“M+F. Ubudlelwano lapho bobabili bewina

“M+F. Ubudlelwano lapho bobabili bewina

Pavel Kochkin - usomabhizinisi, umqeqeshi

Isikhulumi sembula amazinga ayisikhombisa obudlelwano kanye nezinhlobo eziyisithupha zemali ezishintshaniswa owesilisa nowesifazane. Ukwazi le mithetho elula kuzosiza ukufeza i-synergy kumbhangqwana, lapho umlingani ngamunye enethuba lokubona ikusasa labo lemvelo futhi afinyelele ukuphakama okukhulu.

“Uthando, uthando, izinkolelo ezijulile. Yini ekuvimbela ukuthi ujabule ebudlelwaneni?

U-Yakov Kochetkov - udokotela wezengqondo, umqondisi weSikhungo Sokwelapha Ngomqondo (eMoscow), umeluleki omkhulu emtholampilo wase-Udesroze (eLatvia)

Kungani kunzima ukuthi abantu bagcine ubudlelwano? Enye impendulo yalo mbuzo ukuthi ubudlelwano bethu buthonywa ama-schema asekuqaleni. Izikimu zakuqala ziyizinkolelo ezihlala njalo ezimayelana nawe kanye nabanye ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho kwasebuntwaneni, kanye nezindlela ezihlala njalo zokugcina ubudlelwano nabanye. Ngeshwa, lezi zinkolelo kanye nokuziphatha kuvame ukungena endleleni yobudlelwano bethu. Isikhulumi sizokusiza ukuthi ususe lezi zimo zengqondo.

"Ubudlelwano VS Uthando"

UVladimir Dashevsky - i-psychotherapist, ikhandidethi yesayensi yezengqondo

U-Elena Ershova - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emitholampilo, isazi sezocansi, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uthisha wezengqondo

Izizathu ezivame kakhulu zokufuna usizo kuma-psychotherapist zihlobene nobudlelwano kubabhangqwana. Abafundisi bazohlaziya okuvame kakhulu kubo:

• “Uyangishaya, angigcone futhi ahlale engisabisa ngokuthi uzongihlukanisa. Ungamchazela ukuthi isehlukaniso seqile?
• "Ngingamshiya kanjani umuntu engingafuni ukuhamba?"
• “Ngiyesaba mkami. Ngifuna asabe nami.
• “Kuyangicasula uma umyeni wami engisongela ngokungibulala. Kanjani ukucasuka?
• “Bafundise ukujikijela abesifazane ngendlela efanele, ngaphandle kwalokho bafuna incazelo ngesizathu esithile.”
• “Ngimthanda ngempela lo mfana, kodwa akanami … Angaziphindiselela kanjani kulokhu?”

"Uthando nokusondelana kumbhangqwana: okuguquguqukayo"

UMaria Tikhonova - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, umholi wokuqeqesha

Abalingani bavame ukuhlushwa ukungabaza mayelana nokuthi ubuhlobo buqinile kangakanani, uthando lwabo lujulile kangakanani. Ukushintsha kwezinga lokushisa lobudlelwano kunzima ukuhlola ngokunembile ngokwezibalo. Kodwa nokho sinomuzwa wokuthi ukushuba kwezinkanuko akufani ezigabeni ezihlukene zokuvela kombhangqwana. Ungakha kanjani ubudlelwano obujulile nobuvumelanayo kulo mhlaba ontekenteke wenkanuko?

Izithandani zakho ziluhlobo luni? Lishintsha kanjani izinga lokushisa lobudlelwano ngokudlulela esigabeni sokuzinza ngemva kwesiqalo esinesiyaluyalu senoveli? Ukuba khona kwezingane kuthinta kanjani ubudlelwano babashadile? Indlela yokubuyisela isithakazelo esijulile nothando ebudlelwaneni lapho ukukhanga kubonakala kulahleka unomphela? Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sizophendula le mibuzo.