Okuqukethwe
Umhlaba wonke wabheka phansi. Abangani bakho abaningi sebephelelwe yimisebenzi noma batshona, omunye wabangane bakho ugula kakhulu, omunye unovalo ngenxa yokuzihlukanisa yedwa. Futhi uhlushwa imizwa yehlazo kanye namahloni ngenxa yokuthi konke kuhamba kahle kuwe - kokubili ngomsebenzi kanye nempilo. Unenhlanhla ngaliphi ilungelo? Ingabe ubukufanele? Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uRobert Taibbi sisikisela ukuqaphela ukufaneleka kwecala nokuliyeka liqhubeke ngokukhetha izindlela ezintsha zokwenza.
Emasontweni ambalwa manje, bengilokhu ngeluleka amaklayenti ukude, nge-inthanethi. Ngihlala ngithintana nabo ukuze ngithole ukuthi babhekana kanjani nesimo, nangamandla ami onke okubasekela. Akumangalisi ukuthi iningi labo manje libhekene nokukhathazeka.
Abanye abakwazi ukukhomba umthombo wako, kodwa umuzwa ongacacile wokungakhululeki nokwesaba uguqule ukuphila kwabo kwansuku zonke kwabheka phansi. Abanye babona ngokucacile izizathu zokukhathazeka kwabo, kuyabonakala futhi kuphathekayo - lezi zinkathazo ngomsebenzi, isimo sezezimali, umnotho uwonke; ukukhathazeka ngokuthi bona noma abathandekayo babo bayagula, noma indlela abazali asebekhulile abahlala kude abaphila ngayo.
Amanye amaklayenti ami nawo akhuluma ngecala, amanye aze asebenzise igama elithi icala losindile. Imisebenzi yabo isabelwe bona, kuyilapho abangani abaningi bephelelwa umsebenzi kungazelelwe. Kuze kube manje, bona nezihlobo zabo baphile saka, kuyilapho omunye wozakwabo egula, nezinga lokufa kwabantu edolobheni liyakhula.
Lo muzwa oshubile abanye bethu namuhla bayawuzwa. Futhi kuyinkinga okufanele ixazululwe
Kufanele bagcine ukuhlukaniswa, kodwa bahlale endlini evulekile enogesi, amanzi nokudla. Futhi bangaki abantu abahlala endaweni engathokomele kangako? Ingasaphathwa yamajele noma amakamu ababaleki, lapho ekuqaleni bekunezinsiza ezincane, futhi manje izimo eziminyene nezimo ezingezinhle zokuphila zingase zibe sibi kakhulu isimo…
Isenzakalo esinjalo asihambisani neze necala elibuhlungu, elibuhlungu lalabo abasinda enhlekeleleni embi, impi, ababona ukufa kwabathandekayo. Futhi nokho ngendlela yawo umuzwa ojulile abanye bethu abanawo namuhla, futhi kuyinkinga okufanele ixazululwe. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso.
Qaphela ukuthi ukusabela kwakho kungokwemvelo
Siyizidalwa zomphakathi, ngakho-ke ububele kwabanye buzifikela ngokwemvelo kithi. Ezikhathini zobunzima, asibheki nje kuphela kulabo abasondelene nathi, kodwa nomphakathi wonke wabantu.
Lo muzwa wokuba yingxenye nomuzwa wecala ufanelekile ngokuphelele futhi unengqondo, futhi uvela ekwamukeleni okunempilo. Kuvuka kithi lapho sizwa sengathi izindinganiso zethu eziyisisekelo zephuliwe. Lo muzwa wecala ubangelwa ukuqaphela ukungabi nabulungisa esingenakukuchaza futhi sikulawule.
Sekela obathandayo
Umsebenzi wakho uwukuguqula umuzwa olimazayo ube isenzo esakhayo nesisekelayo. Xhumana nalabo abangani abaphelelwe umsebenzi manje, nikeza noma yiluphi usizo ongakwazi ukuluthola. Akukhona mayelana nokususa icala, kodwa mayelana nokubuyisela ibhalansi nokuqondanisa amanani akho nezinto eziza kuqala.
Khokha enye
Khumbula ifilimu yegama elifanayo noKevin Spacey noHelen Hunt? Iqhawe lakhe, elenzela othile umusa, lacela lo muntu ukuba angambongi, kodwa abanye abantu abathathu, nabo, babonga abanye abathathu, njalonjalo. Ubhubhane lwezenzo ezinhle lungenzeka.
Zama ukusabalalisa imfudumalo nomusa kulabo abangaphandle kwendingilizi yakho yangaphakathi. Isibonelo, thumela igrosa emndenini ohola kancane noma unikele ngemali enhlanganweni esiza abantulayo ukusiza izingane ezigulayo. Ingabe kunendaba emhlabeni wonke? Cha. Ingabe kwenza umehluko omkhulu uma kuhlanganiswa nemizamo yabanye abantu abafana nawe? Yebo.
Qaphela ukuthi nawe awuhlukile.
Ukuze ulondoloze ukuthula kwengqondo, kungaba usizo ukuyeka, ukwazisa lokho onakho ngokubonga, futhi uvume ngobuqotho ukuthi ube nenhlanhla yokugwema ubunzima obuthile. Kodwa kubalulekile ngokufanayo ukuqonda ukuthi ngokushesha noma kamuva wonke umuntu kuyodingeka abhekane nezinkinga zokuphila. Ungadlula kule nkinga ungenamyocu, kodwa qaphela ukuthi ngesinye isikhathi impilo ingase ibe inselele wena mathupha.
Yenza lokho ongakwenza kwabanye manje. Futhi mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku bazokwenzela okuthile.
Mayelana Nombhali: U-Robert Taibbi ungusonhlalakahle osemtholampilo oneminyaka engama-42 yesipiliyoni njengomtholampilo kanye nomphathi. Wenza ukuqeqeshwa ekwelashweni kwezithandani, ukwelashwa komndeni kanye nesikhashana esifushane kanye nokuqondisa komtholampilo. Umbhali wezincwadi eziyi-11 ezikhuluma ngokululekwa ngokwengqondo.