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Abaningi bethu bakhathazwa ukuphila kwansuku zonke nemisebenzi yansuku zonke — ukupheka, imihlangano yabazali, ukuya emtholampilo, emsebenzini ... Ukuqonda kanjani ukuthi yiliphi ibhizinisi eliphuthumayo futhi iliphi elingaphumi? Kubaluleke kangakanani ukudluliselwa kwegunya kanye nezicelo zosizo? Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emitholampilo u-Elena Tukhareli usiza ukuqonda.
Umhlaba kade uphokophele phambili kokubili ngokwezimo zokuphila kanye nangokwesimo sengqondo maqondana nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Bekungeke kube lula ukuchazela ogogo bethu ukuthi asinaso isikhathi sanoma yini, ngoba kwakufanele baphathe yonke into - ukusebenza, ukuphatha ikhaya, ukondla imindeni yabo. Kodwa emhlabeni wanamuhla, isikhathi, ukuguquguquka kanye namakhono ahlukahlukene kubaluleke kakhulu kunekhono lokugeza "emgodini." Phela, ukugeza nokugeza izitsha namuhla "kunganikezwa" ezintweni zasendlini (bese-ke umuntu kufanele alayishe izingubo ezingcolile emgqomeni futhi asule izitsha ngemva kokugeza), kodwa imisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu yokuphila ayikwazi.
Ukuze ungabi yisisulu "sokuvinjwa", kufanelekile ukufunda ukuhlukanisa imisebenzi ngokubeka kuqala (uma sikhuluma ngemisebenzi yobungcweti) kanye neqiniso lesifiso okwamanje (uma, ngokwesibonelo, sicabanga). mayelana nendlela yokuchitha usuku).
Ukusabalalisa imisebenzi, kulula ukusebenzisa indlela yokuhlela - i-matrix ye-Eisenhower. Kulula kakhulu ukuyidala. Sibhala uhlu lwemisebenzi bese simaka eduze komunye nomunye: ibalulekile noma cha? Kuyaphuthuma noma cha? Bese udweba itafula kanje:
I-Quadrant A - izindaba ezibalulekile neziphuthumayo
Nansi imisebenzi okuthi, uma iyekwa ingafezekanga, ibeke engcupheni izinhloso zakho, kanye nezindaba ezihlobene nempilo. Isibonelo, izincwadi eziphuthumayo, amaphrojekthi adinga ukulethwa okuphuthumayo, ubuhlungu obubukhali noma ukuwohloka.
Ngokuhlela okuhle, le quadrant ihlala ingenalutho ngoba awuqoqi imisebenzi okufanele ixazululwe ngokushesha. Akwethusi uma amanye amaphuzu evela lapha, kubalulekile ukuthi abe mancane. Uma kungenjalo, kuzodingeka ubuyekeze uhlu lwezinsuku zokugcina namacala.
I-Quadrant B - ibalulekile kodwa ayiphuthumi
Ngokuvamile lokhu kuwumsebenzi wethu oyinhloko: amacala abalulekile angenazo izinsuku zokugcina, okusho ukuthi singasebenza kuwo ngendlela ekhululekile. Lezi yizinhloso ezidinga ukuhlela futhi kuhloswe ngazo ukuthuthukisa amasu. Noma izinto ezihlobene nokuzithuthukisa nokugcina ubuhlobo bomphakathi, isibonelo: lalela inkulumo noma uye ejimini, uhlangane nabangane, shayela izihlobo.
Udinga ukuqaphela, ngoba uma ubambezeleka ukuqeda imisebenzi kusuka kulesi sikwele, "bangadlulela" ku-A quadrant.
I-Quadrant C — iyaphuthuma kodwa ayibalulekile
Sikhuluma ngeziphazamiso: ukuqeda imisebenzi yale quadrant akusizi ukufeza umgomo, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, kukuvimbela ukuba ugxile kulokho okubaluleke ngempela, kunciphisa ukusebenza kahle futhi kukuqede amandla. Ngokuvamile, lena yimisebenzi evamile, okuthi, nokho, ngokungenasihawu, "idle" isikhathi sethu esiyigugu.
