Umqondo womuntu uyinto ehlekisayo. Sonke sivame ukucabanga ukuthi sazi kahle ukuthi singayilawula kanjani ingqondo yethu (okungenani ezingeni lemizwelo nelokuziphatha), kodwa empeleni konke akulula kangako. Kulesi sihloko, sizobheka inani lemikhuba emibi evamile yokungazi lutho kwethu. "Izicupho" ezinjalo zivame ukusivimbela ukuba siphile impilo esiyifunayo: 1. Gxila kokubi kakhulu kunokuphozithivu Kwenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu. Ngamunye wethu angakhumbula abantu abangaphezu koyedwa onazo zonke izibusiso zaleli zwe, kodwa olokhu enganelisekile ngokuthile. Lezi zinhlobo zabantu zinemizi emikhulu, izimoto ezinhle, imisebenzi emihle, imali eningi, amakhosikazi anothando, nezingane ezinhle—kodwa abaningi babo bazizwa bedabukile, bahlale begxile ezintweni ezingahambi ngendlela abafuna ngayo. "Isicupho" esinjalo sengqondo kufanele sifakwe efihlekile. 2. Ukufuna ukuphelela Abantu abathanda ukuphelela bangabantu abesaba kakhulu ukwenza amaphutha futhi ngokuvamile bazibekela amathemba aphezulu kakhulu. Abaqapheli ukuthi empeleni abakwenzayo kuwukuzikhohlisa kulokho okusolakala ukuthi abaphelele. Ngenxa yalokho, bakhubaza ikhono lokuqhubekela phambili, noma bazilahlekisele endleleni engapheli eya emigomweni yokuvelela ngokweqile okungenakwenzeka ukuyifeza. 3. Ukulinda indawo efanele/isikhathi/umuntu/umuzwa Lesi sigaba sikhuluma ngalabo abazazi ngokwabo isimo “sokuhlehlisa”. Kuhlale kunokuthile emicabangweni yakho njengokuthi “manje akusona isikhathi” nokuthi “lokhu kungahlehliswa”. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma ulinda isikhathi esithile esikhethekile noma ukuqhuma kwesisusa ukuze ekugcineni uqale ukwenza okuthile. Isikhathi sithathwa njengensiza engenamkhawulo futhi umuntu akakwazi neze ukuhlukanisa ukuthi zihamba kanjani izinsuku, amasonto nezinyanga. 4. Isifiso sokujabulisa wonke umuntu Uma uzwa isidingo sokufakazela ukubaluleka kwakho kwabanye abantu, kufanele nakanjani usebenzele ukuzethemba. Labo abafuna ukuqashelwa yiwo wonke umuntu nayo yonke into ngokuvamile abaqapheli ukuthi umuzwa wenjabulo nokugcwala uvela ngaphakathi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda i-banal, iqiniso elaziwa isikhathi eside: akunakwenzeka ukujabulisa wonke umuntu. Ukwamukela leli qiniso, uzoqonda ukuthi ezinye izinkinga ziqala ukuzihambela zodwa. 5. Ukuziqhathanisa nabanye Ukuziqhathanisa nabanye kuyindlela engalungile nengalungile yokwahlulela impumelelo yakho nokufaneleka kwakho. Abekho abantu ababili abafanayo, abanokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo nezimo zokuphila. Lo mkhuba uyinkomba yokucabanga okungenampilo okuholela emizweni engemihle enjengomona, umona namagqubu. Njengoba wazi, kuthatha izinsuku ezingama-21 ukuqeda noma yimuphi umkhuba. Zama ukusebenzela iphuzu elilodwa noma amaningi kulawa angenhla, futhi impilo yakho izoshintsha ibe ngcono.
2022-11-11