Okuqukethwe
- Ukwenqaba kwengane ukondla kungaba njalo ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila, iba nini i-pathological?
- Yiziphi izimpawu ezicacile ze-anorexia yengane?
- Singayichaza kanjani i-anorexia ezinganeni?
- Isiphi iseluleko ongasinikeza abazali uma Ingane ingafuni ukunceliswa?
- Kuthiwani “ngabadlayo”?
- Ingabe ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla esemncane kuwuphawu lwe-anorexia nervosa ebusheni?
- Kuvidiyo: Ingane yami idla kancane
Ukwenqaba kwengane ukondla kungaba njalo ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila, iba nini i-pathological?
Okokuqala, ake siveze ukuthi noma iyiphi ingane ingase ibhekane nezimo ezingezinhle nezehlele ebudlelwaneni bayo nokondliwa, ngoba ingase ikhathazwe ubuhlungu bamathumbu noma ezinye izimbangela zezinto eziphilayo zesikhashana.
Sikhuluma nge-anorexia yosana lapho kunomthelela ejikeni lesisindo somntwana. Ukuxilongwa kwenziwa ngudokotela olandela ingane. Uzobona ukungabikho kwesisindo somzimba omncane, kuyilapho abazali benikeza ukudla okujwayelekile.
Yiziphi izimpawu ezicacile ze-anorexia yengane?
Uma uMntwana enqaba ukudla, ufulathela ikhanda lapho kufika isikhathi sokuphakelwa kwebhodlela. Yilokhu okushiwo omama kudokotela. Bachaza ukukhathazeka kwabo, “akuhambi kahle”.
Ukukala kuwukuhlola okubalulekile ekuvakasheni okuvamile kudokotela wezingane. Lesi esinye sezimpawu eziqinile zenkinga yokudla.
Singayichaza kanjani i-anorexia ezinganeni?
I-anorexia enganeni “iwumhlangano” phakathi komntwana onenkinga ngesinye isikhathi nomama naye obhekene nesikhathi esinzima ekuphileni kwakhe. Izici zingaba ziningi futhi zihluke, futhi kungalesi sikhathi esibalulekile lapho inkinga icwebezela futhi iba yi-pathological.
Isiphi iseluleko ongasinikeza abazali uma Ingane ingafuni ukunceliswa?
Khumbula ukuthi isikhathi sokudla yisikhathi senjabulo! Ukuxoxisana phakathi kuka-Baby kanye nosingamzali, kufanele ukhululeke ngangokunokwenzeka, ikakhulukazi uma izinkinga ziqala… Uma ukulandelela kwezokwelapha kuvamile, uma isisindo somntwana sivumelana, ukukhathazeka kuvame ukuba okwesikhashana. Abanye omama bakuthola kunzima ukulinganisa ukuthi ingane yabo idinga malini ngempela. Kunalokho, iwuchungechunge lwezimpawu, njengengane ethambile, edangele futhi elele kabi, okufanele ikhulume nomama. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, ngudokotela owenza ukuxilongwa.
Kuthiwani “ngabadlayo”?
Umuntu odla kancane yingane ezuza kancane ngokudla ngakunye, futhi ekhuluphala nyanga zonke. Nakulokhu, kufanele ubhekisise ishadi lokukhula kwalo. Uma iqhubeka nokuguquguquka ngokuvumelana, ngisho nalapho ihlala isilinganiso esiphansi, asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka, ingane yakhiwa kanjalo.
Ingabe ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla esemncane kuwuphawu lwe-anorexia nervosa ebusheni?
Umntwana owazi ubunzima bangempela ezinyangeni zakhe zokuqala zokuphila uzoba nezinkinga zokudla njalo. Kumelwe azuze ekulandeleni okuvamile, ukukhomba ngokucacile izingozi zokuthuthukisa ama-phobias okudla. Kunoma ikuphi, udokotela uzonaka amashadi akhe okukhula kanye nesisindo sakhe. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi iminonjana yobunzima bokudla iye yatholakala ebuntwaneni kwenye intsha ene-anorexia. Kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuhlola, ngenxa yezinkulumo ezikha phezulu zabazali ngale ndaba. Kodwa kuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukhumbula ukuthi ekuqaleni inkinga ye-pathological inakekelwa ebuntwaneni, ayanda amathuba "okuyixazulula"!