Ukulunyulwa kuyisigaba esibalulekile ekukhuleni kwezinyane lekati lapho lithola ukuzimela futhi lizihlukanisa kancane kancane nonina. Ukulunyulwa kokuvame ukubhekisa ekuguqukeni kusuka ekudleni ubisi kuphela kuya ekudleni okuqinile. Kepha lesi simo siyingxenye yenqubo yokufunda enkudlwana evumela ukuthi izinyane lekati likwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe futhi lithuthukise ukuzijabulisa kwalo.

Kuyinqubo evame ukwenzeka ngokwemvelo nangokushelela lapho umama ekhona. Kunezeluleko ezimbalwa zokwazi ukuthi unakekelwa yini amazinyane ezintandane ezisencane.

Ngaphambi kobudala benyanga engu-1, amazinyane adla ubisi lwebele kuphela.

Ukulunyulwa kweqanda kuqala cishe amasonto ama-4 bese kuthatha amasonto ama-4 kuye kwayi-6. Ngakho-ke kubhekwa ukuthi amazinyane alanyulwa phakathi kwamasonto ayisishiyagalombili kuya kwayishumi.

Inqubo ivame ukuqala ngokwemvelo lapho amazinyane emakhulu futhi enelukuluku lokwenele ukuhlola indawo ezungezile. Bazophinda bakhiqize izenzo zikanina: ukuzilungisa, ukusebenzisa udoti, ukungena esitsheni, njll.

Kule minyaka, amazinyo abo nawo aqala ukuphuma. Ngakho-ke bazojwayela ukugcwala lapho bencelisa unina. Ikati lizobe selibamukela kancane kancane, okubakhuthaza ukuthi babheke ukudla kwenye indawo. 

Uma unakekela amakati ayizintandane ngokuwondla ngebhodlela, naka lesi sigaba sokulunywa izingono. Lesi isignali sokuqala kancane kancane ukwethula ukudla okuqinile.

AmaKati avame ukuba nentshisekelo esitsheni ngokulingisa indlela yokuziphatha kukanina oyondlayo.

Mjwayele isitsha

Ungashukumisa le ntshisekelo ngokumane ufake ifomula esitsheni. Ukuze uthuthukise ilukuluku labo, bacele ukuthi bakhothe ubisi ezandleni zakho ngokubethula ngendishi ephansi ngokwanele ukuze bakwazi ukuyifinyelela. Qaphela, ungafaki ikhanda lekati ngqo esitsheni ukusivimba ekugwinyeni i-askew.

Qiniseka ukuthi usebenzisa ifomula lekati, elitholakala ngokuhweba noma kudokotela wezilwane wakho. Gwema ubisi lwenkomo olungadala ukuphazamiseka kokugaya ukudla kwamanye amakati.

Yethula ukudla okuqinile

Lapho izinyane lekati selikufundile kancane kancane ukungena esitsheni, ungaletha ekudleni okuqinile. Ukuze ushintshe kancane kancane, qala ngokumnikeza inhlanganisela yefomula yezinsana kanye ne-kibble noma imash ukuze ajwayele lokhu kuthandwa nokwakheka okusha. Kancipha kancane kancane inani lobisi engxenyeni. Ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu kuya kwengu-5 ubudala, ungashiya ukudla okuqinile kuvulekile. 

Beka phambili ukudla kokudla okwenziwe ngezinyane elincane futhi elinamandla amakhulu ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zalezi kittens ezikhulayo. Kunconywa nokuthi unikeze lolu hlobo lwe-kibble kunina oncelisayo ukuze amnikeze amandla anele okondla udoti wakhe.

Phakathi kwamasonto ayisishiyagalombili kuya kwayishumi, izinyane lekati kufanele lisetshenziswe ngokuphelele ukondla ukudla kwalo okuqinile. 

Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, ukulunyulwa kuyingxenye yenqubo yokuthuthuka kwekatana ezothonya kakhulu ukusebenza kwayo kanye nokuzijabulisa lapho isikhulile. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuhlonipha lesi sinyathelo futhi sikuyeke senzeke ngokwemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka lapho umama ekhona ukuze anakekele amazinyane akhe. 

Ukulunyulwa kokudla kuqedwa cishe amasonto ayi-8. Kodwa izinyane lekati lihlala esigabeni sokufunda kanye nemfundo eceleni kukanina nodoti wakhe kuze kube seminyakeni engu-12 kuya kwengu-14. 

Kubuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi ukulunyulwa kusenesikhathi, ngaphambi kwalomkhawulo wamaviki awu-12, kukhulisa ubungozi bokuthuthuka kokuziphatha ezilwaneni ezindala njengolaka noma ukukhathazeka. 

Ngakho-ke kuyalulekwa ukugcina umama ephethe amazinyane amancanyana akhe aze abe neminyaka eyi-12. Ngokuvamile kuyabonakala ukuthi kule minyaka lapho umama eqala ukwenqaba ngokuqinile amakati akhe.

Njengesikhumbuzo, eFrance, ikhodi yasemakhaya iyakwenqabela ukuthengiswa noma ukunikezwa kwamakati angaphansi kweminyaka yobudala eyisishiyagalombili.

Kuyadingeka futhi ukusebenzisa lesi sikhathi esibucayi esakha umlingiswa wabo wesikhathi esizayo ukubenza bathole okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile (ukuzihlanganisa nabanye abantu noma ezinye izilwane ngokwesibonelo).