Okuqukethwe
Wonke umuntu unomngane ongumgxeki ofakazela ukuthi umhlaba awunabo ubulungiswa, kuwubuwula ukulindela umvuzo ophakeme kakhulu wezisulu zabo. Kodwa ngokombono we-psychology, yonke into ayilula kangako: ukukholelwa emthethweni wokuphindisela kungaba usizo ngokwako.
Wahamba wayosebenzela inkampani ekhafulela imvelo noma exhaphaza ubuthakathaka bomuntu — «i-karma eyonakele. Wenze i-repost yocingo losizo - thola "okuhle ku-karma." Amahlaya eceleni, kodwa umqondo womvuzo ovela emhlabeni wonke ovela kufilosofi yobuBuddha nobuHindu futhi ubamba labo abangakholelwa emthwalweni ongokomoya ohambisana nawo - ukuphindukuzalwa, i-samsara ne-nirvana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-karma ngomqondo wansuku zonke yinto esincike kuyo. Iyakwenqabela ukwenza okuphambene nezithakazelo zabanye, ngisho noma kungekho muntu owaziyo ngakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lithembisa injabulo—inqobo nje uma thina ngokwethu sikulungele ukunikeza okuthile ngokungenabugovu. Kodwa konke lokhu kuwukuqagela. Bathetheleleka kangakanani?
nginikela ukuze unikele
Umhlaba wenyama uthobela umthetho we-causality, futhi sikuthola kalula ukubonakaliswa kwawo empilweni yansuku zonke. Sabhukuda ngomphimbo obuhlungu emanzini aneqhwa - ekuseni izinga lokushisa lenyuka. Ungene ezemidlalo izinyanga eziyisithupha - umzimba waba toned, waqala ukulala kangcono futhi wenze okwengeziwe. Ngisho nangaphandle kokwazi kabanzi ukuthi i-metabolism isebenza kanjani, singaqagela: ukutshala imali empilweni yakho kuyasiza, kodwa ukuyikhafulela okungenani kuwubuwula.
Imithetho efanayo, ngokusho kwabanye, isebenza ezweni lobudlelwano babantu. Uchwepheshe we-Ayurvedic u-Deepak Chopra uyaqiniseka ngalokhu. Emithethweni Eyisikhombisa Engokomoya Yempumelelo, uthola "umthetho we-karma" komunye, "umthetho wokupha." Ukuze samukele okuthile, kumelwe sinikele kuqala. Ukunaka, amandla, uthando konke ukutshalwa kwezimali okuzokhokha. Ungavumeli ngokushesha, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela umcabango odweba ngayo, kodwa kuzokwenzeka.
Ngokulandelayo, ukungazenzisi, ubugovu kanye nokukhohlisa kudala umbuthano ononya: siheha abantu abafuna ukukhombisa ngezindleko zethu, ukuthi basisebenzise futhi basikhohlise.
U-Chopra weluleka ukuba usondele ngokucophelela esinqumweni sakho ngasinye, uzibuze: ingabe yilokhu engikufunayo ngempela? Ingabe nginombono ongasemuva? Uma singanelisekile ngokuphila - mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi thina ngokwethu sazikhohlisa futhi salahla amathuba ngokungazi, asizange sikholelwe emandleni ethu futhi safulathela injabulo.
UMA AYIKHO INCAZELO, KUMELE IQALIWE
Inkinga ukuthi izimbangela zangempela nemiphumela yezenzakalo eziningi zisithwe kithi ngodonga lomsindo wolwazi. Uma, ngemva kwengxoxo eyimpumelelo, senqatshwa, kungaba nezizathu eziyinkulungwane zalokhu. Ukuqokwa kwethu kwakufanelana nalowo owayengase abe ngumholi, kodwa iziphathimandla eziphakeme azikuthandanga lokho. Noma mhlawumbe inhlolokhono ayizange ihambe kahle, kodwa saziqinisekisa ngenye indlela, ngoba sasiyifuna ngempela. Yini eyadlala indima enkulu, asazi.
Izwe elisizungezile kakhulu lingaphezu kwamandla ethu. Singaqagela nje ukuthi izinto zizohamba kanjani. Isibonelo, sithanda ukuphuza ikhofi ekuseni ku-kiosk efanayo. Izolo ubekhona, nanamuhla - silindele ukuthi kusasa uma siya emsebenzini sizokwazi ukuziphuzela isiphuzo esinuka kamnandi. Kodwa umnikazi angavala indawo yokuphuma noma ayihambise kwenye indawo. Futhi uma lina ngalolo suku, singanquma ukuthi indawo yonke isithathele izikhali, futhi siqale ukufuna izizathu kithi.
