Impilo yowesifazane emva kwamashumi amane igcwele izinto ezitholakele ezimangalisayo. Okuningi obekubalulekile eminyakeni embalwa edlule kuphelelwa yincazelo kithi. Okubalulekile wukuthi besingazange sikunake nakuqala.
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Umzimba wethu - lokho oyikho manje - uyafana, ulungile. Futhi ngeke kube khona omunye
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, kwabonakala kithi ukuthi kudingeka sizame kancane, futhi ekugcineni, sizoyithuthukisa unomphela: yayizoba umzimba wephupho futhi ikhule imilenze ezindlebeni zayo ngokwayo. Kodwa cha, ngeke! Ngakho-ke umsebenzi wamashumi eminyaka alandelayo uzwakala njengokufisa okuncane kakhulu: siziphatha ngokucophelela futhi sizame ukugcina ukusebenza isikhathi eside. Futhi siyajabula, sijabule, sijabule ngokuthi sisengqondweni eqinile nenkumbulo ehluzekile.
Ngendlela, mayelana nenkumbulo. Into exakile kakhulu. Ngokucace kakhulu, ama-frills akhe avela lapho ekhumbula ubusha bakhe. “Ngidivosile? Futhi sasiyini isizathu? Ngabe ngahlupheka? Ngahlukana nabangane abambalwa? Futhi ngani?" Cha, uma ngizikhandla, khona-ke, ngizokhumbula futhi ngiphethe ngokuthi zonke izinqumo bezilungile. Kodwa isikhathi esiwubuqili siwenzile umsebenzi waso. Senza kahle okwedlule, limbozwe inkungu yobuhle, futhi ngesizathu esithile izinkumbulo ezinhle kuphela phezulu. Kwababi, udinga ukwehlela endaweni yokugcina ekhethekile.
Kuze kube muva nje, ezemidlalo “bezingubuhle”. Isisu esiyisicaba, isinqe esiyindilinga - lokho bekuwumgomo wethu. Maye, umthetho wamandla adonsela phansi emhlabeni wonke, njengothando lwamaswidi, wabonakala ungenakunqotshwa. I-butt ifinyelela phansi, isisu, ngokuphambene nalokho, sisondela ekubunjweni okuhle kwebhola. Hhayi-ke, njengoba yonke into ingenathemba kangako, kungabonakala sengathi ungavalelisa kwezemidlalo. Kodwa cha! Njengamanje akukho esingakwenza.
Sesiyazi ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ukuthi ngaphandle kokuzivocavoca njalo nokuzelula, sibhekene nekhanda elibuhlungu, iqolo, amalunga aminyene nezinye izinkinga.
Ingabe ufuna ukuphuma embhedeni ngaphandle kwe-creak emashumini ambalwa eminyaka alandelayo, hamba nezinsuku nodokotela izikhathi ezimbalwa futhi ube nesikhathi sokudlala nabazukulu abangakabi khona, kodwa esesivele sibalindele ngenhlanganisela yokwethuka nenjabulo ? Bese uqhubekela phambili, uye ku-yoga - endaweni yenja ebambe umlomo phansi. Ungakwazi ngisho nokukhonkotha uma kukwenza uzizwe ungcono.
Emzabalazweni phakathi kobuhle nokunethezeka, ubuhle bathathwa ngaphandle kwemibandela. Izithende? Uboya obucasulayo besikhumba? Izingubo aziphefumuli, akulungile ukungena emotweni noma ukukhasa nezingane phansi? Esithandweni sakhe. Akukho ukuzidela ngobuhle. Ngesinye isikhathi, umamezala wami wokuqala wabuza ngokumangala ukuthi ngangikhathele yini emini ngenxa yezigxivizo zezinwele. Lapho ngisemncane, ngangingakwazi ukuqonda incazelo yombuzo. Kungenzeka yini ukukhathala izithende?
Kodwa kungakapheli amashumi ambalwa eminyaka, ngawushiya umncintiswano. Kubonakala sengathi ngiyilungele indima yomamazala: Ngibheka ngokumangala kwabesifazane abakwazi ukuhamba ngezithende ibanga elingaphezu kokuphonswa ukusuka esihlalweni semoto ukuya esitulweni esiseduze. Kusetshenziswa izingubo zokuluka, i-cashmere, amabhuzu ama-ugg amabi nama-orthopedic slippers.
