Abaningi bethu bayazi ukuthi thina ngokwethu sinamandla okuthonya isimo sempilo yethu. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi akulula ukuhlakulela imikhuba ethile emihle. Futhi lapha okuthiwa "izilungiselelo" ziza ukusiza. Ukungabi yi-panacea noma isixazululo esisheshayo senkinga, ukuguqulwa okujwayelekile kwemicabango engalungile ibe yinhle, ngamanye amazwi, izimo zengqondo, akugcini nje ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo, kodwa futhi nempilo yonke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufakwa kunganciphisa izinga lokucindezeleka, futhi lokhu okungabalulekile kobani namuhla? khetha lezo ezihambisana nenhliziyo yakho. Abantu abaningi bakuthola kuwusizo ukurekhoda izilungiselelo zabo ngokubhala, njengakunothiphedi, noma endaweni ebonakalayo—emotweni, esiqandisini, njll. Kutuswa ukuphinda izilungiselelo ozibonisile ngemva kokuvuka ekuseni, lapho ingqondo yakho ingakabi naso isikhathi sokuvuka ngokugcwele futhi ugxile ezinkathazweni zosuku lwamanje. Izibonelo zezilungiselelo zezempilo: Ungabhala futhi izimo zakho zengqondo ngendlela eyakhayo. Esikhundleni sokuthi “Ngifuna ukuba mncane” zama ukukusho njengokuthi “Ngiyawujabulela umzimba wami omuhle nokhazimulayo.” Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isilungiselelo ozikhethela sona, ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ukusabela okungalungile kuvela ekhanda lakho, esikhundleni saso ubeke isilungiselelo esihle. Uzobona ngokusebenza ukusebenza kahle kwale ndlela yokuthuthukisa impilo yakho.
2022-11-11