Indlela yokuziphatha kubazali abavalelwe ekhaya nezingane? Ungasibeka kanjani isikhathi samahhala sokuya esikoleni? Indlela yokuhlela inqubo yemfundo lapho kungekho muntu okulungele yona ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba? Into esemqoka ukuhlala uzolile, kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Ekaterina Kadieva.
Emavikini okuqala okuvalelwa yedwa, kwaba sobala kuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi akekho owayekulungele ukufunda kude. Othisha abakaze banikezwe umsebenzi wokusungula umsebenzi wokude, futhi nabazali abakaze bazilungiselele ukuzifundela izingane.
Ngenxa yalokho, wonke umuntu ulahlekile: kokubili othisha nabazali. Othisha bazama ukwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukuthuthukisa inqubo yokufunda. Beza nezindlela ezintsha zemfundo, bazame ukwenza kabusha ikharikhulamu yemisebenzi emisha, bacabange ngendlela abazokhipha ngayo izabelo. Nokho, iningi labazali abazange bafunde Pedagogical Institute futhi akazange asebenze njengothisha.
Wonke umuntu udinga isikhathi ukuze azivumelanise nesimo samanje. Yini engase yelulekwe ukwenza lokhu kuzivumelanisa nezimo kusheshe?
1. Okokuqala - yehlisa umoya. Zama ukuhlola amandla akho ngokucophelela. Yenza lokho ongakwenza. Yeka ukuthi konke okuthunyelwa izikole kuyimpoqo. Ungethuki — akuwenzi umqondo. Ibanga elide kufanele limbozwe ngokuphefumula okulinganayo.
2. Zithembe wena kanye nomuzwa wakho. Ziqonde ngokwakho ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zokuqeqesha ezikulungele. Zama amasu ahlukene nezingane zakho. Bona ukuthi ingane yakho yenza kanjani kangcono: uyitshela nini indaba, bese yenza imisebenzi, noma okuphambene nalokho?
Kwezinye izingane, izinkulumo ezincane ezilandelwa yizabelo zisebenza kahle. Abanye bathanda ukufunda ithiyori ngokwabo kuqala bese bexoxa ngayo. Kanti abanye baze bancamele ukuzifundela. Zama zonke izinketho. Bona ukuthi yini ekusebenzela kangcono.
3. Khetha isikhathi esikahle sosuku. Enye ingane icabanga kangcono ekuseni, enye kusihlwa. Bheka - unjani? Manje sekunethuba langempela lokusungula uhlelo lokufunda lomuntu siqu wena kanye nezingane zakho, ukudlulisela ingxenye yezifundo engxenyeni yesibili yosuku. Ingane yayizikhandla, iphumule, idlale, idle ukudla kwasemini, isize unina, futhi ngemva kokudla kwasemini yenza enye indlela esifundweni.
4. Thola ukuthi isifundo sengane side kangakanani. Abanye abantu bakuthola kungcono lapho izifundo zishintshwa ngokushesha esikhundleni: imizuzu engama-20-25 yamakilasi, phumula futhi uzilolonge futhi. Ezinye izingane, ngokuphambene nalokho, zingena kancane kancane kule nqubo, kodwa-ke zingasebenza isikhathi eside futhi zikhiqize. Kungcono ukushiya umntwana onjalo yedwa ihora noma ihora nesigamu.
5. Dala isimiso esicacile sansuku zonke sengane yakho. Ingane ehlezi ekhaya iba nomuzwa wokuthi iseholidini. Ngakho-ke, abazali kudingeka benze umzamo wokulondoloza isimiso: vuka ngesikhathi esifanele, ungafundi ngokungapheli futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungaphambanisi ukufunda nemidlalo. Ukuphumula kubaluleke kakhulu manje njengoba bekuhlala kunjalo, ngakho hlela isikhathi sakho ohlelweni lwakho.
6. Hlukanisa ifulethi libe izingxenye. Vumela ingane ibe nendawo yokuzilibazisa kanye nendawo yokusebenza. Lesi yisimo esibalulekile senhlangano yokuqeqeshwa. Yilokhu okwenziwa abanye abantu abadala abasebenza ekhaya: bavuka njalo ekuseni, balungiselele futhi baye emsebenzini ekamelweni elilandelayo. Lokhu kusiza ekuguquleni ifomethi yasekhaya ukuze isebenze futhi ishune. Yenza okufanayo enganeni.
Mvumele alale endaweni eyodwa, enze umsebenzi wakhe wesikole lapho ehlala enza khona, futhi enze izifundo ngokwazo, uma kungenzeka, endaweni ehluke ngokuphelele yefulethi. Lokhu makube yindawo yakhe yokusebenza, lapho kungeke kube khona izinto ezimphazamisayo.
7. Woza nesimiso somndeni wonke. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - faka kuyo ithuba lokuphumula ngokwakho. Ibalulekile. Manje abazali banesikhathi esincane kakhulu esisele, ngoba umsebenzi wakude wenezelwe emisebenzini yabo evamile. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi umthwalo mkhulu kakhulu kunalokho owawuyikho.
Ngoba ekhaya, izinqubo ebeziqhubeka njengokujwayelekile ehhovisi zidinga ukudluliselwa kufomethi ye-inthanethi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akekho owakhansela ukupheka nokuhlanza. Miningi imisebenzi yasekhaya. Uhlangene wonke umndeni, wonke umuntu kufanele adliwe, izitsha zigezwe.
