Esikhathini sobuchwepheshe bolwazi sekuya ngokuba nzima ukuthi amambuka afihle izindaba zothando eceleni. Kufanele uqaphele kakhulu, ngaphandle kwalokho amavidiyo ayekethisayo ngeke awele ezandleni zamakhosikazi awo kuphela, kodwa nasemehlweni ezinkulungwane zabantu kuWebhu.
Umsebenzisi wenkundla ye-TikTok uCharlie Clark utshele ababhalisile ukuthi udalule kanjani ukukhashelwa kothandekayo ngenxa yerekhodi elirekhodiwe emshinini womnyango. Kuvidiyo yakhe ebizwa ngokuthi "Lapho uthola mayelana nokukhashelwa kwesithandwa sakho ngosizo lwensimbi yokungena emnyango," intombazane yaqala yabonisa izithombe ezimbalwa nesithandwa sayo, kwase kulandela irekhodi elibi.
Kumazwana, uchaze ukuthi ividiyo ithunyelwe kumlingani yinkosikazi yakhe, ithola ukugona kwabo phambi komnyango ongaphambili kukuhle kakhulu. Kodwa lapho uCharlie ebona ukungena ocingweni lwesithandwa sakhe ngephutha, wayengahleki. Le vidiyo ikhombisa isithandwa sakhe singqongqoza emnyango, omunye wesifazane aphume endlini, asiqabule futhi asigone.
Ngemva kokutholakala kokuqoshwa, uCharlie wahlukana ngokushesha nabangathembekile. Izinkulungwane zababhalisile kuWebhu ziveze amazwi okumeseka futhi zifisa ukuthola indoda efanelekayo engeke ikhohlise omunye.
"Thembela, kodwa qinisekisa" - isisho esidala kodwa esihlakaniphile sasebenza kahle endabeni kaCharlie nesoka lakhe langaphambili. Ungakhuluma okuningi mayelana ne-intuition noma umqondo wesithupha, kodwa kukhona okwamshukumisela ukuba abheke ifoni yesithandwa sakhe, futhi ngesizathu esihle: kukhona ubufakazi obuphathekayo bokungathembeki, futhi akukho zizathu ezizosindisa lapha.
Ingabe leli cala lizothinta inani lezinguquko? Nakancane. Mhlawumbe le ndaba izokwenza umuntu acabange kabusha umbono wakhe ngobudlelwano noma abe yisifundo esihle sesikhathi esizayo. Futhi othile uzocabanga kanzima mayelana nokuthi ahlole kabili ukuqoshwa kwamavidiyo enziwe ikhamera emnyango wakhe, noma ahlale ekungazini okujabulisayo.