Ingabe abazali kufanele bacele iseluleko somzali ku-inthanethi futhi bafune ukusekelwa ku-inthanethi? Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sasemtholampilo u-Gale Post uxwayisa ngokushicilela ulwazi lomuntu siqu ngengane ngokucophelela. Esikhathini esizayo, lokhu kungaphenduka izinkinga ezinkulu ezinganeni.
Sijwayele ukuthola ulwazi oluvela ku-inthanethi, sifuna iseluleko kungqondongqondo ehlangene ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kodwa imingcele yendawo yomuntu siqu, kuhlanganise nesikhala solwazi, ihlukile kuwo wonke umuntu.
Udokotela wezengqondo uGail Post wazibuza ukuthi abazali bangakwazi yini ukuxoxa ngezinkinga zezingane zabo ku-inthanethi. Yini okufanele uyenze uma udinga iseluleko? Futhi wazi kanjani ukuthi yiluphi ulwazi olungafanele ukuthumela? Ungathola izimpendulo nokusekelwa kuwebhu, kulula futhi kuyashesha, uyavuma, kodwa kukhona nezingibe.
“Mhlawumbe ingane yakho iyaxhashazwa noma icindezelekile noma ihlukunyezwa esikoleni. Ukukhathazeka kuyakuhlanyisa. Udinga iseluleko, futhi ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Kodwa lapho ufaka ukwaziswa komuntu siqu, okuningiliziwe, nokuyekethisayo kuyi-Internet, kungase kuthinte inhlalakahle yengane yakho emphakathini nangokomzwelo futhi kushiye uphawu ngekusasa,” kuxwayisa iGail Post.
Amazwana avela kubantu ongabazi ngeke athathe indawo yeseluleko sochwepheshe nezingxoxo nabantu obathandayo.
Sifundisa izingane ubungozi bokuthumela izithombe ozishuthe zona ezingacacile noma ezingcolile kanye nezithombe zephathi ku-inthanethi. Sixwayisa ngobuxhwanguxhwangu base-inthanethi, siyakukhumbuza ukuthi yonke into eshicilelwe yibo ingase ivele ngemva kweminyaka futhi ithinte kabi amathuba emisebenzi noma kwezinye izimo.
Kodwa lapho thina ngokwethu sikhathazekile futhi singakwazi ukubhekana nokwethuka, silahlekelwa ukuqonda kwethu. Abanye baze babe nezinsolo zokuthi ingane isebenzisa izidakamizwa, ichaze ukuziphatha kwayo ngokobulili, izinkinga zokuziphatha, ubunzima bokufunda, ngisho nokushicilela imibiko yokuxilongwa kwengqondo.
Njengoba ulangazelela izimpendulo, kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi ukwabelana ngalolu hlobo lolwazi akufaki ingane engozini kuphela, kuphinde kwephule ubumfihlo.
Amaqembu ezinkundla zokuxhumana eziku-inthanethi okuthiwa «avaliwe» ngokuvamile anamalungu angu-1000 noma ngaphezulu, futhi asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi umuntu othile «ongaziwa» ngeke abone ingane yakho noma asebenzise ulwazi olutholiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphawula kwabantu ongabazi ngeke kuthathe indawo yokubonisana nochwepheshe futhi ukhulume nabantu obathandayo abasazi ngempela isimo sakho.
Kungumsebenzi wabazali ukuthola ukuthi incwadi yakho izoba yingozi yini kumntwana osemncane
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bacela ingane yabo imvume yokushicilela ngaye. Lokhu, vele, kuhle, kusho uGale Post. Kodwa izingane azikwazi ukunikeza imvume ngokuqaphela, azinakho ulwazi oludingekayo nokuvuthwa ukuze ziqonde ukuthi ukushicilelwa kungathinta isiphetho sabo eminyakeni eminingi kamuva. Yingakho izingane zingakwazi ukuvota, ukushada, noma ngisho nokuvuma ukuxhashazwa kwezokwelapha.
“Ingane ingase ivumele ukuba kushicilelwe imininingwane ngayo ukuze ikujabulise, igweme izingxabano, noma ngenxa nje yokuthi ayiqondi ubucayi bendaba. Kodwa-ke, umsebenzi wabazali awukona ukuncika ekwahluleleni kwengane, kodwa ukuthola ukuthi incwadi yakho izoba yingozi yini kuye, "kukhumbula uchwepheshe.
Njengochwepheshe wezengqondo nomama, ukhuthaza abazali ukuthi bacabange kabili ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngengane yabo ku-inthanethi. Ngemva kweminyaka, esekhulile, usezothola umsebenzi ohlonishwayo, aye kuhulumeni, agijimele isikhundla somphakathi. Khona-ke ulwazi olumfaka engozini luzovela. Lokhu kuzochitha amathuba okuthi ingane yakho endala ithole i-aphoyintimenti.
Ngaphambi kokwabelana, zibuze:
1. Ngabe ukuzila kwami kuzoyidida noma kucasule ingane?
2. Kwenzekani uma abangani, othisha noma abantu obajwayele befinyelela lolu lwazi?
3. Ngisho noma (a) evuma manje, ingabe uyocasulwa yimi ngemva kweminyaka?
4. Yiziphi izingozi ezingaba khona zokuthumela ukwaziswa okunjalo manje nasesikhathini esizayo? Uma kwephulwa ukugcinwa kwemfihlo, ingabe imfundo yesikhathi esizayo yengane yami, umsebenzi, umsebenzi, noma idumela layo izothinteka?
Uma ulwazi oluthile luyingozi ukuthumela ku-inthanethi, kungcono ukuthi abazali bafune izimpendulo nokusekelwa kubangane nezihlobo, bafune usizo kuzazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, abameli, othisha, odokotela.
“Funda izincwadi ezikhethekile, funa iseluleko, funa ukwaziswa ngezingosi ezithenjwayo,” kukhuluma iGail Post kubazali. “Futhi sicela uqaphele kakhulu okuthunyelwe okuqukethe ulwazi ngengane yakho.”
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