Uhlobo lwezingubo, ubukhulu nokuhlanzeka kwetshe, umbala wesikhwama - umbala wanoma yini - konke lokhu kulahlekelwe incazelo nencazelo. Ubucwebe bezingubo zokugqoka, ama-rags engiwagqoke namuhla futhi ngawalahla ngaphandle kokuzisola kusasa, izikhwama ezincane, umsebenzi oyinhloko ongewona ukukhulisa i-osteochondrosis, nokunganaki okuphelele kwezitayela zenkathi - yilokhu manje okusohlwini lwe-ajenda.
Sengingaphezu kwamashumi amane futhi ngizazi kahle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke uma imfashini ethile ehlanyayo iza ne-silhouette noma umbala oveza amaphutha ami (enginomuzwa wokuthi imfashini ibilokhu iwenza emashumini ambalwa eminyaka adlule!), ngingawuziba kalula lo mkhuba.
Kungemva kwamashumi amane lapho siqale sicabangisisa ngokuhlinza ubuhle obuhlobene neminyaka bese sithatha isinqumo esinengqondo.
Endabeni yami, kuzwakala kanje: namakhiwane naye! Sesiqala ukuqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukunqoba imvelo. Bonke lobu buso obuboshiwe, amakhala nezindebe ezingezona ezemvelo zibukeka zihlekisa futhi ziyethusa, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, akekho osasizwa ukuba ahlale kulo mhlaba isikhathi eside kunalokho okwakuhleliwe. Pho kungani lokhu kuzikhohlisa?
Ingabe kukhona ongakuthandi ngabazali bakho? Ingabe sazithembisa ukuthi ngeke sifane nabo? Haha kabili. Uma sithembekile kithi ngokwethu, singabona kalula ukuthi zonke izimbewu zinikeze amahlumela amahle kakhulu. Siwukuqhubeka kwabazali bethu, nakho konke ukushiyeka kwabo kanye nobuhle babo. Yonke into ebesifuna ukuyigwema, yavele yaphenduka isiphithiphithi. Futhi akukhona konke lokhu okubi. Futhi kukhona ngisho nokuqala ukusijabulisa. Maye noma bajabule, akukacaci.
Ucansi lukhona impela ezimpilweni zethu. Kodwa eminyakeni engamashumi amabili kwakubonakala sengathi “amakhehla angaphezu kwamashumi amane” ayesevele enonyawo olulodwa ethuneni futhi ayengakwenzi “lokhu”. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphandle kocansi, izinjabulo ezintsha zasebusuku ziyavela. Ingabe umyeni wakho uhonile namhlanje ebusuku? Injabulo leyo, injabulo leyo!
Abangane bethu baba umkhwe nomamezala, kanti abanye - bayesabeka ukucabanga - ogogo nomkhulu
Phakathi kwabo kukhona nabancane kunathi! Sibabuka ngemizwa exubile. Phela bangabafundi esifunda nabo! Baphi ogogo? Baphi bomkhulu? NguLenka no-Irka! Lona nguPashka, osemncane ngeminyaka emihlanu! Ingqondo iyenqaba ukucubungula lolu lwazi futhi ilufihle esifubeni esinama-artifact angekho. Lapho, lapho ubuhle obungapheli, amaqebelengwane akwenza ulahlekelwe isisindo, abafokazi abavela emkhathini, i-myelophone kanye nomshini wesikhathi sezivele zigcinwe.
Siyaqaphela ukuthi lawo madoda ayivelakancane asakwazi ukusijabulisa ezikhathini eziningi abancane kunathi. Sibala ukuthi bayasifanelekela yini njengamadodana. Kuyasikhulula ukuqonda ukuthi akunjalo, kodwa umkhuba uyethusa. Kubonakala sengathi eminyakeni eyishumi basazothuthela eqenjini elithi “kungaba indodana yami”. Leli themba lidala ukuhlaselwa okuthusayo, kodwa futhi likhombisa ukuthi abobulili obuhlukile basesesilinganisweni sezintshisekelo zethu. Kuhle lokho, futhi ngiyabonga.
Siyazi ngokuphelela kwanoma iyiphi insiza - isikhathi, amandla, impilo, amandla, ukholo nethemba. Sake sasingacabangi nhlobo ngakho. Kwakukhona umuzwa wokungapheli. Idlulile, futhi intengo yephutha inyukile. Ngeke sikwazi ukutshala isikhathi namandla emisebenzini engathakazelisi, kubantu abacikayo, ebuhlotsheni obungenathemba noma obulimazayo. Amanani ayachazwa, okubalulekile kuyasethwa.
Ngakho-ke, abekho abantu abangahleliwe abasele empilweni yethu. Labo abasondelene emoyeni sibazisa kakhulu. Futhi siyabazisa ubudlelwano futhi sibona ngokushesha izipho zokudalelwa ngendlela yemihlangano emisha, emangalisayo. Kodwa ngokushesha nje, ngaphandle kokuzisola nokungabaza, sasusa ikhoba.
