Okuqukethwe
Ngempela, kwanele ukufunda amanoveli avusa inkanuko abhalwe amadoda, kusho ochwepheshe bethu. Kungani amadoda ekhetha amagama aqinisekisa le nkolelo-ze yobulili?
"Yileyo ndlela amadoda avutha ngayo isifiso sabo"
Alain Eriel, psychoanalyst, sexologist
Lokhu kuqashelwa ngokufanele futhi ngezinye izikhathi, maye, kwenza lolu daba lube nzima kakhulu, ngoba abesifazane abathandi ikakhulukazi ukubizwa ngokuthi "isifebe." Kodwa amadoda awasho nhlobo lokhu ngoba efuna ukucasula owesifazane - yile ndlela abavusa ngayo isifiso sabo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngale ndlela bafuna ukuhlukanisa isithombe sowesifazane emfanekisweni womama. Bangase basho amagama amathenda ngaphambi nangemva kokusondelana, kodwa hhayi ngesikhathi sokuvuswa kwe-orgasmic. Amadoda amaningi acwile ngokuphelele endaweni yawo ye-edipal.
"amadoda ayesaba ukupholisa intshiseko yawo ngamazwi amnene"
U-Mireille Bonierbal, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezocansi
Ukuze uqiniseke ngobuqiniso balo mbono, kwanele ukufunda amanoveli ezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezibhalwe amadoda. Kugcwele amagama athi «isifebe» kanye nokunye ukudelela. Kukhona abesifazane abavuma ukudlala lo mdlalo futhi bamukele isilulumagama esithi «abesilisa», bazi ukuthi amadoda avulwa yilolu hlobo lwamagama.
Kodwa emadodeni, kungase kube nzima ukubiza ububele ngesikhathi socansi, ngoba besaba ukupholisa inkanuko yabo yobulili.