Owesifazane uyaqiniseka ukuthi uyinkaba yendawo yonke.
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Umhlaba womuntu uwumhlaba onenhloso. Indoda ingakwazi kahle ubudlelwano, kodwa ekuqaleni, engqikithini yakhe yemvelo, umsebenzi wesilisa ukudala izinto, ukulungisa izinto, ukuqonda izinto.
Izwe lowesifazane liwumhlaba wobudlelwane babantu. Owesifazane angakwazi ukuzulazula ngokuphelele emhlabeni wemvelo, kodwa isici sakhe sowesifazane semvelo akuwona umhlaba onenjongo, kodwa ubudlelwano nemizwa yangaphakathi. Owesifazane uhlala nemizwa yakhe futhi unesithakazelo ebuhlotsheni lapho imizwa yakhe izohlanganiswa khona: okokuqala, lokhu kungumndeni, umyeni kanye nezingane.
Amadoda anezimiso eziwusizo kanye nesifiso sokuthola umphumela ohlosiwe, abesifazane banezindinganiso ezicacile, isifiso sokuvumelana ngokomzwelo.
Abesifazane bathambekele kakhulu ekuxhashazweni ebuhlotsheni kunamadoda (bona →) futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bavame ukuqiniseka ukuthi abakhohlisi (bona →).
Sonke sivela ebuntwaneni. Kusukela ebuntwaneni: amantombazane adlala onodoli, abafana bathwala futhi benze izimoto.
Abafana namantombazane ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa "bazi" ukuthi ubani ozodlala izimoto nokuthi ubani ozodlala nonodoli. Ungangikholwa, zama ukunikeza ukukhetha kumfana oneminyaka emibili ubudala, ezimweni ezingamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye kweziyikhulu uzokhetha izimoto.
Abafana bangadlala ngamabhulokhi noma ngezimoto - amahora amaningi. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi amantombazane - amahora! - dlala ubudlelwano, dlala umndeni, dlala izindima ezihlukene ebudlelwaneni, dlala intukuthelo kanye nokuxolelana ...
Lapha izingane zadweba isihloko esithi «isikhala». Ngaphambi kwethu omunye wemidwebo. Nali irokhethi: zonke izimbobo nezimbobo zidwetshwe ngokucophelela, eduze kwayo kunosomkhathi. Ume ngomhlane, kodwa kunezinzwa eziningi ezahlukene emhlane wakhe. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, lokhu umdwebo womfana. Futhi nansi omunye umdwebo: i-rocket idwetshwa ngohlelo, eduze kwayo i-astronaut - ngobuso bakhe, nasebusweni nasemahlweni ane-cilia, nezihlathi, nezindebe - yonke into idwetshwa ngokucophelela. Lokhu, kunjalo, kwadwetshwa intombazane. Ngokuvamile, abafana bavame ukudweba imishini (amathangi, izimoto, izindiza ...), imidwebo yabo igcwele isenzo, ukunyakaza, yonke into ihambahamba, igijima, yenza umsindo. Futhi amantombazane adweba abantu (imvamisa amakhosazana), kuhlanganise nawo.
Ake siqhathanise imidwebo yangempela yezingane zeqembu lokulungiselela lenkulisa: umfana nentombazane. Isihloko siyefana “ngemuva kokuwa kweqhwa”. Bonke abafana eqenjini, ngaphandle koyedwa, badweba izinto zokuvuna, amantombazane azidweba egxuma phezu kwezikhithi. Maphakathi nomdwebo wentombazane - ngokuvamile yona ngokwayo ...
Uma ucela izingane ukuba zidwebe umgwaqo oya enkulisa, khona-ke abafana bavame ukudweba ezokuthutha noma umdwebo, futhi amantombazane azidweba nonina ngesandla. Futhi ngisho noma intombazane idonsa ibhasi, yona ngokwayo ibheka efasiteleni: nge-cilia, izihlathi neminsalo.
Futhi abafana namantombazane basabela kanjani ekilasini enkulisa noma esikoleni? Umfana ubheka ideski, eceleni noma phambi kwakhe, futhi, uma eyazi impendulo, uphendula ngokuzethemba, futhi intombazane ibheka ebusweni bomfundisi noma uthisha futhi, iphendula, ibheka emehlweni abo ukuze iqinisekise ukunemba kwempendulo yakhe, futhi kuphela ngemva kokuvuma ngekhanda komuntu omdala kuqhubeka ngokuzethemba . Futhi ezindabeni zezingane, umugqa ofanayo ungalandelelwa. Abafana bavame ukubuza imibuzo yabantu abadala ukuze bathole ulwazi oluthile (Siyini isifundo sethu esilandelayo?), kanye namantombazane ukuthi athole ukuthintana nomuntu omdala (Ingabe usazoza kithi?). Okusho ukuthi, abafana (nabesilisa) bagxile kakhulu olwazini, kanti amantombazane (nabesifazane) bagxile kakhulu ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu. Bona →
Ukukhula, abafana baphenduka amadoda, amantombazane abe ngabesifazane, kodwa lezi zici zengqondo zihlala. Abesifazane basebenzisa wonke amathuba ukuguqula ingxoxo ngebhizinisi ibe yingxoxo ngemizwa nobudlelwano. Ngokuphambene nalokho, amadoda ahlola lokhu njengesiphazamiso futhi azame ukuhumusha izingxoxo ezimayelana nemizwa nobudlelwano zibe uhlobo oluthile lokwakha ibhizinisi: “Sikhuluma ngani?” Okungenani emsebenzini, indoda idinga ukusebenza, hhayi ngemizwa. Bona →