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Ungasichaza kanjani isifiso sokubuka ingane yakho lapho usebenzisa i-Intanethi?
Uma abazali benza uhlobo “lomjaho wezikhali zokugada” ku-Net, ngokuyinhloko kungenxa ye-pedophilia. Bazizwa benecala ngokuvumela izingane zabo zidlale buthule kuyi-Internet futhi bakhathazeke kakhulu ngokuthi yini engase yenzeke. Ngokufaka izilawuli zabazali futhi uhlole ukuthi ingane yakho ihamba kanjani ku-Net, uzama ukufakazela abanye ukuthi awudeleli nokuthi awuyivumeli ingane yakho yenze noma yini.
Ingabe ukugada ingane yakho kuwukwephula ubumfihlo bayo?
Ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-12/13, ukuqapha umsebenzi wengane yakhe ku-inthanethi akusho ukwephulwa kobumfihlo bakhe. Intsha ikhuluma nabazali bayo, ifuna babone ukuthi yenzani, ibatshele izimfihlo zabo ezincane. Inkundla yezokuxhumana i-Facebook ivinjelwe okungenani iminyaka engu-13 ubudala, kodwa ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ingxenye enkulu ye-CM1 / CM2 ibhaliswe lapho. Lezi zingane cishe zihlale zibuza abazali bazo njengabangani, okufakazela ukuthi akukho okufihlayo kubo, ukuthi aziwuhlanganisi umqondo wokugcinwa kwemfihlo. Bashiya abazali babo ukufinyelela mahhala empilweni yabo yangasese.
Ungabanika kanjani inkululeko ngaphandle kokuzifaka engozini?
Ezinganeni, umhlaba wangempela kanye nomhlaba obonakalayo kusondelene kakhulu. I-inthanethi izoveza indlela yokuba ngabo. Uma ingane yenza into ewubuphukuphuku empeleni, izothambekela ekuzifake engozini ku-Net, ngokuqhubeka nezingxoxo noma ukukhuluma nabantu abangabazi. Ukuze bagweme lokhu, abazali kufanele baziphathe ngendlela echazayo futhi baxwayise ingane yabo. Kufanele futhi babeke izilawuli zabazali ezisebenzayo ukuze bavimbele ukufinyelela kumasayithi athile.
Indlela yokusabela uma ingane yakhe iwela kusayithi lezithombe ezingcolile?
Uma lapho sihlola i-computer yengane yakhe, sithola ukuthi uye wahlangana nezingosi zezithombe ezingcolile, asikho isidingo sokwethuka. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi abazali yibona abakulungele ukukhuluma ngezithombe ezingcolile ngoba banamahloni lapho bebona ingane yabo ithola ulwazi ngocansi. Kodwa-ke, asikho isidingo sokuvala noma ukufaka amadimoni ocansini ngokusho izinto ezinjengokuthi “kungcolile”. Abazali kufanele bathembane futhi bazame ukuchaza ubulili ngokuthula. Bakhona ikakhulukazi ukuze baqiniseke ukuthi ingane yabo ayinawo umbono ongalungile ngocansi.