Gxila kokubalulekile: indlela yokubeka phambili

Ekuseni udinga ukubhala uhlu lwemisebenzi, ubeke phambili ... Futhi yilokho kuphela, siqinisekisiwe usuku oluyimpumelelo? Ngeshwa cha. Phela, asiqondi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi singahlukanisa kanjani okuyinhloko kusuka kwesibili, okubalulekile kokuphuthumayo. Siphinde sibe nobunzima bokugxilisa ingqondo. Umqeqeshi webhizinisi utshela indlela yokuyilungisa.

“Ngeshwa, izimo lapho ngikwazi khona ukubeka izinto eziza kuqala kimina yizona ezijwayelekile. Ngizama ukuhlela imisebenzi yami yosuku, ngigqamisa into esemqoka, kodwa ekupheleni kosuku ngizizwa ngikhathele ngokuphelele ngoba ngiphazanyiswa izingcingo, inzuzo encane kanye nemihlangano. Imisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu iyaqhubeka nokuhlehliswa, futhi izinhlelo ezinkulu zonyaka zisalotshwa ephepheni. Yini ongayenza ukuze uzisize?" kubuza u-Olga, oneminyaka engu-27.

Ngivame ukuhlangana nesicelo esifanayo ekuqeqesheni ukusebenza ngempumelelo kokuphatha. Amaklayenti akholelwa ukuthi isizathu esiyinhloko senkinga yawo ukuntula izinto eziza kuqala. Kodwa empeleni banjalo, umuntu nje akagxili kakhulu kubo.

Futhi isinyathelo sokuqala sokuxazulula le nkinga ukukhetha ithuluzi elifanele ukuze usebenze ekugxiliseni kwakho. Kufanele ilingane ncamashi nezici zakho zomuntu siqu: kufanele ucabangele izimo zomsebenzi wakho nendawo ohlala kuyo.

Ukuze uqalise, ungasebenzisa izindlela ezimbalwa ezidumile osekunesikhathi eside zibonwa njengezisebenzayo. Ngizama ukuwatusa kumakhasimende esisanda kuqala ukusebenza nawo.

Indlela Yokuqala: Qonda Imibandela Yokuhlola

Okokuqala, phendula umbuzo: Yiziphi izindlela ozisebenzisayo uma ubeka phambili? Impendulo evame kakhulu umbandela othi «ukuphuthuma». Ngayo, wonke amacala alandelana ngokuya ngomnqamulajuqu. Futhi kuphela ngemva kwalokho sakha imisebenzi emisha kumphumela othi "umakhi obonakalayo", sibuyisela emuva lezo ezingaqedwa kamuva.

Yibuphi ububi bale ndlela? Uhlu lwezinto eziza kuqala namuhla akufanele lufake nje kuphela lokho okuzolahlekelwa ukubaluleka kusasa, okungukuthi, okuphuthumayo, kodwa nalokho esikubiza ngokuthi "okubalulekile". Yilokhu okusiqhubela ekuzuzeni umgomo, noma okususa izithiyo ezinzima endleleni eya kuyo.

Futhi lapha abaningi benza iphutha lokushintsha indlela yokukhetha. I-Laconically, lokhu kungavezwa ngale ndlela: "Lokhu kuyaphuthuma kakhulu, ngoba kubaluleke kakhulu!" “Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba umnqamulajuqu ukusasa!” Kodwa uma uhlu lwakho lwezinto eziza kuqala ngosuku lungenayo imisebenzi eholela ekuzuzeni imigomo ebalulekile kuwe, udinga ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela uhlu lwakho lwezinto ozozenza.

Udinga ukunquma ukuthi iyiphi indlela oyisebenzisayo ukuze unqume «ukuphuthuma» kanye «nokubaluleka» kwemisebenzi nokuthi uyayixuba yini le miqondo emibili.

Indlela Yesibili: Thola Izigaba Ezintathu Zokubalulekile

Njengoba wazi, ama-horizons wokuhlela ahlukile. Uma sicubungula i-horizon yokuhlela yosuku olulodwa, kungcono-ke ukuqhubeka kanje:

  • Setha okukodwa okuphezulu okubalulekile kosuku. Lona umsebenzi ozochitha kuwo ubuningi besikhathi namandla akho namuhla;
  • Thola izinto ezintathu noma ezine ozochitha isikhathi esincane nomzamo kuzo namuhla. Kungcono uma ubhala ukuthi singakanani isikhathi (imizuzu emihlanu, imizuzu eyishumi) ohlela ukusichitha ecaleni elithile. Lokhu kuzoba uhlu lwakho "olubalulekile lokugcina".
  • Esigabeni sesithathu kuzowela lokho okungase kubizwe ngokuthi "amacala esimiso esisalayo." Azoqedwa uma sekusele isikhathi samahhala kubo. Kodwa uma behlala bengabonakali, ngeke kuthinte lutho.

Lapha sibhekene nombuzo othi: "Ungawasebenzisi kanjani amandla aphezulu "kokubalulekile kokugcina", ukubeka eceleni "okuyinhloko" ngokungazi? Indlela yesithathu izosiza ukuyiphendula.

Indlela Yesithathu: Sebenzisa Imodi Yesikhathi Esinensayo

Sichitha isikhathi sethu esiningi sokusebenza kumodi "yesikhathi esisheshayo". Kufanele sibambe iqhaza ezinqubweni ezijwayelekile futhi sicubungule inani elikhulu lolwazi.

"Isikhathi esincane" siyindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokumisa isimiso "sokugijima esondweni". Lokhu wukuzibheka wena ngokwakho kanye nesiqalo sokuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo: “Ngenzani? Okwani? Yini engingenzi futhi kungani?

Ukuze le ndlela isebenze kahle, landela le mihlahlandlela emithathu:

  1. Ngena esimisweni sakho sansuku zonke isiko elithile. Lokhu kufanele kube umsebenzi ovelayo usuku lonke ozokubeka kumodi "yesikhathi esincane". Kungaba ikhefu letiye, kanye nama-squats avamile. Isiko akufanele lithathe imizuzu engaphezu kwemi-5 futhi likuvumele ukuba uwedwa. Futhi-ke, kukulethela injabulo nenjabulo - khona-ke ngeke ukuhlehlise kuze kube kusasa.
  2. Khumbula ukuthi "isikhathi esincane" akusona nje isikhathi sokujabulela, kodwa futhi ithuba lokukhulisa ukwaneliseka kwakho ngemodi "yesikhathi esisheshayo". Futhi zibuze imibuzo emithathu: "Yimuphi umphumela okufanele ngiwuzuze namuhla?", "Isiphi isinyathelo esincane esilandelayo esibheke kulo mphumela okufanele ngisithathe?", "Yini engiphazamisayo kuwo nokuthi ngingaphazanyiswa kanjani?" Le mibuzo izokusiza ukuthi ugcine imigomo yakho ebalulekile engqondweni. Futhi ukuhlela izinyathelo ezincane ezilandelayo kuzoba ukuvimbela okuhle kakhulu kokuhlehlisa.
  3. Sebenzisa imodi yesikhathi esincane izikhathi ezimbili kuya kwezine ngosuku. Lapho uvame ukuba namandla futhi uthonywe izici zomhlaba wangaphandle, kufanele ushintshe kaningi kule modi. Imibuzo emithathu kanye nemizuzu embalwa iseshini ngayinye izokwanela. Umbandela oyinhloko ukuthi kufanele kukujabulise. Kodwa khumbula: ukusebenzisa le nqubo isikhathi esingaphansi kwesisodwa ngosuku akuwona neze ukuwenza.

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