Ukuthumela kuzosisiza ukuthi sibhekane nakho: isibonelo, ngenkathi uqeda umbiko ekhaya, ungacela umlingani wakho ukuthi ahambe nenja noma akhokhe izikweletu. Into esemqoka ukuthi ungabaphambanisi ngemisebenzi okufanele ibe ku-A quadrant: qiniseka ukuthi imisebenzi ayibalulekile ngempela.
I-Quadrant D — izinto ezingaphuthumi nezingabalulekile
Lena i-quadrant ethakazelisa kakhulu: izinto zihlangana lapha ezingelona usizo, kodwa esizithanda kakhulu. Lokhu kungaba, ngokwesibonelo, ukufunda amasayithi ahlukahlukene kanye nokufunda imilayezo kuzithunywa ezisheshayo — lokho esivame ukukubiza ngokuthi "udinga ukuphumula ngezinye izikhathi." Ngokuvamile le misebenzi ithatha isikhathi eminye imisebenzi.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ulahle ngokuphelele ukuzijabulisa, kodwa udinga ukugcina ukulingana kwezindaba ku-quadrant ngayinye. Uma unesethulo esibalulekile ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, bese uchitha isikhathi ezintweni ezisuka ku-D quadrant, kamuva uzifaka engozini yokubhekana nokujaha ku-A quadrant.
Isibonelo se-matrix sibonisa ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi ngamunye wethu akwazi ukuphathisa abanye futhi akwazi ukucela usizo. Lokhu akusenzi sibe buthakathaka ngaso sonke isikhathi emehlweni abanye. Kunalokho, le ndlela yokwenza isikisela ukuthi siyakwazi ukuhlola amakhono ethu ngokwanele futhi sabe isikhathi nezinsiza.
Kuthiwani ngokuhlehlisa?
Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka kanje: izinto zifika emphinjeni, kodwa awufuni ukuthatha noma yini, ngakho awenzi lutho nhlobo. Ukuskrola kokuphakelayo kwenkundla yezokuxhumana noma ukunamathela ochungechungeni. Konke lokhu kufana kakhulu nokuhlehlisa izinto - ukuthambekela kokuhlehlisa njalo izinto ezibalulekile neziphuthumayo.
Ukuhlehlisa izinto akuhambisani nobuvila, ingasaphathwa eyokuthi uphumule. Lapho umuntu evilapha, akabi nemizwa engemihle futhi akabhekane nemiphumela engathandeki. Lapho iphumula, igcwalisa izinqolobane zamandla futhi ikhokhiswa imizwelo eyakhayo. Futhi esimweni sokuzindela, sisaphaza amandla emisebenzini engasho lutho futhi sihlehlisa izinto ezibalulekile kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina. Ngenxa yalokho, asenzi yonke into noma senze esikudingayo, kodwa sikwenza kabi, futhi lokhu kunciphisa ukuzethemba kwethu, kuholela emizweni yecala, ukucindezeleka, nokulahlekelwa umkhiqizo.
Abantu abakhathazekile nabafuna ukuphelela bathambekele kakhudlwana ekuhlehliseni izinto, abazokhetha ukuthatha umsebenzi ngokuphelele noma abayohlale bewuhlehlisa uma bengakwazi ukuqedela uhlelo lwabo ngokuphelele ngokwanele ukuze bafane nesithombe sabo sezwe. Ezimweni ezinjengalezi, ukuhlela izinto kahle, ukuthola umuntu omethembayo ozobhekana nazo, kanye nokusebenza ngezinzuzo zesibili kungasiza. Okungukuthi, kufanelekile ukuzibuza umbuzo: yini enginika ukubambezeleka kwezindaba? Ngitholani kukho?
Uma unenkinga yokuhlela nokuqeda imisebenzi futhi usola ukuthi ukuhlehlisa nakho kuyimbangela, zama ukusebenzisana nochwepheshe mayelana nokuzethemba nokuzethemba, ngokwesaba ukungapheleli nokwenza amaphutha. Kuzoba lula kakhulu kuwe ukuhlela impilo yakho emva kwalokho.