Ngakho-ke, qala ngokunquma ukuthi ungayenza kanjani impilo yakho ibe lula. Uma uzama ukwenza yonke into ngokuphelele, uzophela amandla futhi ukhathele nakakhulu. Uma uqonda ukuthi ukhululeke kangakanani, kuzoba lula ukuthola ukuthi ungayenza kanjani impilo ibe lula enganeni.
Zinike isikhathi nenkululeko ethile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungakhohlwa ngawe. Ukuvalelwa akusona isizathu sokwenza izimanga, ngoba sinesikhathi esiningi samahhala. Into esemqoka ukubuyela empilweni esebenzayo enempilo futhi ejabulisayo.
8. Dala isikhathi somntwana. Ingane kufanele iqonde ukuthi singakanani isikhathi esinikezwa ukutadisha, futhi singakanani - ukushintsha. Isibonelo, usefunde amahora ama-2. Angiphumelelanga - angiphumelelanga. Kwezinye izikhathi, inqubo ihlelwa kangcono. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa uzojwayela futhi kuzoba lula.
Ungavumeli ingane yakho ihlale ekilasini usuku lonke. Uzokhathala, aqale ukukuthukuthelela, kothisha futhi angeke akwazi ukuqeda umsebenzi ngendlela. Ngoba ukufunda okuthatha usuku lonke kuzobulala noma yikuphi ugqozi nesifiso enganeni futhi konakalise isimo somndeni wonke.
9. Vumela obaba banakekele izingane. Ngokuvamile umama imizwa, imidlalo, ukwanga. Ubaba uyisiyalo. Themba ubaba ukuthi uzogada izifundo zezingane.
10. Khuluma nengane yakho ngokuthi kungani ifunda nhlobo. Indlela ingane eyibona ngayo imfundo yayo neqhaza layo empilweni yayo. Kungani efundela: ukujabulisa unina, ukuthola amamaki amahle, ukuya ekolishi noma okunye? Iyini injongo yakhe?
Uma ezoba umpheki futhi ekholelwa ukuthi akadingi ukuhlakanipha kwesikole, manje yisikhathi esihle sokuchazela ingane ukuthi ukupheka kuyi-chemistry kanye ne-biochemistry. Ukufundwa kwalezi zifundo kuzomsiza enqubweni eyinkimbinkimbi neyinkimbinkimbi. Xhuma akufundayo nalokho afuna ukukwenza ngokulandelayo. Ukuze ingane ibe nesizathu esicacile sokufunda.
11. Bheka ukuvalelwa njengethuba, hhayi isijeziso. Khumbula ukuthi kudala ufuna ukwenzani nengane yakho, kodwa awubanga naso isikhathi noma imizwa. Dlala imidlalo nezingane. Bavumele bazame izindima ezahlukene ngezinsuku ezahlukene. Namuhla uzobe eyisigebengu, futhi kusasa uzoba umama wekhaya futhi apheke ukudla komndeni wonke noma ahlanze izitsha zawo wonke umuntu.
Guqula imisebenzi yasekhaya ibe umdlalo, shintsha izindima, kungaba mnandi futhi kuhlekisa. Zicabange usesiqhingini esingenalutho noma usemkhunjini wasemkhathini, undizele komunye umthala futhi uhlole elinye isiko.
Woza nomdlalo ongathanda ukuwudlala. Lokhu kuzonikeza umuzwa wenkululeko enkulu endaweni yefulethi. Yakhani izindaba nezingane zakho, xoxani, fundani izincwadi noma nibuke amafilimu ndawonye. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi uxoxa ngalokho okufundayo nokubonayo nengane yakho.
Uzomangala ukuthi kungakanani angakuqondi, akazi, nokuthi wena ngokwakho awazi kangakanani. Ukuxhumana nakho kuyafunda, akubalulekile kangako kunezifundo. Uma ubuka ikhathuni mayelana ne-Nemo izinhlanzi, isibonelo, ungaxoxa ngokuthi izinhlanzi ziphefumula kanjani, ukuthi ulwandle lusebenza kanjani, yimiphi imisinga olunayo.
12. Qonda ukuthi emasontweni ambalwa ingane ngeke isalele emuva ngokungenathemba. Ayikho inhlekelele ezokwenzeka uma ingane iphuthelwa okuthile. Kunoma ikuphi, othisha bayobe sebephinda indaba ukuze baqonde ukuthi ifunde kanjani. Futhi akufanele uzame ukuba umfundi omuhle kakhulu nengane yakho. Kungcono uguqule ukuvalelwa kube ukuzijabulisa ukuze ukwazi ukukhumbula lawo maviki amahlanu noma ayisithupha kamuva.
13. Khumbula: awuphoqelekile ukuthi ufundise izingane, lokhu kungumsebenzi wesikole. Umsebenzi womzali ukuthanda ingane, ukudlala nayo nokudala isimo esinempilo esikhulayo. Uma kubonakala sengathi akufanele uhileleke ekufundeni, ukubuka amafilimu, ukufunda izincwadi futhi ujabulele ukuphila. Ingane izoza kuwe nombuzo uma idinga usizo.