UCarl Rogers, indoda engezwayo

Ukuhlangana no-Carl Rogers kuyinkathi yoshintsho lwempilo yami yonke. Awukho omunye umcimbi kuwo owaba nomthelela onamandla nangokucacile kangaka isiphetho sami somuntu siqu nesomsebenzi. Ekwindla ka-1986, kanye nozakwethu abangu-40, ngaba nengxenye eqenjini elikhulu lezokuxhumana, elaliqhutshwa eMoscow ummeleli oholayo wesayensi yezokusebenza kwengqondo yabantu, uCarl Rogers. Isemina yathatha izinsuku ezimbalwa, kodwa yangishintsha, imibono yami, okunamathiselwe, izimo zengqondo. Wasebenza neqembu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo wayenami, wangizwa futhi wangibona, wanginika ithuba lokuba mina.

UCarl Rogers wayekholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu ufanelwe ukunakwa, ukuhlonishwa nokwamukelwa. Lezi zimiso zikaRogers zaba yisisekelo sokwelashwa kwakhe, "indlela yakhe egxile kumuntu" ngokujwayelekile. Ngomsebenzi wakhe osekelwe kule mibono ebonakala ilula ngokwedlulele, uCarl Rogers waqokelwa uMklomelo Wokuthula KaNobel ngo-1987. Izindaba zalokhu zafika kuye lapho equlekile.

Ukufaneleka okukhulu komuntu kuka-Carl Rogers, ngokubona kwami, kulele eqinisweni lokuthi wakwazi ukwenza ngobuntu bakhe umsebenzi wangaphakathi oyinkimbinkimbi wokuba i-homo humanus - umuntu onobuntu. Ngakho-ke, wavulela abantu abaningi "i-laboratory ye-humanism", lapho wonke umuntu ofuna ukusungula kuqala kuye, bese ebudlelwaneni babanye abantu pax humana - izwe elinobuntu lidlula.

Izinsuku zakhe

  • 1902: Wazalelwa endaweni engaphansi kwedolobha laseChicago.
  • 1924-1931: Ezolimo, imfundo yezenkolo, kwase - MS, Ph.D. kwiPsychology evela eTeachers College, Columbia University.
  • 1931: Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emtholampilo eSikhungweni Sosizo Sezingane (Rochester).
  • 1940-1957: UProfesa e-Ohio State University, wabe ese-University of Chicago.
  • 1946-1947: Umongameli we-American Psychological Association.
  • 1956-1958: Umongameli we-American Academy of Psychotherapists.
  • 1961: Omunye wabasunguli be-American Association for Humanistic Psychology.
  • Ngo-1968: Kuvula Isikhungo Sokufunda Ngomuntu eLa Jolla, eCalifornia. 1969: Idokhumentari yakhe ethi Journey into Self, mayelana nomsebenzi weqembu le-psychotherapy, iwina i-Oscar.
  • I-1986: Iqhuba amaqembu okuxhumana ajulile nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo eMoscow naseTbilisi.
  • NgoFebhuwari 14, 1987: wafa eLa Jolla, eCalifornia.

Izihluthulelo ezinhlanu zokuqonda:

Wonke umuntu unamandla

“Bonke abantu banekhono lokwakha izimpilo zabo ngendlela yokuthi ibanikeze ukwaneliseka komuntu siqu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo iyakha ngokwenhlalo.” Abantu bavame ukukhula ngendlela eyakhayo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kuzoba njalo, kodwa wonke umuntu uzalwa enekhono elinjalo. Eseyingane, uRogers wabona ukuphila okuningi kwemvelo, ikakhulukazi, ukuthuthukiswa kwezimvemvane. Mhlawumbe, ngenxa yokucabanga ngokuguqulwa kwabo, i-hypothesis yakhe mayelana namandla omuntu yazalwa, kamuva yasekelwa umkhuba we-psychotherapeutic kanye nocwaningo lwesayensi.

lalela ukuzwa

“Akunandaba ukuthi umuntu ukhuluma kujule kangakanani noma kukha phezulu kangakanani, ngimlalela ngokucophelela, ngokuzimisela, engikwaziyo ukukwenza.” Sikhuluma kakhulu, kodwa asizwani futhi asizwani. Kodwa umuzwa wokuthi umuntu ubalulekile, ukubaluleka kuphakama ngenxa yokunaka komunye umuntu kithi. Uma sizwakala, imigoqo iyasuswa - amasiko, inkolo, ubuhlanga; kukhona umhlangano womuntu nomuntu.

Qonda omunye umuntu

“Engikutholile okuyinhloko bengizokwakha ngale ndlela elandelayo: Ngabona ukubaluleka okukhulu kokuzivumela ukuba ngiqonde omunye umuntu.” Ukusabela kokuqala kubantu isifiso sokubahlola. Kuyaqabukela sizivumela ukuba siqonde ukuthi amazwi, imizwa, izinkolelo zomunye umuntu zisho ukuthini kuye. Kodwa yiso kanye lesi simo sengqondo esiza omunye ukuba azamukele yena nemizwa yakhe, asiguqule thina ngokwethu, embule into eyayisiphunyuke ngaphambili. Lokhu kuyiqiniso futhi ebudlelwaneni be-psychotherapeutic: akuwona amasu akhethekile angokwengqondo anqumayo, kodwa ukwamukela okuhle, uzwela olungenakwahlulela kanye nokuziveza kwangempela komelaphi kanye neklayenti lakhe.

Ukuvuleleka kuyimfuneko ebudlelwaneni

“Ngokokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​nabanye, ngiye ngaphetha ngokuthi ebuhlotsheni besikhathi eside asikho isidingo sokuzenza umuntu ongeyena.” Akunangqondo ukwenza sengathi uyakuthanda uma unobutha, ubonakale uzolile uma ucasukile futhi ugxeka. Ubudlelwano buba yiqiniso, bugcwele impilo nenjongo lapho sizilalela ngokwethu, sivulekele thina futhi, ngakho-ke, kumlingani. Izinga lobudlelwano babantu lincike ekutheni sikwazi ukubona ukuthi singobani, sizamukele, singazifihli ngemuva kwesifihla-buso - kithina nakwabanye.

Siza abanye babe ngcono

Ukudala isimo lapho ungakwazi ukuveza ngokukhululekile, imizwa yakho, okungukuthi, evumelana nentuthuko yomuntu, kuwumsebenzi hhayi kuphela izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo. Kufanele ikhonzwe yibo bonke abazi izisebenzi zezenhlalakahle, kufanele ikhuthazwe ngumuntu siqu, umndeni, uchwepheshe - ngegama, noma yikuphi ubuhlobo bomuntu. Ngamunye wethu angasiza ekuthuthukiseni omunye umuntu ngokuvumelana nezinhloso nemigomo yakhe.

Izincwadi nezindatshana zikaCarl Rogers:

  • Ukubheka i-psychotherapy. Ukwakheka Komuntu” (Inqubekela-phambili, Univers, 1994);
  • "Ukwelulekwa kanye nokwelashwa kwengqondo" (Eksmo, 2000);
  • "Inkululeko Yokufunda" (Sense, 2002);
  • "Indlela egxile kumakhasimende ku-psychotherapy" (Imibuzo Yengqondo, i-2001, No. 2).

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