Ukwazi amandla akho nobuthakathaka bakho, izimfanelo namaphutha kuzokuvumela ukuthi uzuze okuningi kuzo futhi uziqinisekise kangcono. Lesi yisinyathelo sokuqala sokuthola ukuzethemba. Ngakho-ke, uzokwazi ukugqamisa amandla akho kuzo zonke izimo zansuku zonke: ehhovisi, nabangani noma nomndeni. Ngokunquma amaphuzu akho abuthakathaka, ungasebenzela ukuwathuthukisa. Ukubheka ubuntu bakho, izimpumelelo zakho, kuzokusiza uzizwe uhlukile futhi uzethemba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwazi kahle kuzovumela nalabo abaseduze kwakho ukuthi bakwazi futhi bakwazise kangcono.

Emsebenzini, ekhaya, nabangane, ufeza inqwaba yemisebenzi nsuku zonke engacela ukunconywa kulabo abaseduze nawe. Funda ukwamukela nokwazisa le mpendulo eyakhayo. Ungacabanga ngalokhu njengesikhuthazo ongazakhela phezu kwaso ukuze ubone amandla akho ayinhloko. Uzokwazi ukulisebenzisa ngokunenzuzo ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho.

Ukuzethemba kukhombisa ngokuma kwethu nasekubukeni kwethu. Gcina umhlane wakho uqondile, amahlombe phezulu, ikhanda phezulu, futhi uhambe ngesinyathelo sokuzethemba. Momotheka kakhulu, abantu bazodonseka kuwe. Abantu abanokuzethemba okuphezulu bazibandakanya kulezi zinhlobo zokuziphatha okungakhulumi. Thatha ugqozi kubo. Ukuze ukhululeke kakhudlwana, ungazibheka esibukweni ukuze ubone umehluko phakathi kokuma kwakho okuhlukene nesimo sobuso. 

Ukuzethemba kuhamba ngendlela umuntu azibheka ngayo, kodwa nangalokho akholelwa ukuthi abanye abakucabangayo ngaye. Kubalulekile ukuzibophezela nabanye mayelana nokukhetha kwakho, amanani nemibono. Akakwamukeli ukugxekwa okungakhi, unya kanye nezinkulumo ezilimazayo. Uma othile ekuzwisa ubuhlungu, ngamazwi noma ngokuziphatha kwakhe, kufanele umazise ngesizotha. Ukuzethemba kuhamba ngaphandle kokungabaza ngokugomela. 

Ukuze uthole ukuzethemba okwengeziwe, phuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka. Le ndawo ingachazwa njenganoma iyiphi indawo noma isikhathi lapho uzizwa ukhululeke ngokuphelele, lapho uphethe zonke izindlela zakho. Noma yini engaphandle kwale ndawo ifana nentsha futhi ingabukeka isabeka. Ukuthatha izinselele ezintsha, ukuya kubantu abasha, ukwenza umsebenzi ohlukile zonke ziyizibonelo zokukukhipha endaweni yakho yokunethezeka. Ukujwayela indawo engaziwa kuze kube manje kungase kukuvumele ukuthi uthuthukise amanye amakhono futhi ufunde okwengeziwe ngawe. Lapho izinyathelo ezithathwayo ziba zinkulu, kukhulu ukuziqhenya.