Kuyini ukwesaba? Umuzwa obangelwa ukusongelwa, ingozi, noma ubuhlungu. Ezimweni eziningi, thina bantu sivame ukwenza idrama yesimo, sihlakulela ukwesaba kwangaphakathi "okuhlebela" izinto ezihlukahlukene ezingathandeki kithi. Kodwa ingabe kuwumuzwa wokwesaba ngokweqiniso?
Ngokuvamile sibhekana nesimo lapho ukunamathela kwethu ekwesabeni inkinga ethile kukhulu kunenkinga ngokwayo. Kwezinye izimo, lesi sitha esikhohlisayo sivame ukwakha izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi nokuphazamiseka kobuntu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi! Ukuvimbela lokhu ukuthi kungenzeki kuwe noma kumuntu osondelene nawe, siphakamisa ukuthi ucabangele ndawonye izindlela ezisebenzayo zokuzikhulula emuzweni olimazayo wokwesaba.
Umuzwa wokuzethemba ungaba khona lapho sizicabangela ngendlela eyakhayo. Ukulawula okuqaphelayo kwemicabango nokubona ngeso lengqondo kungaba usizo olukhulu kithi, okungenakushiwo ngokwesaba okukhula njengebhola leqhwa, elivame ukungalungisiswa. Ezikhathini zokukhathazeka okukhulu, sivame ukucabanga ngomphumela omubi kakhulu wesigameko, ngaleyo ndlela sidonse izinkinga ezimpilweni zethu. Akunangqondo ukususa izimpawu lapho kudingekile ukuqeda imbangela: ukunqoba ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi, sishintsha amaslayidi angalungile ngemicabango mayelana nesinqumo esihle saleso simo. Nakuba kungase kubonakale kukubi, isimo sengqondo sokuhle sidala amandla.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nokwesaba ukukuthola kuwe futhi … uye ngakhona. Isibonelo, wesaba izicabucabu. Qala ngokumane ugqolozele isicabucabu ube uqaphela ukuthi ungathuki ngenxa yokwesaba. Ngokuzayo uzoqaphela ukuthi ungayithinta, futhi ngemuva kwesikhashana uze uyithathe.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umuzwa wokwesaba uyingxenye yomsebenzi wokuzivikela womzimba. Umsebenzi wethu uwukubona kuphela ukuthi umuzwa ungowomgomo noma ungamanga. Ukucindezelwa kokwesaba kuyindlela yokuvumela ukwesaba kulawule ingqondo yethu enganakile futhi kube imbangela yokukhathazeka okuqhubekayo. Esikhundleni sokugwema noma ukuphendula ukwesaba ngokwethuka, kwamukele. Ukwamukela kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokunqoba.
A – vuma: vuma futhi uvume ukuba khona kokwesaba. Awukwazi ukulwa nento ongayivumi ukuthi ikhona. W - buka ukukhathazeka: wamukele, hlaziya izinga lokwesaba ukusuka ku-1 kuye ku-10, lapho u-10 kuyiphuzu eliphakeme kakhulu. Linganisa umuzwa wakho. A – ukwenza ngokujwayelekile. Zama ukuba ngokwemvelo. Kwabaningi, lokhu kungase kubonakale kuyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa kuwufanele ukuzama. Ngesinye isikhathi, ubuchopho buqala ukulawula isimo. R – phinda: uma kunesidingo, phinda ukulandelana kwezenzo okungenhla. E – lindela okuhle kakhulu: lindela okuhle kakhulu empilweni. Ukulawula isimo kusho, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukuthi ulungele umphumela omuhle kakhulu wanoma yisiphi isimo.
Abantu abaningi babheka ukwesaba kwabo njengokuhlukile. Kufanelekile ukuqonda ukuthi lokho okwesabayo kungenzeka ukuthi abantu abaningi babhekana nakho ngaphambi kwakho nangaphezulu ngemva kwakho, ezizukulwaneni ezalandela. Isikhala sezinketho zokuxazulula izinkinga ezithile sikhulu futhi sesivele sidluliselwe izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa, indlela yokuphuma kokwesaba isivele ikhona. Ukwesaba, okungenzeka kube inkohliso nje.