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- I-Canteen: iseluleko sethu sokwenza izinto zihambe kahle
- Abanye abazali bakuthola kunzima ukushiya ingane yabo enkantini. Ungabanikeza siphi iseluleko ukuze banqobe lo muzwa?
- Kuthiwani uma abancane bedla okuncane kakhulu enkantini ngoba bengayithandi indawo noma izitsha ezinikezwayo?
- Yiziphi izinzuzo izingane ezingazithola enkantini?
- Abanye omasipala bavumela abazali abangenawo umsebenzi wobuchwepheshe ukubhalisa ingane yabo enkantini, usuku olulodwa noma ngaphezulu ngesonto. Ungabeluleka ukuba basebenzise leli thuba?
I-Canteen: iseluleko sethu sokwenza izinto zihambe kahle
Ingabe kufanele ngibhalise ingane yami enkantini? Inkinga kubazali abathile, abazizwa benecala ngokushiya ingane yabo encane usuku lonke esikoleni. Kodwa lapho usebenza, ngokuvamile akukho okunye ongakhetha kukho. Eqinisweni, i-canteen inenzuzo kubafundi abancane. Buyekeza nge-psychoanalyst uNicole Fabre okuqondisayo ukuze uzwe kangcono isimo ...
Abanye abazali bakuthola kunzima ukushiya ingane yabo enkantini. Ungabanikeza siphi iseluleko ukuze banqobe lo muzwa?
Okokuqala, kufanele uvume ukuthi ukubhalisa ingane yakho enkantini akulona iphutha. Abazali kufanele bazitshele ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukwenza ngenye indlela futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthi benza konke okusemandleni abo “kulokhu okunye”. Kubalulekile futhi ukulungiselela ingane umbono we-canteen ngokuchaza ukuthi abafundi abaningi bahlala lapho. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, akufanele ibekwe phambi kwe-fait accompli. Futhi lapho abazali bezizwa benecala kancane yilapho bezokwazi khona ukwethula lesi sinyathelo ngendlela engokwemvelo enganeni yabo.
Kuthiwani uma abancane bedla okuncane kakhulu enkantini ngoba bengayithandi indawo noma izitsha ezinikezwayo?
Uma nje abazali beshiya ingane yabo enkantini, kungcono ukuthi bagcine ibanga elithile. Yebo, singayibuza ingane ukuthi idle kahle yini, kodwa uma iphendula ngokuthi cha, akufanele silingise. “Awu, awukadli, kubi kakhulu kuwe”, “kuhle kakhulu, nokho.” Okubi kakhulu kungaba ukungena kulo mdlalo ngokuwunikeza, isibonelo, ukudla okulula kwekhefu.
Yiziphi izinzuzo izingane ezingazithola enkantini?
Kukhona izinzuzo eziningana enkantini. Izindawo zokudlela zesikole zinikeza izingane indawo. Kweminye imindeni, wonke umuntu udla yedwa noma azidlele ngokuthanda kwakhe, ngendlela enganakile. Ikantini ikhumbuza izingane ukuthi kunehora lokudla. Abafundi kufanele futhi babe nempahla ethile, bahlale phansi, balinde ithuba labo ... Inkanti yenkantini iphinde ibe nenzuzo ekuhlalisaneni nezingane ezincane njengoba bedla isidlo sasemini ngamaqembu, nabangane babo. Okuwukuphela kwenkinga kwezinye izindawo zokudlela zesikole umsindo. Kwesinye isikhathi "kungethusa" omncane. Kodwa leli yiphuzu abazali okufanele balivume ...
Abanye omasipala bavumela abazali abangenawo umsebenzi wobuchwepheshe ukubhalisa ingane yabo enkantini, usuku olulodwa noma ngaphezulu ngesonto. Ungabeluleka ukuba basebenzise leli thuba?
Lapho izingane zingahlala nemindeni yazo, kuhle lokho. Nokho, kungase kuzuzise ukuthi omncane adle ngezikhathi ezithile noma njalo enkantini. Lokhu kumvumela ukuthi azijwayeze le ndawo. Uzobe ezilungiselele kangcono uma abazali bakhe belethwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuze bamshiye enkantini nsuku zonke. Ukudla kanye ngesonto esikoleni, isibonelo, kunikeza ingane isethi yezilinganiso kanye nesigqi. Futhi abazali bangazinika inkululeko encane ngalolu suku. Ngakho-ke ilungele abasha nabadala.