Okuqukethwe
Labo abaxoshwe okungenani kanye, ikakhulukazi ngokuzumayo, bayazi ukuthi lesi simo sifana nokushaywa yisisu. Kuyaphazamisa, kuncishe umuntu amandla kanye nekhono lokuqhubekela phambili. Umqeqeshi u-Emily Stroyya wabelana ngamathiphu okuthi ungalulama kanjani ngokushesha kulokho okwenzekile.
“Kungani ngilahlekelwe umsebenzi? Ngenzeni? Angilungele lutho!» Kungenzeka ukuthi wakusho lokhu kuwe ngesikhathi uphelelwe umsebenzi. Kubonakala sengathi lesi simo kufanele sidedelwe, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi siyasibekela. Ukuxoshwa kungaba nomthelela omubi empilweni yakho nasengqondweni, ingasaphathwa eye-akhawunti yakho yasebhange. Ngokushesha lapho umsebenzi ukhula ngezinye izikhathi, izinkinga zingavela ngokuzumayo endleleni yobungcweti.
Ngezinye izikhathi ngemva kokuxoshwa, sichitha izinyanga noma iminyaka singawutholi umsebenzi, noma sibambe noma yini esiyitholayo ukuze nje sikhokhe izikweletu. Kodwa inkinga inkulu kakhulu kunokuyibona ekuqaleni. Ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi kungaba nomthelela omubi empilweni yengqondo: kwandisa ingozi yokucindezeleka, ukwandisa ukukhathazeka, futhi kukuphoqe ukuthi udlule ezigabeni zosizi njenganoma yikuphi okunye ukulahlekelwa.
Okwenzekile kuyashaqisa. Sididekile asazi ukuthi yini okumele siyenze ngokulandelayo, senzenjani uma sivuka kusasa ekuseni, siqhubeke kanjani uma singenwe intukuthelo noma usizi.
Amaklayenti anezinkinga ezifanayo avame ukuza ekubonisaneni, nami ngiyazi ukuthi kunjani. Ngesinye isikhathi ngaxoshwa kungafanele, futhi ngazizwa njengenhlanzi egezwe ogwini. Amasu ambalwa asizayo kanye namaklayenti ukubhekana nokulahlekelwa umsebenzi.
1. Zinike isikhathi sokucubungula indlela ozizwa ngayo.
Ukuxoshwa kungavusa imizwa ehlukahlukene njengokulahlekelwa othandekayo. Singadlula ezigabeni ezifanayo zosizi: ukuphika, intukuthelo, ukuxoxisana, ukudangala, ukwamukelwa. Lesi sikhathi sifana nokugibela i-rollercoaster yemizwa: njengamanje sikwamukela ngo-100% okwenzekile, futhi ngomzuzwana sithukuthele. Muva nje, ikhasimende lithe lifisa ukuthi lowo owayengumqashi walo ezwe ubuhlungu obufanayo nolwalo ngenkathi libheke phambili ezinhlotsheni ezizayo.
Futhi lokho kulungile. Into esemqoka ukuthi ungazisheshi. Lapho sixoshwa, sivame ukuzizwa sinamahloni futhi sinamahloni. Ungayicindezeli le mizwa kuwena, kodwa zama ukuyilinganisa ngokuthile okujabulisayo.
2. Cela ukwesekwa
Ukudlula kulokhu kukodwa akuwona umqondo omuhle kakhulu. Xhumana nabangane noma umndeni ukuze uthole ukwesekwa, sebenzisa ukuxhumana okudala. Thola izinkundla zalabo abasele bengenamsebenzi, funa izeluleko kochwepheshe. Ukuphuma esimweni uwedwa, usengozini yokuwela ekucindezelekeni.
3. Setha imodi
Cishe, uzizwa udidekile: akusadingeki uvuke ngesikhathi esithile, uhlanganele imihlangano, wenze uhlu lwezinto ozozenza. Imihlangano, ukudla kwasemini nozakwethu, konke lokhu akusekho. Kunzima.
Indlela ecacile yansuku zonke yangisiza kakhulu: ukuqonda ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe futhi ngasiphi isikhathi, kulula ukuqhubekela phambili. Isibonelo, ungavuka nsuku zonke ngesikhathi esifanayo uqale ukufuna umsebenzi, bese uya ezingxoxweni, imicimbi yephrofayili kanye nemihlangano nabantu abangasiza. Imodi izokuvumela ukuthi uthole ibhalansi futhi uzizwe uzolile futhi uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe.
4. Qala kabusha
Ngemva kokulahlekelwa umsebenzi, ngokuzenzakalelayo siqala ukufuna ofana nawo, endaweni efanayo, enezibopho ezifanayo. Ngezinye izikhathi sibona kungazelelwe ukuthi asisakwazi esikufunayo. Okwenzeka kuwe kuyisizathu esihle sokuqala kabusha. Ngaphambi kokuthuthukisa i-resume yakho, zama ukucabanga kabusha ngempilo yakho, ubuyekeze izifiso nezidingo zakho, ucabange ngalokho ongathanda ukukwenza. Umphumela ungase ukumangaze.
I-5. Zinakekele
Ngiyazi, ngiyazi, kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza, kodwa impilo yakho yengqondo nesivinini sokululama kusengozini. Ukuthola umsebenzi kuzokwenza uzizwe ungcono, kodwa kuze kube lokho kwenzeka, zinakekele kahle. Wena ngokwakho wazi kangcono lokho okushodayo: umsebenzi womzimba noma ukuzindla, ukudla okufanele noma ukulala kahle, ubuhlobo obunempilo nawe ngokujwayelekile.
Ungaphezu kweyunithi yomsebenzi, yisikhathi sokukhumbula lokhu.