele amandla kanye nezinga lakho lamandla. Kodwa kunezizathu eziyinkimbinkimbi, ezicashile.
Uma kunemingcele enempilo kumbhangqwana, khona-ke umlingani ngamunye unelungelo lokwenqaba ukusondelana. Futhi “akunamizwa” “angisazizwa manje” kubonwa ngakolunye uhlangothi ngaphandle kolaka nokucasuka. Izinkinga ziqala lapho ukwehluleka kuba ngohlelo. Okusho ukuthi omunye wabashadile akasamfuni omunye.
Yini ethonya isifiso sabesifazane?
- Izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana noma ubunzima bomuntu ngamunye obungokwengqondo. Mhlawumbe akuyona yonke into elula ngomyeni wakho, ukucasuka noma intukuthelo kuye kwanqwabelana ebudlelwaneni, ngakho-ke awufuni ukusondelana. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi izinkinga embhedeni zibonisa izingxabano ezingaxazululiwe kwezinye izindawo - isibonelo, zezimali.
- "Ikhaya". Kwenzeka futhi ukuthi inhlansi, uthando, ishiya ngokuphelele isikhala sombhangqwana, futhi akekho ofuna ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo wokuvuselela ubuhlobo nokuphefumula amandla kubo.
- Ukuntula injabulo nokwaneliseka. Abesifazane abaningi abanawo ama-orgasms ngesikhathi socansi, ngakho-ke ucansi lungase lungabi mnandi kubo. Kulesi simo, kuyoba usizo kumuntu wesifazane - yedwa kanye nomlingani - ukuqala ukuhlola ubulili bakhe, umzimba wakhe, futhi athole ukuthi yini emjabulisayo. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi umlingani unakekela kanjani injabulo yowesifazane, ngoba uma ezicabangela yena kuphela, owesifazane akunakwenzeka ukuba ashise isifiso.
- Izinkimbinkimbi nokufakwa okungamanga. Imvamisa imbangela “yokulala” ubulili iyinkimbinkimbi (“okuthile okungalungile ngomzimba wami, iphunga, ukunambitha”, nokunye) noma izithiyo zengqondo (“ukufuna ucansi kubi”, “ubulili abujabulisi”, “angiyena. owesifazane okhohlakele» nabanye). Ngokuvamile agxiliswa kithi ebuntwaneni - umndeni noma umphakathi, futhi awavamile ukugxekwa lapho esekhulile. Futhi-ke kubalulekile ukuzwa lawa mazwi abanye abantu kuwe futhi ucabange kabusha izitatimende ezinjalo.
- Okunanela amasiko okhokho. “Ngeke ngimkhonze ngazo zonke izikhathi!”, “Nali elinye! Angifuni ukumjabulisa!» - ngezinye izikhathi ungezwa amazwi anjalo kwabesifazane. Kodwa wonke umuntu u-sexy. Kwenzekani kuye lapho ubuhlobo obuseduze buphenduka "inkonzo" yowesifazane?
Ngokusobala, inkinga isezinsaleni zezinzalamizi: ngaphambili, inkosikazi kwakudingeka ilalele umyeni wayo - nasembhedeni futhi. Namuhla, lo mbono ubangela umbhikisho, ongadlulela kokunye ukweqisa - ukwenqaba ukusondelana, okuthiwa kudingwa indoda kuphela.
Kodwa ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, ukuya ocansini kuletha abalingani ndawonye, futhi ngokuvamile kufanele kube mnandi kubo bobabili. Futhi uma singakhulumi ngodlame, khona-ke kunengqondo ukuthola ukuthi indlela enjalo ibalulekile yini ebuhlotsheni bethu bangempela. Mhlawumbe, ngokuncisha umyeni wethu ubulili, siyazincisha thina?
Ukhokhe izikweletu zomshado?
Lapho owesifazane engqubuzana nobulili bakhe noma ekhule ebandlulula ubulili, angase akubheke njengesibopho somshado. Uma singazivumeli ukuthi sithi “cha” futhi siziphoqa njalo ukuthi sisondelane, ukukhangwa uzakwethu kungashabalala ngokuphelele.
Kungani kunzima ngathi ukwenqaba umyeni lapho isifiso singekho? Futhi singayibonakalisa lapho ivela? Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphendula le mibuzo futhi uphinde uthole ilungelo lokwenqaba.
Isimo sengqondo ngocansi njengomsebenzi, ukusondelana ngokuthi “angifuni” kwenza kube kubi kakhulu izinga lempilo yezocansi kanye nesizinda sothando sobudlelwane. Akujabulisi kwabesilisa ukuzwa ukuthi umuntu wesifazane uyaziphoqa. Kuba mnandi kakhulu kukho kokubili lapho owesifazane eya ocansini, elufuna. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonipha ngokulinganayo inkululeko yawo wonke umuntu yokufuna nokungafuni.