Okuqukethwe
Indoda ingaphandle, lokhu kuyisenzo, lokhu ukuziphatha. Owesilisa, njengowesifazane, unemizwa nokuhlangenwe nakho, kodwa lokhu akubalulekile kuye, noma kubhekwa njengohlobo oluthile lwesimo esingaphandle.
Kuyesabeka — ungakhathazeki, ungakhathazeki. Noma: “Yebo, kubuhlungu. Kodwa ingabe kungenzeka ukukuthwala? Hhayi-ke, yenza okufanele ukwenze."
Owesifazane uyisimo sangaphakathi, umuzwa kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho. Abesifazane banake kakhulu imizwa yabo, babalulekile kubo futhi bayinto engathi sína engenakunakwa, ngaphandle kwalokho ukuphila okuvamile kanye nesenzo esivamile akunakwenzeka.
Sawubona, Nikolai Ivanovich. Ngineminyaka engu-17 ubudala. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-14, ngabona ukuthi amadoda amadala ayangithanda. Ngiyaqonda ukuthi kungani. Ngiyintombazane enhle, enobudlelwane, abangani abaningi bayathanda ukuxhumana nami, baxhumane nami, abafana abanjengami, ngokomthetho, abaningi. Kodwa uma umfana engithanda, ngiyajabula, futhi lapho ngibona ukubukeka okuthakazelayo kwendoda (ikakhulukazi uthisha), iqala ukungethusa, akucaci ukuthi kungani, ngiyaqonda ukuthi indoda ehloniphekile futhi ngaphandle kwemvume yami. ngeke “ngithinte” mina. pho mina ngesabani? mhlawumbe wena - cha. Ngacabanga ngakho: Ngilinganisela kulolu hlelo, ngiyakwazi ukuzibamba, anginasithakazelo emadodeni. Novalo luhlezi. Futhi angikwazi ukubhekana nalomuzwa. Angazi nokuthi yimuphi umbuzo okufanele ngikubuze wona. kufanele ngenzeni ngalo muzwa, futhi kungaba yini isizathu salokhu kwesaba.
Amadoda awayiqondi inkulumo enjalo ngemizwa. Yebo, intombazane iyesaba, kodwa kungani unaka lokhu futhi ucabange ngakho nhlobo, uma kungekho lutho oluyingozi ekuziphatheni kulokhu: intombazane iqinisekile ukuthi amadoda ngeke ayithinte, futhi yona ngokwayo ilinganisela futhi ngeke iyenze. noma yini eyisiphukuphuku.
Kwabesifazane, ukuzithanda ngokuvamile kungokwemvelo, kuvela enhliziyweni, ukunakekela okujabulisayo ngokwakho, ngomzimba wakho. Lapho owesifazane enakekela konke anakho, ezizwa futhi ekwazisa okuhle kakhulu okukhona, ezinakekela ngenjabulo, futhi ephila ngokukhanya kwangaphakathi, khona-ke singasho ngowesifazane onjalo ukuthi uzithanda yena. Uthando ngowesifazane umuzwa, uthando lwakhe luyisimo sengqondo esifudumele, futhi phakathi kothando lwakhe umuzwa wenduduzo.
Amadoda anokuqonda okuhlukile kokuzithanda. Amadoda akhuluma ngothando kaningi, kodwa uma ungase uthi lo muntu uzithanda yena, khona-ke izenzo ezinomthwalo wemfanelo, izenzo zakhe ziyohlale zime ngemuva kwalokhu empilweni yomuntu. Uzozigeza, afundise, adlale ezemidlalo, asebenze ngesimilo sakhe, okungukuthi, endodeni, ukuzithanda kuyisenzo. Okufanele ukwenze ngawe ukuze weneme, uhlakaniphe futhi uphile impilo yakho yonke. Uthando ngomuntu luyisenzo, uthando lwayo lufuna ngenkani, futhi ukunaka kwayo ngamandla namandla ayo.
Ukuzithuthukisa empilweni yowesilisa nowesifazane
Ukuzithuthukisa, ukuzisebenzela empilweni yomuntu wesilisa nowesifazane banezici zabo.
Ekuqeqesheni, amadoda anesithakazelo endleleni yokufeza ukuziphatha okufunayo. Uma owesilisa ekhuluma ngenkinga yokungazethembi, akakhulumi ngokuzizwa engavikelekile, ngesifiso sakhe sokufunda UKUZIPHATHA ngokuzethemba.
Ekuqeqesheni, abesifazane banesithakazelo endleleni yokubamba umuzwa nemizwa efanele, nokuthi yini okufanele yenziwe - akanandaba, lokhu kuzoba uhlobo oluthile lwemiphumela yemvelo yesimo sakhe esisha. Bona →
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Abasebenzi benqubo banesithakazelo kule nqubo njengokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphakathi kwenqubo yamanje, abasebenzi bemiphumela banesithakazelo kulokho okuzokwenzeka ekugcineni, kuzoba yini umphumela wangaphandle kanye nezinsalela ezomile. Abesifazane bavame ukuba ngabasebenzi abasebenza ngokucubungula, abesilisa bangabasebenzi bemiphumela. Bona →
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