Futhi sitshala izingane ngokuphefumulelwa - imizwa, isikhathi, imali
Okuthandwayo kwemibhalo kuyashintsha. Iya ngokuya iyancipha intshisekelo yezinganekwane, iya ngokuya iyanda emibhalweni yokuphila kwangempela, umlando, iziphetho zabantu namazwe. Sifuna amaphethini, sizama ukuqonda izizathu. Kunanini ngaphambili, umlando womkhaya wethu siqu uba ubalulekile kithi, futhi siqaphela kabuhlungu ukuthi okuningi akusaziwa.
Siphinde singene enkathini yezinyembezi ezilula (eyokuqala yayisebuntwaneni). Izinga lomzwelo likhula ngokungaqondakali ngokuhamba kweminyaka futhi ngokuzumayo liyehla esikalini. Sikhala izinyembezi zemizwelo emicimbini yezingane, sigcobe izinsalela zezimonyo enkundleni yemidlalo yaseshashalazini nasesinema, sikhala silalele umculo, futhi akukho nokukodwa kokucela usizo ku-inthanethi okusishiya singenandaba.
Amehlo ahluphekayo - ezingane, e-senile, enja, ekati, izihloko ezikhuluma ngokuphulwa kwamalungelo ezakhamuzi zakithi namahlengethwa, amashwa kanye nezifo zabantu esingabazi ngokuphelele - konke lokhu kusenza sizizwe sibi, ngisho nasemzimbeni. Futhi siphinde sikhiphe ikhadi lesikweletu ukuze sinikele ngemali esiza umphakathi.
Izifiso zempilo sezibalulekile. Maye. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sizwile ama-toast: "Into eyinhloko impilo!" Futhi ngisho nabo ngokwabo babefisa njalo into enjalo. Kodwa ngandlela-thile okusemthethweni. Ngaphandle kwenhlansi, ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuthi, empeleni, sikhuluma ngani. Manje izifiso zethu ngempilo kulabo abasizungezile ziqotho futhi zizwakala. Ngicishe ngihlengezele izinyembezi. Ngoba manje sesiyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani.
Sibahle ekhaya. Futhi kuhle ukuba wedwa. Ebusheni bami, kwakubonakala sengathi zonke izinto ezithakazelisa kakhulu zazenzeka ndawana thize. Manje konke ubumnandi bungaphakathi. Kuvele ukuthi ngithanda ukuba ngedwa, futhi kuyamangalisa. Mhlawumbe isizathu siwukuthi nginezingane ezincane futhi lokhu akwenzeki njalo? Kodwa kusengalindelekile. Kubukeka sengathi ngiyasuka ku-extraversion kuye kwe-introversion. Ngiyazibuza ukuthi ngabe lokhu kuwumkhuba ozinzile noma lapho ngineminyaka engu-70 ngizophinde ngithandane nezinkampani ezinkulu?
Lapho beneminyaka engamashumi amane, abesifazane abaningi kufanele benze isinqumo sokugcina mayelana nenani lezingane.
Nginezintathu zazo, futhi angikafuni ukuyeka umbono wokuthi lesi sibalo singabuyekezwa phezulu. Nakuba ngokombono ongokoqobo, kanye nombono we-intervertebral hernias, okunye ukukhulelwa kuwukunethezeka okungenakufinyeleleka. Futhi uma sesivele senze isinqumo nge-hernias, namanje angihlukani nenkohliso. Umbuzo mawuhlale uvulekile. Ngezinye izikhathi ngibuye ngicabange ngokutholwa. Lokhu futhi ukuphumelela kweminyaka.
Njengoba iminyaka ihamba, ngizizwa ngincipha ukukhononda futhi ngibonga kakhulu. Uma ngibheka emuva, ngibona izinto eziningi ezinhle futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi ngangiba nenhlanhla kaningi kangakanani. Ngenhlanhla nje. Kubantu, imicimbi, amathuba. Hhayi-ke kahle, angidukanga, angiphuthelwa.
Uhlelo lweminyaka ezayo lulula. Angilweli lutho. Ngiyakujabulela enginakho. Ngilalela izifiso zami zangempela - ziba lula futhi zicace ngokuhamba kweminyaka. Ngijabule kubazali nezingane. Ngizama ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe endalweni futhi ngichithe isikhathi nabantu engibathandayo. Ngaphambili ukulondolozwa ngokucophelela kanye, yebo, intuthuko.