Sinenethiwekhi ekhethekile ye-neural esebenza ebuchosheni bethu, isazi sezinzwa uMichael Gazzaniga ayibiza ngomhumushi. Ukuzijabulisa kwakhe akuthandayo ukuxhuma idatha engenayo ibe indaba ehambisanayo, okuzolandela kuyo isiphetho esithile mayelana nomhlaba. Le nethiwekhi sayithola kokhokho bethu, okwakubalulekile kubo ukwenza kunokuhlaziya. Izihlahla ezinyakazayo emoyeni noma isilwane esizingelayo sicashe lapho - inguqulo yesibili yayibaluleke kakhulu ekusindeni. Ngisho noma kwenzeka «i-alamu yamanga», kungcono ukubaleka futhi ugibele esihlahleni kunokuba udliwe.
Isiprofetho esizigcwalisayo
Ehluleka yini utolika, aqale asiphakele izindaba zokuthi asiqashwanga, ngoba endleleni asizange sadela isalukazi isihlalo sakwametro, asizange simnike umkhongi, sanqaba isicelo. umngane ongamjwayele?
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uRob Brotherton, encwadini yakhe ethi Distrustful Minds, sabonisa ukuthi ukuthambekela kokuhlanganisa izenzakalo ezihlukahlukene ezilandelanayo ngokungahleliwe kuhlotshaniswa nephutha lokulinganisa: “Lapho umphumela wesenzakalo ubalulekile, uyingozi futhi unzima ukuwuqonda, sivame cabanga ukuthi imbangela yaso kumele ibaluleke, ihlehliswe, futhi kube nzima ukuyiqonda.”
Ngandlela thize, sikholelwa ukuthi umhlaba usizungezile futhi yonke into eyenzekayo ibalulekile ezimpilweni zethu.
Uma ube nebhadi ngesimo sezulu ngempelasonto, lesi yisijeziso sokungavumi ukusiza abazali bakho ezweni, kodwa unqume ukuchitha isikhathi ngokwakho. Yiqiniso, izigidi zabantu nazo ezahlukunyezwa yilokhu kumelwe ukuba zenza isono ngandlela-thile. Uma kungenjalo, ukuwajezisa kanye nathi, indawo yonke iziphatha njengengulube.
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo uMichael Lupfer no-Elisabeth Layman baye babonisa ukuthi inkolelo yokudalelwa, i-karma, kanye nokuphatha kukaNkulunkulu noma onkulunkulu kuwumphumela wokwesaba okujulile okukhona. Asikwazi ukulawula izenzakalo, imiphumela ezoshintsha ukuphila kwethu, kodwa asifuni ukuzizwa njengethoyizi ezandleni zamandla angaziwa.
Ngakho-ke, sicabanga ukuthi umthombo wazo zonke izinkinga zethu, kodwa futhi nokunqoba, thina ngokwethu. Futhi lapho ukukhathazeka kwethu kunamandla, kujula ukungaqiniseki kokuthi umhlaba uhlelwe ngokunengqondo nangokuqondakalayo, yilapho sivame ukufuna izimpawu.
Ukuzikhohlisa okuwusizo
Ingabe kufanelekile ukuzama ukunqanda labo abakholelwa ekuxhumaneni kwezenzakalo ezingahlobene? Ingabe ukukholelwa ekudalelweni akunangqondo futhi akusebenzi, okujezisa ukuhaha, inzondo nomhawu, futhi kuvuze ukuphana nomusa?
Ukholo emvuzweni wokugcina lunika abantu abaningi amandla. Yilapho umphumela we-placebo ungena khona: noma ngabe umuthi ungasebenzi ngokwawo, ukhuthaza umzimba ukuthi uhlanganise izinsiza. Uma i-karma ingekho, kungaba kuhle ukuyisungula.
Ngokusho kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo senhlangano u-Adam Grant, khona kanye ukuba khona komphakathi kungenzeka ngoba sikholelwa emjikelezweni wokuhle nokubi. Ngaphandle kwezenzo zethu zokuzidela, empeleni, okusho ukushintshana nendawo yonke, umphakathi ubungeke usinde.
Emidlalweni yengqondo ekusabalaliseni okuhle okufanayo, ukuziphatha komphakathi (okuzuzisa abanye) okuqinisekisa impumelelo. Uma wonke umuntu ezidonsela ingubo yokulala, “uphaya” ohlangene uyancibilika ngokushesha, kungaba inzuzo, izinsiza zemvelo, noma amanani angabonakali njengokwethembana.
I-Karma ingase ingabi khona njengobulungisa obuhlanganisiwe obuletha ukulingana endaweni yonke, kodwa ukukholelwa kuyo akulimazi muntu, inqobo nje uma sikubona njengomthetho wokuziphatha nokuziphatha: «Ngenza okuhle, ngoba lokhu kwenza umhlaba ube indawo engcono. »